Tag: consciousness

Decluttering

The incoming energies in the last 48
hours have been extremely intense.
Waves upon waves undulating in.
Be kind to yourself — we are still in them.

So many old patterns of habits, of processing experiences , of thought are being lovingly dismantled. It is not easy, as it leaves one in a space of Divine not knowing , but our human mind focuses more on the ‘not knowing’ than the Divine aspect of this. Allow this all to be a part of the Divine expressed through you.

Allow yourself to be in a space of suspension , of quiet presence , observation. Your body is recalibrating: your lower chakras are coming back online more clearly in tune with the higher chakras , as it is all One system.

With this recalibration there might arise deep griefs , buried angers and more that have no clear origin. You don’t need to figure everything out — allow.
Allow the body with its Innate Intelligence to process this emotion , this energy , for it is alchemizing it.

In this way space is being made for new light codes , new frequency codes to infuse the body and activate aspects of the DNA that hold all the skills and technologies and ‘gifts’ that you have accrued over many lifetimes.

Remember all your emotions are sacred — Information streams. They simply give you information about aspects of your Being to be observed , reflected upon , and then allowed to move out. Unacknowledged emotion is unacknowledged energetic flow — emotion that has been backed up in the body and the etheric body. The energies are breaking apart the denser , stuck areas and thus emotions begin to flow again.

All of this allows You to be open to more multidimensional awareness. Allows your expanded senses, knowings, to operate without blockage, obstruction. As your senses expand, so too does your vision and your ability to accommodate information from multiple realms and not merely the 3D in front of you.

You are moving through the 3D/4D corridor of your journey, with moments of clear 5D knowing. The 5D is here , even those dimensions beyond. We are simply calibrating to it and to do this, energy must flow –everything hidden in density rises into the light of awareness. It is like so many geometric shapes or tones rearranging into a more harmonious chord. The echo and vibrational tone of your Being.

Remember , when we clean , when we clear things out , declutter , there is always a moment of mess before the clarity can present itself. Know, this is the work you are doing –and you know how to do it.

Give yourself rest. Don’t judge.
Try not to say ‘it should be a certain way.’ It is happening exactly how it is suppose to happen for You–and that will frequently look and feel differently and unfold differently than it does for others.

Bless yourself. Love You. You are doing amazing work. Know you are loved ,
you are loved , you are loved….

Blessings to us all,
Allannah Capwell ❤️

Family Therapist- Charlie McCready

CAFCAAS stands for “Children and Family Court Advisory and Support Service.” It is a government organization in England that provides advice to family courts and works to promote the welfare of children involved in family court proceedings, such as divorce, child custody disputes, and other related matters. CAFCAAS officers provide independent assessments, reports, and recommendations to assist the courts in making decisions that are in the best interests of the children involved.

It’s astonishing that, in this case, a junior civil servant working in a stressful envivonment, underpaid, under-trained, and under-resourced, can make a decision that overrides expert advice from a doctor working in mental health with years of experience. On top of this, the assessment made by CAFCASS, saying there’s no sign of parental alienation, came after about four years of parental alienation. This parent had not been in this child’s life. The alienation had been intense. This is what should be investigated. But it’s not. The child says the other parent does not influence them, and CAFCASS listens to that and nothing more. It’s not questioned as to why this child is in therapy for depression and anxiety. It couldn’t be because they’ve been coerced into hating and rejecting a parent who loves them, possibly? Or that they’re under a lot of pressure at home from the alienating parent? No. It all gets blamed on the parent who is not even in their life. How convenient. They will even blame the ‘target’ parent for going to court to fight for justice as a reason the children are stressed. Yes, they are stressed, but why does this parent have to go to court to see their children? The problem is there is no measure or standardised definition of parental alienation and, therefore, no specialist training. I am sure this will change. But at the moment, the ‘target’ parent is really cast adrift. The (indoctrinated) child’s decision to cut a loving parent out of their life should be challenged. People who can make such life-changing decisions about our families should be trained to spot signs of parental alienation and have the means to address it.

#charliemccready

#parentalalienationcoach

Awakening is Remembering 💯❤️

To The Ascension LightWorker Collective

As our frequency changes, a new world will emerge. This transition to a higher dimensional way of being is the 3D to 5D Shift, it requires that we shift our thinking to a higher vibrational frequency from mind centered thinking to heart centred knowing.

