Tag: relationships

Seeing the Sun again

It was a rebirth , for me there was so much fear and being on my own in the real world … surely an end times . 2003 began the ongoing journey, and I’m very grateful to have had on my own time , because no one else was available. I had many angels show up but no one to hold me, hug me etc . Except for our children , a younger sibling there was very little displays of affection . I too lost my colors and they’ve returned ; I am deserving and thankful 🙏

I can still remember the time when I begged for love. I lost my colors. I settled for the “maybe”, the “I’ll see if I can” and the “I’m tired”. I endured the pain of every no, and over time I started to believe that maybe, just maybe, that’s what I deserve. That I should just be grateful for the rare “yes” and just sit in the corner waiting.

It took some time, but when I finally realized that I’m slowly turning into this broken soul I always feared to be, I tried my best to get up and walk away. Step by step, I dragged my feet, and that’s when I learned that one of the most difficult things to do in life is to walk away from things that you’ve always wanted. But I did it.

I did it because every day seemed like it’s raining and I wanted to see the sun again. I did it for the days when I would laugh so hard my stomach would hurt. I did it because I wanted to believe that despite the messed up person that I am, despite all the scars and the holes in my chest, I deserve another shot at happiness.

I know it took a while, but I couldn’t be prouder.

I did it.

– Jun Mark Patilan

– Artwork : Henn Kim

Try a little tenderness

You need to understand woman sexuality. Her deepest thrills are psychological, not physical. Her mind is the most potent erogenous zone, and the key to her arousal lies in understanding her emotions, thoughts, and desires.

You need to understand that her fantasies and passions often dwell in the realms of connection, intimacy, and emotional resonance.

You need to understand that this submission is a gift she gives willingly, and it should be cherished and honored.

You need to understand that communication is crucial. Open, honest, and empathetic dialogue can help unlock her true desires and needs.

You need to understand her words, but more importantly, the feelings behind them. Active listening and responding with genuine interest and care can deepen your connection and enhance intimacy.

You need to understand that her sexual satisfaction is intertwined with her emotional well-being. When she feels loved, respected, and appreciated, her sexual desire flourishes.

You need to understand that creating a supportive and nurturing environment will help her feel secure and open, allowing her to fully express her sexuality.

You need to understand that every woman is unique. Her preferences, boundaries, and fantasies will differ from others.

You need to understand and respect her individuality, taking the time to learn what specifically excites and fulfills her. Tailoring your approach to her unique personality and desires will create a more fulfilling and intimate relationship for both of you.

– Abhikesh

Parental Estrangement

There is such misinformation about this family dynamic but I agree with a few of her points .

The continuation of high conflict , malignant marriage , abuse via psychiatric, narcissistic is the base of h these estrangement s by highly sensitive trauma survivors

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