Charlie McCready-Alienating any threat to their ego, hidden agenda & control

Parental alienation involves psychological abuse, and coercive control. It involves dark dynamics where people, often driven by insecurity, unresolved trauma, narcissism, attachment disorders (and more), resort to manipulation and cruelty to maintain dominance.

In these toxic relationships, some perpetrators perceive their victims as threats to their control, ego, or hidden agendas. This perception becomes the breeding ground for intensified abuse and manipulation. The more control slips through their fingers, the more they tighten their grip, all driven by the irrational fear of losing what they believe is rightfully theirs. Or wishing to punish.

And when victims, often after enduring prolonged suffering, gather the courage to sever ties with their oppressors, the reaction is often volatile. Furious at the prospect of losing their grip on power, the perpetrators retaliate with even greater ferocity. They see the victim’s actions as challenging their supremacy and respond by escalating the abuse, seeking to reassert their control.

This vicious cycle perpetuates the suffering of those ensnared within it. Victims find themselves between the desperate need for liberation and the dread of the backlash they may face when attempting to break free. The emotional scars from these abusive relationships can run deep, and the healing journey can be long. It’s incredibly helpful to surround yourself with people or be in communities where others understand what you’re going through. You can find strength in understanding the pathology and knowing you are not alone. You can reclaim your life. And so can the children.

#charliemccready

#parentalalienationcoach

#mothersmatter

#FathersMatterToo

#FathersMatter

#overcomingtrauma

Allow yourself to be carried

Can you allow yourself to be ‘carried’ into The Divine? Which will mean letting go of the every day, personal, subtle control that hangs onto the illusional experience within a controlling, containing, gradually dissolving construct.

UNION IN THE DIVINE:

Within the Divine Union Stage, there is a specific point, where we are THEN carried. Words to describe this become ever more difficult, but a STAGE where you are then CARRIED into the emergence of God Source and all the Self Realisation and Consciousness that shall then…come.

SEEMINGLY REAL CHOICES:

If it is your destiny to become Self Realised again within this lifetime, you will have made MANY previous choices relating to your own life. Choices, no matter your culture or ‘way’ / style, to attain the conscious awareness of The Divine within you and around you. For the human, still within the Construct but on a spiritualised or awakening journey, many of those choices will have seemed painful, difficult, hard, or at times confusing. Choices that you KNOW take you into ‘No man’s land’ again and again at a human level. Yet you have the innate courage to do so. And keep walking. At the human level. letting go again and again, of so much, just to STAY TRUE to your KNOWING of your path and of your destiny.

PREDESIGNED BLUEPRINT:

But ALL those choice junctions, the choices you made via your human heart (NOT the ego and NOT from fear) were necessary. Whilst it seemed you had a choice each time, the choices you actually made were predesigned within your blueprint, prior to THIS incarnation. Whilst those choices may have seemingly appeared as your ‘free will’ choice to make, and may have seemed a ‘free will’ choice to others around you…You were always predestined to choose the highest answers that take you to your Destiny in and of God Realisation this lifetime. In other words, what seemed at a human level to be sometimes difficult choices, those choices were predesigned junctures, intertwined to your Divine path. They only seemed or appeared hard at a human level of consciousness within the human personality. That was in many degrees of forgetfulness. Choice Points that you knew would either: Keep you within the programme and cycling there OR a choice that you knew would take you another step further, closer and closer towards a State of God Realisation.

On 16 February 2025 , I was given, clearly and loudly in sleep time the words “MAGNUM OPUS”. I later researched this unknown phrase, to find it translates as “The Great Work”. I then heard within the same sleeping state, The One Divine Source, speak these words:

“I (meaning God) set myself a series of tests”.

The ‘tests’, for anyone on the path, are always SEEMINGLY experienced as our human choices. And HOW we ALSO navigate and REACT to experiences presented. As REACTIONS are also a choice. The key and way of this assimilated game is to MAKE the highest choices each time they present. Choices can be very very subtle, hardly noticeable. Or they can be difficult junctures to make a highest choice.

Yet step after step, day after day, year after year, within the Construct and Game, more choices arrive, as esoteric tests. You can also call these initiations. Do you keep to your choices made or fall back into the illusion? Do you stay true to your inner path that has it’s own unique blueprint or fall into distraction and the allure of the plane of physical and material phenomena? No other has your own unique blueprint. No one truly will ever know it in such daily living detail as you do. No one has lived your life or experienced the constant details of your awakening journey. The ONLY ‘other’ that knows the WHOLE of your predesigned blueprint, is your Soul and The Divine. Yet these are not ‘others’. They are you, one and the same.

And so, after many stages, many tests, you enter the stage of Divine Union of The One and Only Divine Essence. And whilst there are also MANY steps and micro stages WITHIN The Divine Union Stage, there comes a juncture…where you are then carried.

