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Apps to monitor communication between parents ? Charlie Mc Cready

There are several apps and platforms that family court lawyers may recommend to parents involved in custody battles to facilitate communication and monitor interactions related to their children. Features may include secure messaging, shared calendars, and document storage. The idea is to improve communication and reduce conflict after divorce or separation, especially in cases where there are disagreements over contact and custody. It’s supposed to include communication from grandparents and other family members, as well as parents and children, connecting all important information in one secure place. Abusive texts are monitored. It’s supposed to make life harder for the abusive parent, to check their tone, their language, or their lack of communication, but for many, a ‘tonemeter’ is an extra fee. The children have access, but there are safeguards in place so they can’t see communication between their parents. A Family Court Advisor undertaking a Section 7 report, or a mediator, or a childcare worker, can also have access. ⁠

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Some users may find the app to be helpful in facilitating communication and document sharing between co-parents, while others may have concerns about its cost and functionality. There are many complaints, with some people saying the software inverted who owes whom what. Others have said it’s near impossible to cancel renewals. Nobody answers phones. It’s generally said that the only reason anyone uses this software is because of court orders to do so. Most reviews seem to agree it’s all a waste of time and money. It’s a pity they’re not better. What do you think? ⁠

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One Toke over the Line

To my delight this song found me tonight and I giggled as it started to play.

I smoked a good bit of pot at age 19, and as in most of my formative years…behind schedule . So it was 1971 , it was extremely affordable to buy , however my wages were very low , since I decided not to use my certification in Cosmetology, until it helped in selling cosmetics.

The older ladies were sweet , had the more famous thus more profitable lines , and that was ok.. I wasn’t focused on riches , just in having enough .

I enjoyed doing inventory and stock work.

I don’t think I envisioned the legalization of pot , as it was common to find me deeply in the country at friends and a ” family ” type part would be overnight…

It is a good thing to witness this birth of New Earth , I finally can breath and smile at my knowing in the early 80s , I wanted to be closer to God on this mountain.. I kept the faith and my focus and I am rewarded with the life I dreamed of in my late 30s , when I considered life, after our sons had moved out .

I never got to that place with our children.

Lots of hellish years of darkness .

And now I’m here ….in the country , soon to have that yard and freedom, liberated from the obstacles that are boomerangs to those who participated in my journey negatively .

No fear …..

trusting my visions, my truth and I have survived these 13 years . I lurch just now , and soon I will have news on my own home, through the love, support of the most loving friend..and there be ample places to walk..

It will be a return , triumphant… it is a sign and my peace is so assured , I nodded out after spaghetti dinner, lol. It is time to rest and just be .

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“Helping” your wife ( partner ) explained – Ex had an “ exemption “

I now realize this is a must, and know full well that ex thought I should have done everything .l


“A friend came to my house for coffee, we sat down and talked about life. After a while I interrupted the conversation and said to him, ′′I’m going to wash the dishes, I’ll be right back.”
He looked at me like I told him he was going to build a spaceship. So he said to me with admiration and a little stumped, ′′Glad you help your wife, I rarely help mine because when I do she never thank me. Last week I washed the floor and she didn’t even tell me to thank you.”
I sat back down with him again and explained to him that I don’t ′′help′′ my wife. Actually, my wife doesn’t need help, she needs a partner, a teammate. I’m her home partner… and due to that, all functions are divided, which is not “help” with household chores.
I don’t “help” my wife clean the house because I also live in it and I need to clean it too.
I don’t “help” my wife cook, because I also want to eat and I need to cook too.
I don’t “help” her washing dishes after eating, because I use these dishes too.
I don’t “help” my wife with kids, because they are mine too and I have to be a father.
I don’t “help” my wife wash, extend, fold, and put away laundry because it’s mine and my kids too.
I don’t give a “helping hand” at home, I’m part of it.
Then with respect, I asked my friend when was the last time his wife finished cleaning the house, doing laundry, changing the bedsheets, bathing the kids, cooking, organizing, etc.. and did he say: “thank you?”
I mean a real thank you, like, “Wow, baby!! You’re amazing!!”
Does this all seem absurd? Does it sound weird to you? When, once in your life, you cleaned the floor, you expected at least an excellence award with great glory… why? Haven’t you ever thought about that?
Maybe, because for you, macho culture taught you that everything is a woman’s task.
Maybe you’ve been taught that all this should be done without you having to move a finger.
So praise her as you would like to be praised, likewise, with the same intensity. Hold her hand and behave like a true companion, and assume your part, don’t behave like a guest who simply comes to eat, sleep, shower, and satisfy sexual needs… feel at home, in your home.
Change in our society begins in our homes, teaching our children the true sense of fellowship!”
Credit: Nino Razmadze

Tiger Woods, Justin Timberlake to open golf-infused New York City sports bar

Very proud of eldest son, who is working for T- Square , and deserves this opportunity and recognition, per his experience , his gifts 🎁 and his rewards, for toffee times.

Congratulations IV🙏🏼💖

Tiger Woods and Justin Timberlake have partnered on T-Squared Social, an upscale sports bar in the heart of Manhattan.
— Read on golf.com/lifestyle/food/tiger-woods-justin-timberlake-sports-bar-t-squared/

Seeds in God’s Hands – Kathy Matea

Today , as everyday , I turn it over to Divine .

Resolution is before me , and that has come at

high cost , and much loss.

I am not a looser , I don’t give up , and I’m done with anyone or anything determined to do any harm ..

I very grateful to have survived and know I will thrive , though not always ” planted ” in fertile soil, I was privy to much and transformed that ” sand ” and all that tried to hold me back, failed …still I rise 🙏🏼❤️

To me , this is a win… abundance will follow 🎁🏆💖

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Dinner with Laura Bell,7/27/23

1)

Fried green tomatoes

2) Laura Bell & Dona Luna

3) Dona Luna’s Aui Tuna , sea salad , asparagus

Delicious

4) Laura Bell had beef tips , asparagus and roasted potatoes .

I drank Hibiscus Ginger Beer .

Logan and the entire crew was rocking dinner for sure !