Category: Parential Alienation-Child Abuse

Defining Parental Alienation

There is some debate surrounding the term “parental alienation” that reflects broader complexities within the realms of mental health, legal practice, and social dynamics. Let’s break it down:⁠

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Parental Alienation: This term is recognised chiefly by those who have experienced it for themselves, it is a way for us to find each other in what otherwise is an isolating, traumatic experience. The term itself refers to a situation where one parent deliberately manipulates their child’s perception of the other parent, often leading to the child’s unjustified rejection or hostility towards that parent where, before separation or divorce, there existed a good, loving bond.⁠

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Some renowned experts in the field prefer the term “attachment disorder” or “attachment-based parental alienation” to describe the dynamics seen in what others might label as “parental alienation.” The argument is that focusing on attachment disorders provides a more nuanced understanding of the underlying psychological mechanisms. Others criticise the term “parental alienation”, claiming it to be ‘debunked’ ‘pseudoscience’ which is misused in legal contexts. Certain women’s advocacy groups argue that the term “parental alienation” can be weaponized by abusive individuals, particularly men, to deflect accountability and continue exerting control over their former partners.⁠

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However, with all this debate, we are divided rather than united in combating the real problem, which is partner/spousal and child psychological abuse. The focus should not solely be on debating semantics or labels but rather on addressing the actual harm inflicted upon children and families when one parent uses them as pawns in their own conflicts. Whether termed “parental alienation” or viewed through the lens of attachment disorders, the fundamental issue is the manipulation and abuse of children for personal gain or vengeance. By prioritizing the well-being of children and holding accountable those who engage in such harmful behaviours, we can work towards fostering healthier familial relationships and protecting vulnerable individuals from further harm.⁠

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Tended to by Love : Fall Equinox

Dear all, as you all know, the energies are just extraordinary, beyond what we’ve known. At times it’s hard not to think something is wrong–the wobbly walk, the need to lie down and simply be still, the slow motion, the deep desire just to be present–no thoughts, no words, no wondering of the future…just a profound Presence in which everything around is more pronounced, heightened in color, and participating in the auditory sound/tone of Presence itself.

If you are experiencing any of this, know you are fine, you are OK (though please do not read this as not seeking medical attention if you need it). Your body, your form, is undergoing Great change. Allow as much as you can. The energy feels, I know, for so many, literally palpable in the air.

Two nights ago, I had an amazing ‘waking dream/experience/vision’ though I know I was asleep. It was as if the night sky held these layers and layers of stacked floors, stories (representing different layers of density, vibration), each infused with an array of colors. I was lifted through several floors–there were people on every floor lying on beautiful cots, each person being ministered over with such tender loving care by beings clothed in human flowing clothes but floating over the floors. I distinctly recall somewhere in my consciousness noting, ‘Oh, they have no feet, legs, don’t need them..’

The colors, the richness, the tenderness is not possible to describe…

I was given to understand that the feminine and masculine were being nurtured/re-natured where they needed to be in each individual’s akash and light body. The ‘re-naturing’ was/is not altering but a return to original nature, innocence. And the feminine was coming back into its power balance. There was so much being released from hundreds of years, realms, incarnations, and that we were to understand the mind of our current human self could not comprehend all of what was occurring, is occurring for us now.

There was such amazing chanting throughout that I knew to be ancient, tonal, and penetrating every layer, dimension, of our Being–clearing and re-naturing, nurturing. Some of it clearly past life clearing, some of it so ancient the forms were unclear, and some of it being cleared, raised out of the inner earth.

And again, I understood telepathically, ‘Wherever there is sensation, pain, soreness, tingling, heaviness in the form allow one’s attention simply as presence to be present to it, to attend to it through presence–not words, thought, not effort, etc. Just presence.’ Don’t try to figure out what everything is. This was to help open, literally enliven areas in the form and light body that either were darker with density, numb, or not vibrating in coherence with the whole.

“Coherence with the whole”–these words sounded so loud, for it was not just coherence with our form, our own energetic body, our heart/mind coherence but the whole of Oneness. Coherence with Being.

The vision was/is so clear in my mind’s eye, but so very hard to bring into words–its utter richness, the love, the tenderness and compassion and the chanting of the ancients. And the so many floors, stories. And the Knowing that those who are really experiencing, feeling, the energies–you Are seen, you Are being cared for, you Are loved, love. ALL are loved, Are love, but your willingness to anchor in the light is so much regarded. Know, you are not alone.