Within a spiritual path, we can say we flow, and just allow, yet at a very subtle and sometimes unseen level, there is still so much inner control. But truly I say, if we are happy to view the personality self we operate as, we see the many subtle ways each HOLD ON to micro controls of their living life. Controlling what we do, when we do it, how we do things, who with, is OUR INNER form of control of our human self. It’s so subtle, it is often not seen. The outer control system (of beings and energetic entities) is so easily seen, that tries every trick to keep us locked into the illusion and construct of control. But the inner control system we have over our daily life and choices is less observed and spoken about.

NOTICE INNER RESISTANCE:

Resistance to letting go, is of, but the human, holding on to or seeking anything alluring of an illusional constructed reality, or it can be a fear based resistance born of illusional belief systems. Yet in the seeng…in the letting go, we are carried… of and by the One Divine Presence.

Can you let go, in all ways. Can you make the highest HEART choice every day? That leads to eventually a stage of being carried? For to do so is the laying down of your life lived. To be RE-BORN, by / of The Divine. And only the Divine One Source does this within you. No other can do this for you. And this is why I always say: “Be TRUE and Stay TRUE to your known and unique Divine path”. No matter your design and no matter the design blueprint of ‘others’. And that choice to be true to your path is not born ever, from the ego. But is born of quiet courage, of the many ‘knowings’ you’ve received in many different ways. Constant ways. And so being and staying TRUE to your path is always a choice of the Heart. As well as the accumulated wisdoms of your Soul that is also ever present Divine Love. That is Divine and devoted to your Self Realisation this Lifetime.

With Love Always,

Amanda Lorence

9 April 2025

Artist thanked 🙏💜

Charlie McCready – Surviving Child Psychological Abuse

This question to a ‘target’ parent from an alienated child sounds like a desperate plea: “Why don’t you just apologise for everything?” After enduring relentless psychological manipulation, coercive control, and pathogenic parenting, the alienated child is left emotionally drained and yearning for peace. Denial, projection, and submission may become their coping mechanisms as they struggle to navigate the toxic dynamics imposed upon them. The child may become parentified because of the infantile behaviour of their alienating pathogenic parent whose psycho-emotional needs demand obedience, unquestioning loyalty, and sacrifice. The needs and wishes of the parent are prioritised over those of the child, and justifications and excuses on the hero/victim theme will be employed. In the grip of attachment disorders and cognitive dissonance, the child finds it increasingly difficult to resist the demands of the alienating parent.⁠

This is a relationship that’s based on fear, intimidation, bribery, threats, and control but with enough promise of love and care to keep them stuck and hoping for better. The emotional manipulation involves gaslighting, blameshifting and guilt-tripping. The trauma bond created by this kind of disordered, abusive (often narcissistic) parenting creates an experience for the child akin to that of Stockholm Syndrome, entrapping the child in a cycle of fear, intimidation, and control. Despite the toxicity of the relationship, the entrapment becomes thought of as safer than the alternative (freedom) and it can lead the alienated child to defend and protect their aligned parent even when things don’t really make sense (cognitive dissonance). Their compliance comes about through a longing to fix things and for love and survival (identification with an aggressor).

They become so accustomed to placating the alienating parent that they cannot comprehend why the ‘target’ parent resists. Also, all wrongs have been projected onto the ‘target’ parent. In their quest for survival and a semblance of normalcy, they can become so accustomed to submitting and placating the domination, tantrums, drama and conflict that often surrounds the alienating parent, they think it’s easier for the ‘target’ parent just to capitulate as they do, and apologise for everything, believing this will bring an end to their suffering.

However, I’m sure you know, as an alienated parent, surrendering to manipulation is not the solution. It doesn’t end there. It (typically) just continues. The children should know this too, but it’s hard for them to ‘break free’ from the coercive control and psychological abuse inflicted on them. But we can show them. Maintaining integrity, being non-reactive, creating boundaries, and refusing to apologise for injustices we did not commit, we can show our strength, and show our children the way towards healing and liberation from the trauma bonds.

#charliemccready

#parentalalienationcoach

#traumabonding

#coercivecontrol

#narcissisticparent

Lighting the path

Dear Lightworkers,

The old energy, dense and distorting though it was offered a strange kind of comfort. Its limitations, though binding, were familiar. The emotional and vibrational responses you received from life’s mirror were predictable, even when painful. That predictability created a kind of psychic safety, a womb of repetition where the ego could nest and the shadow could hide.

Beneath that veil of familiarity, your unresolved fragments, the unhealed echoes stored deep in the energy of yourselves were content to remain in quarantine. The old energy, though confining, gave those fragments permission to sleep.

But now, beloved Lightworker, the energies of this age are no longer static. They are alive, dynamic, and multidimensional. The feedback from life is no longer linear, it speaks in symbols, layers, and paradoxes. It is not just unfamiliar. It is unpredictably alive. The old safety blanket is being pulled away, and in its absence, both awe and anxiety rise to the surface.

