Tag: wisdoms

A fresh chapter begins

Right Now , we’re moving through a powerful energy shift charged by solar storms and intense cosmic activity. This wave of energy is moving quickly, shaking things loose and clearing out anything that feels heavy, blocked, or no longer aligned with where you’re headed.

You may feel more sensitive than usual.

Emotions can come up quickly—

one minute you’re fine , the next you’re overwhelmed or ready to cry. Old thoughts, habits, or memories might show up without warning. That’s a sign something is leaving your system.

This energy is helping you let go of what no longer fits, so you can move forward more freely.

You might notice patterns starting to break and that things that used to keep repeating now feel different. People may be acting differently, and you may feel distant from certain places, habits, or relationships that once felt comfortable. This is a sign you’re changing, and your energy is shifting to match the new version of you that’s ready to evolve.

This is also a strong time for manifestation. What you’ve been thinking about, dreaming about, or quietly wishing for is starting to take shape. The Universe is responding quickly, so you may get sudden ideas, clear answers, or unexpected signs. Messages, offers, and conversations may show up right when you need them.

If you’ve felt blocked or stuck lately, this is the energy that helps push things forward. You might feel pulled to clean your space, have honest conversations, change your routine, or rest more than usual. All of that is part of the shift. Your system is clearing space for something better.

Here are signs and symptoms you may be experiencing during this shift:

Sudden bursts of emotion—crying out of nowhere, feeling waves of joy, or intense frustration

Highly detailed, symbolic, or emotional dreams that linger when you wake up

Waking up between 2 and 5 a.m

Feeling wired with energy one moment, then exhausted the next

A strong pull to deep clean, organize, or throw things away

Tingling in the crown of the head and buzzing in the ears

Unexpected changes in appetite, digestion, or sleep

Feeling restless in your body, like something inside is trying to shift or leave

Strong intuitive hits—knowing something before it happens

Seeing repeating numbers like 111, 333, or 555 several times a day

Time feeling strange—either moving too fast or stretching out

People from your past reaching out with unexpected messages or conversations

New people entering your life with calm, familiar energy

Meaningful conversations that bring healing or long-awaited clarity

Resolutions to misunderstandings you once thought would never be resolved

Fast replies to texts, emails, or messages that open doors or move plans forward

Creative ideas arriving fully formed, with a strong urge to begin something new

Realizations about what you’re ready to release—old stories, guilt, resentment

Physical sensations of release after rest, crying, meditating, or journaling

Feeling pulled toward rest, nature, and deeper silence

A strong inner sense that something is shifting in your favor

This energy is clearing out everything that no longer fits where you’re going. Old emotions, heavy thoughts, and draining habits are rising so you can finally release them. You’re making space for peace, real love, clear direction, and the kind of abundance that flows naturally.

As your energy lightens, your power to manifest grows stronger. The Universe is listening closely now. What you focus on is gaining momentum, so speak with intention. Talk about what you want like it’s already yours. Be gentle with yourself and honor what your body feels and what your heart keeps whispering.

Let the past fall away, and let go of what feels heavy, forced, or confusing. You don’t need to carry it anymore. Make space for what feels easy, aligned, and real.

You’re entering a turning point.

A fresh chapter is already unfolding.

Stay grounded, stay open, and keep choosing what feels like peace.

~ Alex Myles ❤️

Born Pure

YOU WERE BORN PURE

Don’t Let the World Convince You Otherwise.

Before the guilt,

Before the shame,

Before the world placed its projections on your name—

You were pure.

Radiant.

Unstained.

Overflowing with God’s breath.

You didn’t enter this world broken.

You weren’t born into sin.

You were born into forgetting.

And even that forgetting is part of the return.

“Before I formed you in the womb, I knew you.” – Jeremiah 1:5

You were never separate.

You were never unworthy.

You were never too far gone.

The world taught you otherwise.

Taught you to feel ashamed for being too much, too sensitive, too alive.

Taught you to dim your light, mistrust your voice,

and fear the very God who formed you in love.

But all of that was programming.

Layers on top of truth.

And now?

Now you’re peeling it back.

