Enablers of Psychological Abuse in PA cases

The alienating parent often deludes even seasoned professionals. Their convincing presentation of events, coupled with their projection of all wrongdoing onto the targeted parent, can lead professionals to overlook the true dynamics at play. Furthermore, the weaponization of children by the alienating parent exacerbates the complexity of the situation. Indoctrinated and manipulated, the children become unwitting accomplices in the alienation process, aligning themselves with one parent while turning against the other. Professionals often tend to prioritise the perspective of the alienated child, failing to recognise the coercive control and psychological abuse they have been subjected to. In many cases, professionals focus on the false allegations and fabricated stories rather than scrutinising the person who is refusing to co-parent and collaborate and who is, in reality, inflicting the harm and perpetuating the alienation. This can usually be attributed to a lack of understanding and training in identifying and addressing parental alienation. Not to mention that many professionals in these fields are often overworked, underpaid, and understaffed, further hindering their ability to address complex family dynamics adequately.⁠

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It’s critical to acknowledge that parental alienation constitutes a form of familial abuse characterized by coercive control, psychological manipulation, and long-lasting harmful effects on children. This includes spousal psychological abuse directed towards the targeted parent and child psychological abuse inflicted through manipulation and coercion by the alienating parent. Leaving a child in the care of an alienating parent who engages in such abusive behaviour is itself abusive and perpetuates the cycle of harm. Failure to recognize and intervene in cases of parental alienation not only harms the targeted parent but also perpetuates the horrendous psychological abuse inflicted upon the child. We need systematic change. ⁠

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Parallel Parenting -Charlie McCready

In cases of documented abuse and neglect towards children and spouses, the priority must always be the safety and well-being of the child. Parallel parenting can be a necessary approach in such situations, where the focus shifts from collaboration between parents to minimizing contact and interactions to ensure the safety of all involved parties.⁠

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Parallel parenting allows for the establishment of clear boundaries and guidelines for communication and decision-making, reducing the potential for further conflict and harm. It provides a structured framework for parents to fulfil their responsibilities while minimizing direct contact and exposure to abusive behaviours.⁠

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While the concept of parallel parenting may not completely resolve the underlying issues of abuse and neglect, it can provide a necessary safeguard for vulnerable individuals and facilitate a more stable environment for children to thrive. Additionally, it may be accompanied by legal measures such as restraining orders or supervised visitation to further ensure the safety of all parties involved.⁠

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The distinction between parental alienation and cases of documented abuse and neglect emphasises the paramount importance of protecting children from harm and taking appropriate actions to address and prevent further abuse. In cases of documented abuse, it’s crucial for professionals and authorities to prioritize the safety of the child and take appropriate actions to protect them from further harm. This may include intervention from child protective services, legal measures to restrict contact with the abusive parent, and providing support and resources for the non-abusive parent and child to heal and rebuild their lives.⁠

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The only way out is in

It’s undeniable we are sensing there is something very special happening; a kind of magic entering our collective worlds. Spiritual awareness has exploded causing a tsunami of awakening.

We can feel the waves of light entering the global atmosphere assisting us to own more of ourselves and our choices. These tidal waves of truth will keep touching our shores of honesty encouraging us to walk our authenticity out into the world.

Through this accelerated time of awakening it’s causing us to plug into our greater personal power and we are finding ourselves not tolerating that which is not authentic and transparent.

This flow will only continue to quicken and anything that does not resonate with truth and honesty will be questioned and moved out.

Humanity’s psyche is changing and evolving. Every facet of our lives is going to go under the microscope of truth so a new song can fill the airways.

These new notes are helping pave the way for humanity to lead from the heart and we can finally awaken from the amnesia that has shrouded us.

Terri Morehu ❤️

excerpt from The Only Way Out Is In

available now from Amazon

Equinox Energies 9-22/9-26

To The Ascension LightWorker Collective

September 22nd – 26th :transformational energy shifts autumn / spring equinox energies , solar storms, life-changing breakthroughs, fatigue, disturbed sleep, higher self communication , overcoming challenges , clearing out more of the past , Reaching higher intuitive levels , heightened clarity, alignment , experiencing closures of the previous 6 months , starting an exciting new chapter

EQUINOX ENERGIES : The equinox is the representation of balance and harmony between light and darkness, It serves as a reminder for the ascending to strive for equilibrium in life , finding a middle ground between the extremes. This equinox energy will prompt most to reflect on the importance of balancing internal energies and emotions.

The Equinox represents balancing , harmony , restoration , activation , rebirth and integration The equinox Influx activation is bringing in extremely powerful energy shifts for the planet and for many ascending . From previous inner turmoil many are now shifting into their Inner balance , peace and harmony as they are imperative during this time of planetary transition.

Expanding in the changes that this sacred activation brings in trusting that everything is happening as it should at all given times . Remembering each season has its own purpose and catalytic action as we continue planting the ascension seeds here on this planet for the highest good of all .

