Tag: survivors

Do not make yourself small- The power of introverts

The highly sensitive tend to be philosophical or spiritual in their orientation, rather than materialistic or hedonistic.

They dislike small talk.

They often describe themselves as creative or intuitive. They dream vividly, and can often recall their dreams the next day. They love music, nature, art, physical beauty.

They feel exceptionally strong emotions–sometimes acute bouts of joy, but also sorrow, melancholy, and fear. Highly sensitive people also process information about their environments–both physical and emotional–unusually deeply. They tend to notice subtleties that others miss–another person’s shift in mood, say, or a lightbulb burning a touch too brightly. ~Susan Cain

(Book: Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can’t Stop Talking https://amzn.to/3QIIfpW #ad)

Things that deserve no shame after narcissistic abuse

It was extremely bad due to medications via psychiatric misdiagnoses.

It was horrifically obvious I needed help …none was availed ..I was

removed from our home , and our son’s lives ..

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Symptom of Parental Alienation/Child Psychological Abuse

When a child decides they never want to see one of their parents again, they might come up with a silly or made-up reason.

It could be a story with little or no real evidence, but somehow it becomes a strong, believable experience in their mind.

This often happens when a child is caught in the middle of a difficult family situation, and their emotions may lead them to create reasons that might not be entirely true.

It’s important for adults involved to understand and address these situations with sensitivity and care, considering the emotional impact on the child and working towards a resolution that benefits everyone involved.

Join us on this journey of support and shared experiences. Register at pa-a.org

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Here You Are

Just received. So very beautiful. ~ Peter Uppman ❤️🙏🏻

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There is so much more,

dear ones.

You have struggled and strained and have been through experiences in which you wish you never had. Ones that caused such pain and discombobulation within and without of your world as you know it to be.

It caused you to pull back at times because there was left within you, no strength to carry forth.

Because there were times in which you struggled to believe – in Self, in others, in love.

And yet, Here YOU are.

This amazing soul who has conquered the challenges with aplomb.

There were times when you doubted your own ability to understand why something or someone changed your belief in Self – through the pain, the degradation, those who turned away in anger or sorrow.

There were times in which you believed there to be no god, no deity who would understand.

Because how could such atrocities be allowed to occur, if indeed there was a loving creator who understood, who cared about You, about humanity, about love?

And yet, Here YOU are.

There were those who came to you with openness and understanding, and it caused your heart to embrace the very idea that perhaps you WERE something to behold, to treasure, to love.

That you were indeed worthy of more – more love, more understanding, more compassion, more peace, more truth.

And still, Here YOU are.

Laid bare for All to witness – your truth, your love, your Being. Has made such a difference for another. Not just that of Self.

Imagine yourself alone under a spotlight.

The rest of the world seems so distant from where you stand.

In blackness.

In pain.

In reflection, for you are reflecting back to those who do not as yet understand.

With every step you take your light infuses with the darkness, illuminating a little more of the path ahead.

With each step you take.

Releasing the pain and the sorrow and the feeling of unworthiness because you have the strength to carry forth, and bring your energy of truth and love for all to see.

This then illuminates All that is unseen.

There are those who may cower in the shadows, afraid of your light – your energy of love.

And those who welcome it with the kindness in which you offer them.

There are those who will retort in anger for having disturbed their slumber, for they are not as yet ready to awaken.

And yet, Here YOU are.

Shining like a beacon of love for all to embrace, if it is their will to do so.

Your belief in Self, and the light of love in which you emanate, has changed another so profoundly that they too, can witness this from within.

They too, share this light with yours.

They too, stand proudly for all to see. To feel. To embrace.

And yet, Here YOU are.

The beacon of love that once thought themselves so unworthy, so ineffectual, so purposeless.

YOU are everything, dear ones.

Each and every one of you hold the light of love within you, for all to see.

THIS is what makes a difference for another.

The love within You.

(Archangel Jophiel)

Christmas for the targeted parent

I know that a lot of you are not going to be with you child this Christmas. For some of you this will the first time you have this experience, for others you will have already been through this difficult period.

Whilst you cannot control the situation, you can control how you choose to respond.

Top tip # 1 – Keep yourself busy and try to make sure that you are with other people on Christmas Day and ideally other days as well.

Your X wants you to be feeling lonely and miserable, why do their job for them? If you are feeling sad and miserable, this will not impact what your children are doing. If you are managing to find comfort and even some happiness being with others, this will also not impact what your children are doing. It only impacts you!

Find some things that you want to do and which you have been denying yourself, such as treats or experiences. Book it and do it.

Push yourself to get out and do things, you will thank yourself later that you did.

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I personally know that x wants me to be low and emotional during this holiday season, and that just ain’t happening. It was not an unusual Xmas and I was home on my own…

X wishes me unalive , so grief filled that he can feed off that energy .

Once I accepted his shadow- demonic intentions, I just stayed intent and focused in my work/rest .

X as most Narcissists do, loves when I’m ill, and vulnerable , it consumes him , to seek revenge due to my silence .

I emailed x a plan to resolve the financial issues and business related problems mid month . No response .

I wrote our sons on the 25 th , wishing them a happy and safe holiday sharing my proposal email to x , which was generous given that he was illegal.

I’m sure he knows and is slinging some negative energy my way , though I have expressed that what he hexes me with is going coming back compounded to him.

He’s in control , no higher power , just him, his vendetta to shut me up and Divine has an accounting of all he has abused.

It’s his fate .

I know that a lot of you are not going to be with you child this Christmas. For some of you this will the first time you have this experience, for others you will have already been through this difficult period.

Whilst you cannot control the situation, you can control how you choose to respond.

Top tip # 1 – Keep yourself busy and try to make sure that you are with other people on Christmas Day and ideally other days as well.

Your X wants you to be feeling lonely and miserable, why do their job for them? If you are feeling sad and miserable, this will not impact what your children are doing. If you are managing to find comfort and even some happiness being with others, this will also not impact what your children are doing. It only impacts you!

Find some things that you want to do and which you have been denying yourself, such as treats or experiences. Book it and do it.

Push yourself to get out and do things, you will thank yourself later that you did.

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Mary Maddox , Ireland : survivor of psychiatric abuse

I was 52 when I finally managed to become free from prescription, psychotropic drugs. I was on lithium, Sermontil and Largactil very longterm. I was on tons of psychotropic drugs before then. Like most people labelled by psychiatry, I was a guinea pig. Guinea pigs or any other animals should not the treated this way either. I know other people labelled by psychiatry have had even more horrific journeys. I share mine because most of them are kept hidden. I also know that FaceBook and many other powerful media platforms don’t help but In spite of this I do find support and solidarity. It is better to do something no matter how little it may seem than nothing a all! This picture was taken at my 60th birthday party not long before our first grandchild, Lexie was born! She, Annalise and Harry have filled my life with joy. Thankfully I lived to be free to be part of their precious lives.