Your Innocence Was Never Lost—Only Buried

They told you to carry guilt.

But guilt can’t touch the soul.

Your essence is untouched.

Your spirit is unblemished.

Yes, you made mistakes.

Yes, you wandered.

Yes, you forgot.

But none of that changed the truth:

You were made in the image of God.

And God doesn’t make junk.

“You are altogether beautiful, my love; there is no flaw in you.” – Song of Songs 4:7

This Is the Return

Not to perfection.

To wholeness.

To remembrance.

To the original light you’ve always carried.

You’re not here to earn your worth.

You’re here to embody it.

To walk as the living temple you are.

To cleanse the mirror and finally see yourself as God has always seen you.

FINAL WORD: YOU ARE STILL PURE

Not because you’ve never fallen—

but because no fall can erase your design.

The dirt isn’t who you are.

The wounds aren’t who you are.

The labels, the trauma, the projections—none of that defines you.

God’s fingerprint is still on your soul.

And it never fades.

So lift your head.

Strip the shame.

Walk in the knowing:

“I was born of light.

And light I remain.”

It’s not too late.

It never was.

You were always worthy.

You were always His.

And you were always pure.

Men & Therapy

Men don’t seek counseling… they seek new women.

Not healing. Not accountability. Not inner work. Just a fresh start with someone who doesn’t know the script yet. Someone who hasn’t seen behind the curtain. Someone they can impress with the same charm, the same story, the same false humility—because she hasn’t learned how deep the damage goes. Yet.

Instead of going to therapy, they go back to being “that guy.”

Instead of owning the pain they caused, they gaslight the memory of it.

Instead of rebuilding what they broke, they rebuild their image in someone else’s eyes.

Because healing requires honesty. Growth demands discomfort. Accountability asks for vulnerability. And some men would rather protect their ego than do the uncomfortable work of unpacking their trauma, their pride, their insecurities, and the patterns they keep blaming on “crazy exes.”

So they ghost the woman who knew the truth…

And charm the one who doesn’t.

They don’t want growth, they want a reset.

Not to change—just to relocate the lie.

But here’s the thing: you can run from your past, but it catches up in your patterns. You can get a new girl, a new number, a new city—but if the same version of you shows up, the story will end the same. Because unhealed men ruin new hearts.

Ladies, never take it personally when a man skips over healing and moves on quickly. That’s not a reflection of your worth. That’s a sign of how deep his avoidance runs. He didn’t choose her because she’s better—he chose her because she doesn’t yet require what you did: growth, honesty, emotional maturity.

Let him lie in peace. Let him pretend. Because that cycle only repeats until he finally meets himself. And that moment? Can’t be avoided forever.

And for the men reading this—go to therapy.

Heal so your love doesn’t become someone else’s lesson.

Do the work so your next relationship isn’t just a rerun in a different outfit.

The truth will always require more from you than a lie. But the truth will set you free.

The Dance of healed polarities ❤️🌹

“The feminine cannot, will not surrender

To the wounded masculine…

A man who criticizes her

Belittles

Dishonours

Controls

Manipulates

Abuses

Or attacks her

Her own inner masculine will not allow it

He will rise fiercely to the forefront

To stand guard

To do the job himself

The feminine can and will only surrender

To the divine masculine…

A man who is devoted to her

Elevates

Honours

Cherishes

Supports

And protects her

A man with boundaries

Presence

Direction

Integrity

Accountability

And humility

In this space

She will feel him penetrating her very essence…

Her body

Her mind

Her heart

Her soul

And she will feel safe…

Safe enough to surrender

This is the natural law

This is the dance of healed polarities

This is surrender…

To Love”

Written by Gemma Star

Powerless Triggers – Charlie McCready

I’ve come to understand that this isn’t about me personally; it’s a deeply rooted attachment pathology, and complex family dynamic involving disordered parenting. It’s spiralled into a situation where my child’s thoughts, beliefs and behaviours have been significantly influenced – trauma-bonded, coercively controlled, emotionally manipulated. Learning about this has helped me see the bigger picture, though I am working on my sense of isolation, frustration, injustice, and of course the grief. There’s nothing like it. People say it’s like a ‘living bereavement’ and that’s so true. It seems people don’t truly understand this unless they’ve been through it, and alienated parents are united in feeling let down by the mental health and family court system.