The next day there was substantial weeping–not sadness, but an overwhelming sense of Tenderness towards Everything. The aliveness of Everything heightened yet once again…

I share this because I hope it might help some know––we are being tended to with love, literally tended to by Love, the vibration, coherence, of Love. All we need is Presence. The movement into the new for you is not far off.

Blessings to us all….

~ Allannah Capwell ❤️

The Alienator -Charlie McCready

Your child’s true nature is loving. So is yours. Believe it or not, it is the same for the alienating parent, the narcissistic abuser – love. They just lost their way. The alienating parent’s unloving, controlling, destructive, vengeful disordered pathological nature has come about through fear, through experiences in their past that remain unresolved and unhealed. And they are incredibly jealous of your love. They dread it because it’s powerful. What you need to do is remember your incredible loving nature and don’t let them dim your light with their dark, controlling ways and fear.

Fear has a way of distorting perceptions and causing people to react in ways that may not align with an innate loving nature. The experience of fear can lead to a desire to control others or situations to protect themselves. This control can manifest in various forms, such as manipulation, dominance, or jealousy.

Jealousy often arises when they perceive you still possess a capacity for love or experience fulfilling relationships. Despite their best endeavours to break you. They feel a sense of lack, a void, a disconnect from love. Instead of recognising and addressing their fears and insecurities, they project their envy onto you, onto anyone who seems to be confronting, challenging, or ego-wounding them.

Love and fear are opposing forces. Love encourages openness, empathy, and understanding, while fear often leads to closed-mindedness, defensiveness, and a need to control. Recognising and understanding the role of fear in unloving behaviours can be a starting point for personal growth and transformation. If the narcissistic abuser or alienating parent could address their fears and insecurities, and their pathological parenting, if they could take responsibility rather than blaming others, they too could reconnect with their ability to love. They would remember their child’s sovereignty and everyone’s sovereignty.

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Energy Overload

Weekend Energy Overload
Happy now moment wherever
this message finds you.
We have MASSIVE energies
pushing in around us. I needed to pop in and share that with you.

Many are feeling them already, and they’re going to continue to expand and grow. These are not the Golden energies that are rising us up daily, these are additional energies from the Ascension Teams right before Equinox.

I wanted to share these with you in case you’re feeling them strongly and wondered why you’re feeling them so differently today.
These are HUMONGOUS energies.
Even those who usually don’t feel
the energies may feel these.

Just be mindful of yourself as we move through these today. Remember your water. Our systems hydrate and flush our organs of excess energy with it.

Please shine as bright as you can.
We are using all the Starseeds & Lightworkers energies now to bring everything through.
Be you authentically and shine brightly.
Everything will change in an Instant.

We’re currently in a phase of movement within that process.
You might even feel movement within your system; that’s how strong it is.

You are doing an amazing job!
Keep going Lightworkers, It’s coming!!

All my love,

  • SA Smith ❤️

Forgiving – Pino

I’m forgiving

toward the right people

for the right reasons.

I’m not a cold soul

who is intolerant of remorse.

But I’ve come to find

there are two kinds of people:

The ones who are genuinely

sorry for the way they treated you

And the ones who always saw

you as an option and are only back

to test your limits.

Don’t think I don’t know

the difference.

– Samira Vivette

🎨Pino

Always kinda Love ❤️💯🙏

He always pushes the grocery cart.

(and when we get back to the truck, he always unlocks the doors immediately so that I can get in, and then proceeds to unload the groceries, while I’m sat in the truck with the seat warmers on. rain or shine – every time – this is our grocery game plan)

Can I let you all in on a little secret?

It’s taken me many years to appreciate being loved like this.

You see, I spent (ie. wasted) a lot of time looking for all how love in shown in the movies, in the magazines, and on the commercials.

Flowers.

Chocolates.

Romantic meals.

Surprise getaways.

And guess what?

I was disappointed time. and time. and time again.

All because I was looking for the ways that I was being told he should show his love –

Instead of paying attention to how he actually does show his love.

And when I eventually came to that realization, Friends?

That was the relationship game changer.

For he rarely buys flowers,

But he calls me every day when he gets off of work, to see if I need anything picked up.

He never thinks of buying chocolate,

But whenever he sees anything that resembles a slice of plant-based, organic goodness, he always buys it for me – And is always so proud to surprise me with his latest grocery store find.

He can only boil eggs and butter bread,

So while I have never walked into a dining room with candles flickering and plates of gourmet goodness laid out – He wakes up every Sunday morning, puts on coffee, pours up my favorite mug, and passes it to me while I’m cozied up on the living room couch (and if my mug is in yesterday’s dirty dishes, he’ll always wash it out. bless him).