They call it ‘awakening’ but really it’s remembering, a deep wordless knowing that rises from within, it’s not something you learn but something you have always embodied. All memories are stored in the soul’s imprint, beyond time, beyond logic,

Wisdom from lifetimes encoded in your energy. In dreams and in De ja Vu. in the quiet moments when the noise fades, activation of remembrance is why some truths feel so familiar the first time you hear them, why certain symbols, sounds or places. stir something ancient in you.

Not all transformation looks dramatic. Most Of it is Cellular, Silent. Subtle. But no Less Powerful. The most important shifts often happen when it feels like nothing is working. Because that’s when the old system within begins to dissolve.

Not mistaking stillness for stagnation or mistaking quiet for failure. You are in the moment between timelines. The breath before the leap. If It Feels Like Nothing is Happening this is a strong sign that shifts are occurring behind the scenes .

Growth is messy. It loops, spirals, and stings. You’re not ever failing, you’re peeling back layers.

For some ascending that feel frustrated in certain parts of their awakening journey, you are not stuck. You are in the quiet part, the part where everything starts to shift within . You might not see it yet or all at once . You might feel at times like the momentum slowed down or disappeared but underneath the surface, something greater is recalibrating.

Human beings are not meant to be doing Machines. If you have been feeling tired, stuck, uninspired recently, It’s not because something is wrong with you. You were not divinely created to wake in fear or with dread. To measure your worth by output or spend your days surviving routines that strip the essence of the Soul.

For those that feel like your life doesn’t reflect who you really are at this point in life. That’s not failure. That’s evidence that you are remembering. You are not lazy. You are not broken. You are not ungrateful. You are simply sensitive to misalignment.

You are not stuck forever. Your current reality is not your final form. You are not late. You are not lost. You are remembering and waking up to the truth.

Humanity were taught to call exhaustion in self “normal.” To silence the aches and pains. To press on. But that ache, that pain is sacred. It is the Soul’s calling of what needs to be consciously recognised.

Reality Doesn’t Respond to What You Want

It Mirrors Who You Are. The universe isn’t reacting to your desires . It’s reflecting your frequency. We are not passive observers. We are transmitters, Projectors. Reality isn’t “out there.” It’s unfolding from within.

Why visualising a new life doesn’t always change your current one. Because your system isn’t just listening to your words, it’s vibrating to your field.

The ego is a tool, it just needs to be aligned, not erased. A healthy ego serves your soul, while a distorted ego serves only illusions and fear .

You manifest what matches your nervous system baseline. What you have practiced. What your energy believes is real. Not what you hope for but what you inhabit and embody, when things don’t seem to be shifting , ask: What part of me doesn’t believe this is possible? What fear am I still building around? What version of me is this desire assigned to?

You don’t create by wishing, you create by becoming and when your being holds the frequency of truth reality bends to meet it.

Resistance Isn’t the Problem It’s the Portal.

What you’re pushing against might be the very doorway you’re meant to walk through.

Most people fear resistance. We may take it as a sign to stop. But resistance is sacred. It’s where your system is trying to hold the old reality together. When something inside you resists change it’s not trying to ruin your progress. It’s trying to protect you from the unknown.

The greater the change you’re stepping into, the louder the resistance becomes. The reason why is because you’re leaving the terrain your nervous system calls safe.

The moment you stop making resistance wrong-it begins to dissolve . It’s not a wall. It’s a signal. And it’s pointing you exactly where to go. Recognising where resistance is showing up the strongest in life, consciously exploring what it is pointing towards.

The nervous system holds time differently.

Safety doesn’t come from age, it comes from permission. Permission to soften, to open, to feel and to finally Rest .

Not everything that asks for your energy deserves it. Your power is sacred-guard it with intention. Energetic clutter within and without will scramble the nervous system. You thrive in stilhess, not chaos.

You are not starting from zero, you are returning, reconnecting, reclaiming what has always been yours this is the great remembering and your soul has been waiting for it.

Healing isn’t linear. It’s cyclical and the moment you feel safe you shift conscious timelines. You don’t heal the past by reliving it. You heal the past by finally becoming the one who was missing all along “Yourself”.

You don’t need to be perfect to Ascend

Being spiritual doesn’t mean you stop feeling. True growth is learning to feel everything without letting it control you. Your humanness is sacred too.

It’s never too late to become the True Self

There is no deadline for becoming real.

All are always welcome to return home to who they truly are.

Ascension is not escape, It’s not about floating away from Earth. Real ascension is integration, grounding your higher self into the physical body and living with awareness in this reality.

In Loving and Devoted Ascension Service

By Ascension Lightworkers .