Still, I’ve learned a lot. I’ve learned not to react to the hurtful behaviour anymore. Sometimes, I catch myself just shaking my head, thinking, ‘Oh, this again.’ It’s like recognising a pattern. I remind myself that ‘this too will pass.’ My focus now is on maintaining my love for my child, even if they can’t see it right now. Detaching with love has become my way of preserving our bond through this difficult time. Nobody can take the love I have for my child away from me. Nothing and no one.

Conscious parenting plays a significant role here. It’s about recognising the importance of my child’s emotional well-being even when they may not fully comprehend it themselves. So, I make an effort to create a safe and loving space for them whenever/should they ever walk through my door. My door, and my heart, are open. I don’t let their negative behaviour dictate my response. Instead, I model the behaviour I want them to see—unconditional love, patience, and understanding. It’s challenging, but it’s also empowering because I believe this will help me and it will help my child heal and come back into my life when they’re ready.

Meanwhile I’m getting on with my life and not feeling sad or guilty about it. I have my moments, but I’m focussing on the present not the past, the love not the loss. If I can do it, and I’ve been in the pits of despair believe me, I know you can too.

#charliemccready

#parentalalienationcoach

Renewal & Rebirth

✨NAVIGATING EASTER WEEK’S CELESTIAL INFLUENCES ✨ APRIL 14, 2025

Dear friends, asteroid Juno, named after the Roman goddess of marriage and relationships, is a significant celestial body in our skies. Juno represents themes of partnership, commitment, and the dynamics of one-on-one relationships. As Juno slips into retrograde in Scorpio today Monday, the shadows of our relationships and commitments are illuminated, revealing hidden truths and desires that lie beneath the surface.

The intensity of Scorpio’s waters stirs the depths of our emotions, and passions may simmer, boil, or even overflow. In this mysterious and transformative realm, power dynamics come under scrutiny, and issues of control, trust, and vulnerability rise to the surface. At the individual and the collective levels, relationships may be tested, and the bonds that bind us may be re-forged in the fire of emotional intensity.

Physically, these energies may manifest as heightened sensitivity, insomnia, or vivid dreams. Some people might experience physical sensations like tingling, numbness, or flushing, as if their body is “rewiring” itself to process the emotional releases. Others might feel an intense need for physical touch, intimacy, or creative expression as a way to channel the potent emotional energies.

As Easter’s themes of renewal and rebirth intersect with these celestial influences, the body might also respond with increased vitality, renewed energy, or a sense of physical rejuvenation. Pay attention to your body’s signals, and allow yourself to rest, recharge, or engage in activities that nourish your body, mind, and spirit.

This April, under the resonance of number four, we’re being nudged – willingly or not – to move into a new, more stable inner place of being. The number four energy emphasizes foundation, structure, and practicality, urging us to reassess our foundations and build a more secure, stable base for our lives. This might feel uncomfortable, like leaving a worn but familiar pair of shoes behind. However, this shift is an opportunity to create a more solid, grounded sense of self, even if it means confronting fears or stepping out of our comfort zones.

If you feel guided, you can listen to the “Grounding activation” in the 3D to 5D Activations Library if needing some extra assistance to anchor your energy and find a more stable inner emotional and physical balance during this week. This activation is most beneficial during periods of energetic shifts, personal challenges, experiencing energetic clearings, and life transitions in general. It will connect you energetically to the core of our planet and induce feelings of safety, relaxation, and inner balance. You can also work with the “Nervous System Overload” activation in the perennial section of the library for a deeper relaxation during this potentially rocky week:

LEVEL I: BASIC ALIGNMENTS

As we navigate these intense emotional landscapes and celestial influences, the April energies are pushing us toward growth, renewal, and a deeper connection to our inner truth. The seeds of renewal sown in the darkness will bloom into a more vibrant, authentic, and meaningful life. Better things will come, and the stability and inner peace we cultivate now will serve as a foundation for the future. Have a wonderful week, much love 💖