And while he cannot put together a travel itinerary to save his soul,

He has sat in a theatre on Broadway with me to watch a musical. He has walked through Ernest Hemingway’s home with me. He has been through more museums and libraries in a lifetime than he cares to admit. And he has never complained about any of it. Not even once.

And it’s more than that. So much more than that.

He’s gotten up in the middle of the night with a crying baby. If his restaurant order is better than mine, he’ll always switch plates. He watches Sleepless in Seattle when he would rather be watching Jason Bourne (at least I think that’s his name). He knows my most favourite ‘lady products’, and will run to the pharmacy to grab me them whenever needed (if that isn’t love, I don’t know what is).

…And, he will always, always push the grocery cart.

You know, the more I think of it,

The flowers, the chocolates, the romantic meals, and the surprise getaways?

That’s all just momentary anyway.

The flowers die. The chocolate and meals get devoured. And the surprise getaways happen, and then they’re over.

But it’s in the moments that you can depend on (over and over and over again), well, that’s where the love is found.

The good love.

The always love.

Like your ‘most coziest blanket on a fall day’ love.

…And it’s THAT kinda’ love that I want to walk through this life feeling.

Don’t search for the flowers, Ladies. Nor waste your time in want of the chocolates.

Search for the one who will push your grocery cart.

For that’s where the always kinda’ love is ♡

Eternal Gratitude

To The Ascension LightWorker Collective

Equinox Energy: This equinox gateway is all about transformation resulting in conscious change. Many are now living in their higher conscious time lines here on our ascending planet .

A time that many are going deeper within . Surrendering and allowing this planetary energy to illuminate any actions we may have been avoiding . Activations in a new clarity , higher awareness and continuous downloads of soul purpose information , higher cosmic frequencies will continue to stream into our planet .

In our reality, we are the sole existence. Everything we perceive is created from our own energy and consciousness, it serves as a reflection, another perspective, another aspect of the self . This pattern holds true for each being within creation. As we expand our awareness and consciousness, we discover much more about the true self and the interconnected nature in all things.

Through the conscious accelerating, raising our frequencies, and ascension, we realise that at the peak of this journey, we will encounter only more of the true self . This realisation applies universally, reflecting the holographic nature of existence where every component, every aspect, every being, encapsulates the Whole .

This interconnectedness allows every being to experience and comprehend this perspective because each being encompasses the whole, and the whole encompasses all the parts.

The energy we emit through existing beliefs, emotions, and behaviours dictates the vibrational frequency projected, shaping the reality that the self is experiencing. Physical reality will always mirror what we deeply believe to be true within, to experience and know more , to learn more , to consciously grow and evolve . Existing reality is serving as a reflection of the internal beliefs at play , existing always as a mirror image of the self’s inner state of being .

The consciousness. is like a mirror. When the universe “looks” into this mirror, it “sees” itself in many different multi faceted ways. The mind is the “mirror” of the universe and it experiences all of the senses and sensations of itself. Consciousness sees everything that it is and each “mind” or section of the mirror identifies as a “self”.

Consciousness communicates with itself by using all of the “mirrors” or minds. This electromagnetic and vibrational communication is how the “self” arises and receives information from consciousness. All of the “mirrors” / minds reflect and experience each other.

Consciousness functions as a replication mechanism, duplicating entire multiverses and generating its own dimensions. It replicates energy and force, Earth and its inhabitants, storing everything in its memory store house , it is a manifestation of the universal mind’s power of The All That Is.

Eckart Tolle states : You are not IN the universe, you ARE the universe, an intrinsic part of it. Ultimately you are not a person, but a focal point where the universe is becoming conscious of itself . What an amazing miracle.

For most of the ascending working with new earth energies there is no turning back into stagnate comfort zones, The only way forward in new earth is through the internal purging shadow / duality phase. While many have elevated their consciousness, they are still needed to support their loved ones , to guide them through their own soul transformations . The collective purpose of Starseeds is well underway on earth , driven by the power of Divine love, encouragement, and inspiration.

As the ascending move purposefully towards higher levels of the awakening state , the interconnectedness of Ascending souls will become increasingly evident. This significant moment in collective ascension will unite in sacred celebrations.

Many are overcoming Emotional past difficulties in relationships and connections . Self-love is what strengthens and supports the heart’s healing, attracting what the self truly desires. Recognising fears as feedback to catalyse growth and transmutation. Letting go of subconscious expectations regarding connections. relationships and friendships, to see far beyond the collective illusions.

