Tag: abuse

Dear Men : Remember ?

He stated the sex would increase if I lost weight.

Sex helped him sleep

I’m quoting …

18 years younger sister , had a body that reminded him of mine and so they had sex …She enjoyed sharing part of the story

I was drugged by psychiatry at the time of her confession and his summation of this was her body reminded him of mine before children.

The shallow words and acts masked his hatred of me and his wish for me to take my life and provide ease for him to be free.

in a competion that had her jealous of our sons also…corruption and much heartache đź’” over primal desires predominating .

Dear Men,

Remember how beautiful, smooth and sculpted her body was at the beginning of your marriage.
She is still the same beautiful woman with the same spirit that you have always loved.
The difference is that she gave your children life.
The price for that was the loss of the body she once had.
Do not complain about your wife because her fat increased and do not think that she likes it!
A mother’s affection makes her turn a blind eye to all of that and her only concern is her children and your happiness.
Remember that this tummy was once the warm home who hugged your children for 9 months with all their pain, fatigue and weight, to seal them until childbirth.

A thousand hearts to all the Mothers ❤️

Love

I have Loved in life and I have been Loved.

My heart has been broken and again made whole.
My heart has been wounded and healed again.
A thousand deaths my heart has died, and thanks be to Love, it lives yet.

I went through hell and saw there Love’s raging fire,
and I entered heaven illumined with the light of Love.

I bowed my head low in humility, and on my knees I begged of Love,
“Disclose to me, O Love, your secret.”

She took me gently by my arms and lifted me above the earth,
and spoke softly in my ear,
“My dear one, you yourself are Love, are Lover, and you are the beloved whom you have adored.”

Hazrat Inayat Khan

Dixie Chick’s: Traveling Soldier

This song Traveling Soldier came to mind as I considered all the veterans, of many wars ..wars of the soul and spirit

My 1st boyfriend became my 1st husband and brought much shame into our union .

My brother , perhaps my whole family at that time knew of his shadow but kept secrets of his infidelity .

After 9 months of trauma and abuse ( he was working out of town 4 nights a week ); he was drafted .

He left me with orders .

And his 65 cherry 🍒 red GTO.

I rebelled against his abuse and unknown secrets that had a very negative energy to them .I was sensitive to these unknowns but unaware of my intuition . Of course I had faith but was overwhelmed at being treated like a possession .

I don’t recall any discussions or plans for the future .

I wed due the loss of my virginity ..

And it was over , he filed for divorce , took emergency leave and took possession of his car .

I had nothing to say except that I was too young to be married .

Charged with abandonment …

Then

Marriage to a man who for 4plus decades has held his trauma , puking it out on others , making others responsible .

At the sale of the family business he began to travel or claimed to.

In high trauma made worse by psychiatric drugs , I needed him . Our eldest drove me to various motels in the area . He was not at any of them but it certainly was an education of his habits unknown to me

Runner

Ghosted

A guest or drop in …

His secrets , his war, his lies and his projected blame and shame are his and his alone .

There are all kinds of soldiers, veterans, and survivors and very long and crooked the long and twisted journey to leave that war , to loose children and grandchildren to such distortion.

To discover , it’s money power motivated , the ever pressing need to WIN against and release of a past that did much destruction and cannot exist in the consciousness and awareness of the existence of abuses that harm children by erasing a parent .

Blessings 💚 🙌 Peace ✌ 🙏 ❤

Dona Luna

Happy Mothers Day

Happy Mother’s Day moms.

It may not seem happy, but this one is different. This year it’s just another day – because we’re on active rescue now – we’re not accepting it – we’re actively fighting back against the bad people doing bad things to make them stop.

I know it hurts. We’ll figure it out and get your kids back to you and protect them.

It may be slow-going for a bit, one-by-one as we turn the tide against your foes and against your adversaries – but we’re here – and we’re not stopping until we’re successful.

You’re mom. Let’s get your kids back and protected. Not today exactly maybe, but we’re working on it, you’re working on it, it’s coming – that’s for certain.

Never doubt for a moment the unbreakable bond. Dorcy’s right, listen to Dorcy, she’ll help get things right.

I’m the stick – she’s the carrot. I get the fun part. I get to whack your ignorant mental health people and get them into line.

I know it’s weird and awkward – it’s spousal abuse using the child as a weapon… pretty effective too.

No worries. You did nothing wrong. It’s not your fault, bad people are doing bad things, we are going to make them stop – now – today.

Or know the reason why. I’m stone-cold serious, I’m going after their licenses one-by-one each time – happy Mother’s Day (and Father’s Day coming up) – whack – whack – whack = I get the fun part.

Talk to Dorcy, listen to Dorcy, don’t doubt for a second your unbreakable bond. They’re just confused. You’d be confused too if you had a parent like that.

Your child is giving you the problem because your child knows you can solve it – and you can. You just need support. You have support. Let’s go get your kids back.

So this Mom’s Day, we’re in active battle – Dad’s Day too this year – and for as long as it takes – today – now – it stops – or we know the reason why.

This is not a child custody issue. It’s a child protection issue. It’s a spousal protection issue. They have duty to protect obligations – whack – whack – whack – it is fun, I must admit – whack – then need to know what they’re doing when the life of your child is on the line.

You be kind, always be kind – you have a different role – you’re more powerful than you know – it’s just your triggers, your insecurities in your patterns from the past.

Dorcy will help you let those go, get rid of the triggers and buttons that get you spinning this way and that – respond don’t react.

I’m here. Dorcy’s here. We’re not going anywhere and we’re both on active recovery now – whack – met too now.

Happy Mother’s Day – a whack from me to you for all those nonsense people who are currently here but not for long – we’re not accepting anything any longer – I get the fun part – you get the best part – you be kind – let’s go get your kids.

Craig Childress, Psy.D.
Clinical Psychologist, CA PSY 18857