This new frequency reveals what was once hidden. Thoughts long buried begin to surface. Feelings of inadequacy, of not being ready, whisper through your nervous system like old ghosts. And understandably, some part of you longs for the known, for the comfort of the previous equilibrium, flawed though it was.

This is not regression. It is the echo of the inner child stepping beyond the school gates and into the uncertain world of becoming. The old structure is going, and you stand at the precipice of becoming your own source of wisdom.

Remember, the tools you seek will not appear before you take the leap. They are forged in the very act of crossing. You are not inadequate. you are simply evolving faster than your ego can track and this creates distortion within the mind toward to magic the soul is creating before you. Give yourself grace. Let the old self grieve, but do not mistake that grief for failure. You are not falling apart, you are being initiated.

You will adapt. You are adapting.

And in doing so, you are lighting the path for others.

With reverence,

A voice from the in between

The Arcturian Council Of Light

AQ ~ Alexander Quinn – Starseed

Cured to Death – Psychiatric

The photo of me on the left in the blue was taken today, April 8th 2025

The remaining 3 photos were taken almost exactly a year ago.

In March of 2023, I experimented with Psilocybin and Marijuana.

** mine was Xanax , as addictive as Heroin

It was the first time in my 26 years I have ever tried a substance other than alcohol.

Unfortunately, I experienced a horrible reaction to these substances, leading to my psychiatric hospitalization.

Prior to this event in March of 2023, I have never been on any kind of medication, nor have I ever been diagnosed with any kind of mental/physical health condition.

Discharge date from the psychiatric hospital

April 17th, 2023

I was informed that if i “refused treatment,” I will have to stay hospitalized longer. At this point, I was there for 10 days.

Coerced to comply with an

Injection of an antipsychotic and held down against my will.

LAI (Long Acting Injection)

Aristada (Abilify)1064MG 2 month dose

I was sent home with 4 prescriptions of new medications i have never been on in my life.

3 weeks after my discharge date and the injection of the antipsychotic, I started to experience severe negative reactions that were nearly impossible to endure or explain to my doctor and family.

I was told it was ” just my new mental illness ” and that I had to remain on the medication for the rest of my life.

I knew in my heart and gut that this was wrong and did not make sense. At all.

● 22 days in 3 different hospitals

(Psychiatric hospitals + emergency rooms)

● 20Ibs lost after my hospital stay

● 3 1/2 months medicated

(2 month injection + oral pills)

(Lexapro 10MG Antidepressant )

Escitalopram

(Abilify 15MG Antipsychotic)

Aripiprazole

● 2-3 hours of sleep a night

● 50 days pacing with terror 10 hours a day (Akathisia)

Akathisia https://g.co/kgs/byVpBzj

● 300 + days having severe suicidal thoughts

● 350 days unable to work

● 20 + hours a day in bed for 4 months at my worst 80% of my 320 days were spent in bed/couch

● 3 close suicide attempts

● 9 years together with my husband ended in a divorce

● 30+ friends/family members disappearing in the hardship, from lack of understanding and fear

● 20+ doctor appointments/visits

General practitioners, psychiatrists, therapists, neurologists, acupuncturists, nutritionists, and many more. $15,000 + dollars later

● 8 beautiful humans i met in online support groups, who were mothers, sisters, fathers, sons, and partners, unfortunately, lost their battle from medication harm. Ending their own lives due to the constant state of torture.

320 days spent in a chemical straight jacket was the only way for me to describe it.

It has come full circle now in 2025, almost

2 years later, since the day i was injected.

I am now a year into remission/recovery from the iatrogenic injury that was brought upon by the antipsychotic injection.

During the 320 days in the chemical straight jacket:

I was unable to feel life

Unable to laugh

Unable to sleep

Unable to work

Unable to enjoy a meal

Unable to enjoy music

Unable to enjoy a book

Unable to enjoy a movie

Unable to enjoy nature

Unable to enjoy intimacy

Unable to feel love

Unable to feel human connection.

I can not put into words the inhumane experience i endured.

I am not posting this for ” I am so sorry, Jess.”

I am posting this because it’s the human thing to do.

Our children

Our grandmothers

Our grandfathers

Our mothers

Our fathers

Our loved ones are being medicated and not being properly informed of the risks these man made, brain altering chemical “medications ” can cause.

Especially long-term.

I do not know how I am still alive, to be honest.

By the grace of God and my stubborness to live, and to be able to tell the tale of how I almost lost my life, from a man made chemical that a doctor forced me to take after speaking with me in a hallway for 10 minutes.

Please, please, please take the time to always inform yourself and do your research before you put anything in or on your body 🙏 And have a plan of care in emergency situations for your loved ones in case you need to represent/advocate for them.

Thank you for those of you who took the time to read this ❤️