Lawyers & Parental Alienation- Charlie McCready

Does anyone care to comment? When I have more time, I’d like to gather more data on what alienated parents have actually experienced in the family court system. How long did it take? What was the outcome? How much money was spent? Did it lead to reunification? If the court ordered contact, was it enforced—and if so, how did that go?

Alienated parents often pour their life savings into a legal system they once believed would protect their rights and their children’s well-being—only to emerge financially drained, emotionally shattered, and, in many cases, no closer to justice.

This highlights the urgent need for reform. Lawyers dealing with these cases should be trained to recognise attachment disordered parental alienation – the false narratives and coercive, manipulative behaviours that drive it. The legal system must do better, not only for parents who are being erased from their children’s lives but, most importantly, for the children themselves—caught in a battle they never chose.

Perhaps we expect too much. Perhaps we should know better by now. After all, injustice isn’t confined to family courts or parental alienation. Look at the wider world—those who commit crimes often walk free, while those who expose them suffer the consequences. The alienated parent is no different: seeking truth in a system that too often fails to protect the innocent while enabling the abuse.

I don’t mean to sound cynical. I try to stay focused on solutions. But we shouldn’t have to ‘fight’ to see our own children in a court of justice—because we are not criminals. We are parents. Parental alienation isn’t simply a legal matter; it’s a psychological and relational issue—one that the law is often ill-equipped to handle. And for many, prolonged legal action is not only financially impossible but also emotionally destructive. While sometimes necessary, court should be a last resort, used only when every other effort to protect a child’s well-being has been exhausted.

If you are going through what’s commonly known as ‘parental alienation’, know you’re not alone. I’ve been through it myself. Personally and professionally, I have over 20 years of experience. I am reunited with my children and here to offer support with daily posts on social media and also with the coaching I offer. Feel free to reach out to me anytime.

#charliemccready

#parentalalienationcoach

#parentalalienation

#FamilyCourtReform

Emotional Safety 🍾💯

In psychology, emotional safety refers to an emotional state achieved in attachment relationships wherein each individual is open and vulnerable. The concept is primarily used by couples’ therapists to describe intimate relationships. When a relationship is emotionally safe, the partners trust each other and routinely give each other the benefit of the doubt in questionable situations. When emotional safety is lost, the partners are inclined to be distrustful, looking for possible hidden meanings and potential threats in each other’s words and behaviors.

Remember, emotional safety includes mutual respect, open communication, empathy, and consistent support. Building this foundation strengthens the neural pathways associated with trust and intimacy, leading to a more fulfilling and lasting connection.

Emotional safety is a basic human need and an essential building block for all healthy human relationships.

Emotional safety is the visceral feeling of being accepted and embraced for who you truly are and what you feel and need.

Feeling chronically emotionally unsafe causes intense psychological distress—and, often, greater isolation and more difficulty reaching out.

“Precaution is better than cure.”

Emotional safety is about being authentic and sharing thoughts and feelings with another person without any fear. Frequent criticism and invalidating remarks, especially from a loved one, is a sure path to stripping any relationship of emotional safety.

Key Takeaways 🗝 :

Safety doesn’t happen by accident.

When safety is first, you last.

Check yourself before you wreck yourself. Accidents hurt, safety doesn’t.

No Safety, Know Pain. Know Safety, No Pain.

I didn’t loose you

I didn’t lose you.

I just stopped chasing.

And there’s a difference.

Because if I had kept chasing—

if I had kept showing up

every time you pulled away,

if I had kept softening myself

to make room for your distance—

we’d probably still be together.

But I’d be empty.

Chasing you meant abandoning me.

It meant constantly shrinking

to fit into the small spaces

you were willing to offer.

It meant tolerating silence,

reading between the lines,

and accepting breadcrumbs

as if they were a feast.

It meant reaching out

even when you didn’t reach back.

Apologizing just to keep the peace,

even when I wasn’t the one

who broke it.

I get it.

You’re avoidant.

You have wounds so deep

that closeness feels like danger

and love feels like pressure.

And I held space for that—

for as long as I could.

But here’s the truth:

it’s not your fault that you were hurt.

It’s not your fault that life made you guarded.

But it is your responsibility to heal.

It is your choice

to either face your trauma

or let it wreck the people who try to love you.

So no—

I didn’t lose you.

I simply chose not to keep running

after someone who was walking away.

Because love shouldn’t be a chase.

And I shouldn’t have to lose myself

just to keep someone else.