WE ARE ONE ♡

Diego E. Berman 2025Ⓒ

http://www.diegoberman.com

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Living Bereavement- Charlie McCready

An alienated parent experiences profound emotional turmoil, feeling trapped between a rock and a hard place. They are often isolated from their child due to the alienating tactics of the other parent, which can lead to overwhelming loneliness and confusion. The deep sense of loss, akin to a ‘living bereavement’, encompasses not just the physical absence of their child but also the loss of the once-strong emotional bond. The alienated parent feels helpless, unable to protect their child from further harm, and may experience anguish and betrayal as their child parrots negative statements from the alienating parent.

To navigate this hugely difficult situation, alienated parents can seek support through counselling to express their emotions, develop coping strategies, and gain perspective. In the case of the coaching I do, I sometimes work in small groups, and I offer 1:1 coaching too. Sometimes the ‘target’ parent will be accompanied by a partner, a parent (grandparents suffer too), and I have given coaching to alienated children too. They are not always willing to talk at first, but often open up and find it is a neutral space where they can talk freely, and I can guide them towards seeing the bigger picture.

Prioritising self-care, both physically and emotionally, is crucial. Learning about parental alienation, maintaining boundaries, and considering legal recourse when necessary can empower. Focusing on reconciliation rather than retaliation when interacting with alienated children is crucial. Recognising and addressing these complex emotions is the first step toward healing and potentially rebuilding the parent-child relationship.

These daily posts are here to spread awareness, inform and (where possible) uplift. Please don’t hesitate to contact me directly if I can help you with coaching. There’s more information on my website. I am also working on a series of e-guides (downloadable online guides), the first one is available now for the price of a few coffees.

#charliemccready

#parentalalienationcoach

#highconflictdivorce

#parentalalienation

#parentalalienationawareness

Awakening is Remembering 💯❤️

To The Ascension LightWorker Collective

As our frequency changes, a new world will emerge. This transition to a higher dimensional way of being is the 3D to 5D Shift, it requires that we shift our thinking to a higher vibrational frequency from mind centered thinking to heart centred knowing.

They call it ‘awakening’ but really it’s remembering, a deep wordless knowing that rises from within, it’s not something you learn but something you have always embodied. All memories are stored in the soul’s imprint, beyond time, beyond logic,

Wisdom from lifetimes encoded in your energy. In dreams and in De ja Vu. in the quiet moments when the noise fades, activation of remembrance is why some truths feel so familiar the first time you hear them, why certain symbols, sounds or places. stir something ancient in you.

Not all transformation looks dramatic. Most Of it is Cellular, Silent. Subtle. But no Less Powerful. The most important shifts often happen when it feels like nothing is working. Because that’s when the old system within begins to dissolve.

Not mistaking stillness for stagnation or mistaking quiet for failure. You are in the moment between timelines. The breath before the leap. If It Feels Like Nothing is Happening this is a strong sign that shifts are occurring behind the scenes .

Growth is messy. It loops, spirals, and stings. You’re not ever failing, you’re peeling back layers.

For some ascending that feel frustrated in certain parts of their awakening journey, you are not stuck. You are in the quiet part, the part where everything starts to shift within . You might not see it yet or all at once . You might feel at times like the momentum slowed down or disappeared but underneath the surface, something greater is recalibrating.

Human beings are not meant to be doing Machines. If you have been feeling tired, stuck, uninspired recently, It’s not because something is wrong with you. You were not divinely created to wake in fear or with dread. To measure your worth by output or spend your days surviving routines that strip the essence of the Soul.

For those that feel like your life doesn’t reflect who you really are at this point in life. That’s not failure. That’s evidence that you are remembering. You are not lazy. You are not broken. You are not ungrateful. You are simply sensitive to misalignment.

You are not stuck forever. Your current reality is not your final form. You are not late. You are not lost. You are remembering and waking up to the truth.

Humanity were taught to call exhaustion in self “normal.” To silence the aches and pains. To press on. But that ache, that pain is sacred. It is the Soul’s calling of what needs to be consciously recognised.