Trusting in higher self and ascension team to know what is needed at all times , this occurs before conscious awareness .All will be in accordance with the divine will of Creator source energy and in precise , perfect and divine timing .

A time of significant change has arrived, and we are all being urged to take a leap of faith, even if it feels scary , vulnerable and unfamiliar at times , Embracing this unfolding with open arms, all that is coming in is vibrationally aligned with the soul’s evolution. Strong synchronicities and confirmations are activating within the ascending’s blueprint and auric fields , this will be affirming and validating .

During the Equinox, there is a process of clearing out old energies, which can feel heavy and dense prioritising rest and self-care, when needed avoiding pushing the self to extremes . Emotionally, mentally, and physically, the existing self is recalibrating , integrating rebalancing and releasing what the self has experienced in the past .

As the Ascending transition through the Equinox energies, individuals on their ascension journey may be experiencing specific ascension symptoms linked to the expansion of the Pineal gland geometries and the Vagus nerve system. The Pineal gland adjusts to conscious shifts to emit higher frequencies of light, activating the original Template while the Right Brain asserts leadership in our conscious evolution, uniting with the Left Brain in the higher Heart space.

Common ascension symptoms include feeling dizzy, disoriented, fatigued, anxious, restless, having trouble sleeping, or feeling an increased need for sleep. These symptoms arise from the release of erratic energy as the system balances itself in a new Conscious alignment. Digestive disturbances, changes in appetite, and heart chakra palpitations are also prevalent during this phase due to the Vagus nerve’s connection between the brain and digestive system.

Emotionally, past-life energies are clearing on deeper levels this may also surface, This is preparing self to align with new earths future timelines. When clearing lower conscious levels within , the ascending may experience intensified physical symptoms and temporary mental brain fog, with pressure on the crown chakra from previous blockages in the pineal gland. This stems From past Irritability, blame-shifting, and fear-based thinking , purifying and releasing past poor decision making in the 3D world , clearing and releasing scarcity thinking Ascension symptoms means that the physical is expressing , past thinking , false programming as outdated beliefs continue to internally collapse .

The subconscious aspects of the mind is releasing through Vivid dreaming, conscious dreaming , lucid dreaming intense emotional releases , bodily aches, and confusing insights are all part of this releasing energy. As the ascending individual releases density, more energetic space is created for personal expansion. This Equinox energy encourages us to focus on areas of life that need more harmony to manifest internal balance .

On September 22nd , 23rd, 24th, 25th and 26th , Powerful frequencies are entering the planet, activating many into higher vibrational ascension energies. The focus is to ground the self during this time. This can be done with far more ease by spending some time with self in nature.

Equinox energies provide opportunities to release old patterns, belief systems, shadows, and stagnation debris . A time to take leaps of faith and welcome in the new. The equinox alignment amplifies the power of manifestation.

Cosmic energy is deeply woven into the planetary energy , We are on the brink of major changes and moving into a much higher functioning level of being. The past habits and negative loops many were once struggling in will continue to dissipate and dissolve from ascending reality .This planetary energy brings in powerful and significant opportunities for the new version of self manifestations.

Expect to experience higher levels of realisations , consciously ascending into true self energy , moving forward and making necessary adjustments as needed . Divine blessings begin to appear in disguise.

In loving and devoted Ascension service

by Ascension Lightworkers . ©️

Awakening

“Awakening is not a thing. It is not a goal, not a concept. It is not something to be attained. It is a metamorphosis. If the caterpillar thinks about the butterfly it is to become, saying ‘And then I shall have wings and antennae,’ there will never be a butterfly. The caterpillar must accept its own disappearance in its transformation. When the marvelous butterfly takes wing, nothing of the caterpillar remains.”

― Alejandro Jodorowsky

Art by Chie Yoshii

The narcissist marriage of servitude / Control not connection

When you marry a narcissistic man, you never get a chance to be a wife; instead, you take on the role of a mother because these adults behave like man-children.

They go to work Monday through Friday and then spend their weekends sitting in front of a laptop, downloading music, playing video games, or making messes for you to clean up.

You find yourself single and a father simultaneously, taking on the burden of responsibilities without the support of a partner.

Narcissists don’t marry for love or partnership; they marry because they want a maid, cook, secretary, banker, and a nanny.

They crave control, not connection. Their selfish desires consume them, leaving you to run the household, raise the children, and satisfy their every whim.

Your dreams of a loving and equal relationship are shattered, replaced by the harsh reality of servitude.

As days turn into weeks, and weeks into years, you become a shadow of your old self.

Your identity is erased, replaced by the exhausting duties of handling a narcissist’s life.

You are obliged to sacrifice your own desires, interests and friendships to accommodate their demands.

Emotional childbirth is suffocating, leaving you drained, resentful, and wondering how you ended up in this nightmare.

You’re not alone in this fight.

Many women have fallen prey to the charming facade of a narcissist, only to find themselves trapped in a loveless and ungrateful role.

Remember, you deserve better.

You deserve a partner who loves, supports, and respects you.