Planetary Ascension is now on another level and in a new conscious paradigm , providing stability, strength, support and grounding in the New Earth. The ascending are Releasing residual fears regarding close and intimate connections and expanding and engaging in Creator Source unconditional Love .

The Ascending are clearing out more of the old and out dated beliefs in past self versions, opening the heart space , expanding and healing the heart chakra Now preparing for a life and future on ascending Gaia earth , living in earths conscious timelines of a heavenly expression in this world based in alignment, balance , joy , collaboration . harmony , compassion and bliss .

The Abundant flow is in full activation in new earth energy , Synchronicity plays a big role in this new energy shift on earth , conscious vibrational alignment is key in all areas of life , allowing self to imagine , play , create , express and welcome in self’s newfound innocence. This may manifest as nature outings , sacred gatherings , self love , self nurture , travel, enjoying time with self , loved ones . new friendships, new places . new soul connections .

Creating and expressing the embodiment of new earth energy. Abundance on our earth has expanded and accelerated in its flow in this universal year 8 (2024 ) . Blessings in all forms are activating in this numerical frequency universal 8 year , including the strengthening of attributes and virtues sovereignty, dedication , resiliency , wisdom, endurance , compassion . Healing the Akashic stored cellular sufferance. 8 is also the representation of truth , inner power . Endurance , and strength .

The Ascending collective are increasing in gratitude energies for the abundant flow of blessings from our Earth, Planet and Stars, feeling surrounded by Source love , light frequencies , experiencing unconditional love from the benevolent universe, this increases the Synchronistic flow and fills the heart with eternal gratitude.

In Loving and Devoted Ascension Service

By Ascension Lightworkers . ©️

Abundance of Unity / Union of Bliss

PLANET EARTH IS APPROACHING

THE FIRST WAVE OF ASCENSION

TO THE FIFTH DENSITY.

All the blood ,sweat and tears

was finally worth it!.

We are at the end of night.

The clock is ticking

We did the impossible !

Our brothers and sisters look up

to us in great admiration.

In future shows, we will explain the big physical change and give more instructions on the sequence of events on how to prepare properly.

This is a small sample of what

they showed me how we would feel

during the first transition.

This will be the first of three

powerful waves of Light.

The third is the conclusion of the Rise of the whole Collective to the fifth density.

A density is a separate reality,

a separate tone in Harmonics.

There are many Dimensions within each density that can exist simultaneously, Reflecting the vibration of Your ‘Being.

You are in a density , you feel a certain dimension and this is exceptional to

your current state of consciousness.

Between every density,

there are walls of light,

designed to protect the power and knowledge of evil beings.

The poles are splitting right Now

This is an urgent sign that the magnetosphere is weakening.

Getting closer to turning the poles.

Over the next few days or weeks

we will experience an increase

of the first 144,000.

Maybe a lot more.

Everyone will experience different Perceptions of the same reality.

In the days leading up to the first Solar Wave, there will be clear Instructions on how things will unfold.

The moment the solar wave touches Earth, it will enter a zero Electromagnetic zone, disrupting its own rotational movement.

Those Awake will see a massive

mass of golden plasma enter, first at low speed, then accelerating as it approaches.

So if you press the magnetosphere,

you’ll turn purple, blue, green, pink and many other shades of color that you’ve never seen in any of your 3D experiences.

Golden Plasma will swallow

the entire planet in 10-20 seconds.

When plasma touches each of us,

we will all have a unique, unimaginable Union of Bliss With Source.

You are all created Individually, for each of your own unique and personal heights.

Imagine getting to the summit and not only finding the Source, but Remembering in the blink of an eye, thousands if not billions of lives, existing not only on Earth, for the Liberation of Humanity, but of all those who live in different stellar systems and galaxies and even in different universes in some cases.

Everyone will receive their own level of DNA activation in proportion to their own experience and wisdom.

Time will stand Still because it will pass in less than a second and you will still feel like it has lasted so long that you almost forgot your life on Earth.

You’ll forget you’re still here on earth.

The pineal gland will release large amounts of DMT (dimethyltryptamine).

You will see everything and

know that this will change forever.

When you go back to your body,

You will notice that you can see

with your eyes closed.

You will always feel that abundance

of Unity. Then you will open your eyes

and everything will change.

With love, light and gratitude… ”

~Maria Cecilia Ngari

(Originally posted by Jane Dixon House ❤️)