Reality Doesn’t Respond to What You Want

It Mirrors Who You Are. The universe isn’t reacting to your desires . It’s reflecting your frequency. We are not passive observers. We are transmitters, Projectors. Reality isn’t “out there.” It’s unfolding from within.

Why visualising a new life doesn’t always change your current one. Because your system isn’t just listening to your words, it’s vibrating to your field.

The ego is a tool, it just needs to be aligned, not erased. A healthy ego serves your soul, while a distorted ego serves only illusions and fear .

You manifest what matches your nervous system baseline. What you have practiced. What your energy believes is real. Not what you hope for but what you inhabit and embody, when things don’t seem to be shifting , ask: What part of me doesn’t believe this is possible? What fear am I still building around? What version of me is this desire assigned to?

You don’t create by wishing, you create by becoming and when your being holds the frequency of truth reality bends to meet it.

Resistance Isn’t the Problem It’s the Portal.

What you’re pushing against might be the very doorway you’re meant to walk through.

Most people fear resistance. We may take it as a sign to stop. But resistance is sacred. It’s where your system is trying to hold the old reality together. When something inside you resists change it’s not trying to ruin your progress. It’s trying to protect you from the unknown.

The greater the change you’re stepping into, the louder the resistance becomes. The reason why is because you’re leaving the terrain your nervous system calls safe.

The moment you stop making resistance wrong-it begins to dissolve . It’s not a wall. It’s a signal. And it’s pointing you exactly where to go. Recognising where resistance is showing up the strongest in life, consciously exploring what it is pointing towards.

The nervous system holds time differently.

Safety doesn’t come from age, it comes from permission. Permission to soften, to open, to feel and to finally Rest .

Not everything that asks for your energy deserves it. Your power is sacred-guard it with intention. Energetic clutter within and without will scramble the nervous system. You thrive in stilhess, not chaos.

You are not starting from zero, you are returning, reconnecting, reclaiming what has always been yours this is the great remembering and your soul has been waiting for it.

Healing isn’t linear. It’s cyclical and the moment you feel safe you shift conscious timelines. You don’t heal the past by reliving it. You heal the past by finally becoming the one who was missing all along “Yourself”.

You don’t need to be perfect to Ascend

Being spiritual doesn’t mean you stop feeling. True growth is learning to feel everything without letting it control you. Your humanness is sacred too.

It’s never too late to become the True Self

There is no deadline for becoming real.

All are always welcome to return home to who they truly are.

Ascension is not escape, It’s not about floating away from Earth. Real ascension is integration, grounding your higher self into the physical body and living with awareness in this reality.

In Loving and Devoted Ascension Service

By Ascension Lightworkers .

Emotional Safety 🍾💯

In psychology, emotional safety refers to an emotional state achieved in attachment relationships wherein each individual is open and vulnerable. The concept is primarily used by couples’ therapists to describe intimate relationships. When a relationship is emotionally safe, the partners trust each other and routinely give each other the benefit of the doubt in questionable situations. When emotional safety is lost, the partners are inclined to be distrustful, looking for possible hidden meanings and potential threats in each other’s words and behaviors.

Remember, emotional safety includes mutual respect, open communication, empathy, and consistent support. Building this foundation strengthens the neural pathways associated with trust and intimacy, leading to a more fulfilling and lasting connection.

Emotional safety is a basic human need and an essential building block for all healthy human relationships.

Emotional safety is the visceral feeling of being accepted and embraced for who you truly are and what you feel and need.

Feeling chronically emotionally unsafe causes intense psychological distress—and, often, greater isolation and more difficulty reaching out.

“Precaution is better than cure.”

Emotional safety is about being authentic and sharing thoughts and feelings with another person without any fear. Frequent criticism and invalidating remarks, especially from a loved one, is a sure path to stripping any relationship of emotional safety.

Key Takeaways 🗝 :

Safety doesn’t happen by accident.

When safety is first, you last.

Check yourself before you wreck yourself. Accidents hurt, safety doesn’t.

No Safety, Know Pain. Know Safety, No Pain.