What leads certain people to seek vengeance? Sadism — ScienceDaily

Hard to ignore the intensification…

People who enjoy hurting others and seeing them in pain are more likely to seek revenge against those who have wronged them, according to a new study.
— Read on www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2017/11/171130133827.htm

8 Behaviors Someone With a Personality Disorder Displays to Reveal Themselves

Personality disorders are sets of behaviors, thoughts, and feelings that impair functioning. Here are 8 traits of someone with a personality disorder…
— Read on www.powerofpositivity.com/personality-disorder-behaviors/

The Narcissist Always Over Idealizes Each New Partner 🎅🏼

Indeed , or at least that’s the social projection .

Extremely chummy right from the get go , I

recall meeting his roommate/childhood friend

1st , so it could have been one up man’s ship.

Plus I had pots and pans , could keep house

and he had not done that yet.. my caregiving

my empathy , and having no true reason to

doubt , or to over react to behaviors I had noted

as extremely angry and abusive in brothers

which I did not heal nor comprehend in its

totality until Dad’s exit began in Aug 2011…

The healing has been happening over a long

time .. I had synced with Dad as my main

nurturer , and extra sensitive to his mood , sense

deep and profound pain and shadow that he had

no resources for , and much shame and guilt

for ..

I have never known the shame or guilt for his very

open relationships , out of towners , my own sister

and god knows who else.

As he joined in union , then exited our home , he

was delirious with joy, a younger , more attractive

more adversary, partner who would be by his side

as twins , enjoying the increased targeting and abuse

while binding our sons closer and tighter in a web

of lies that’s been unraveling .

Like crumbs he leaves a trail.. Regrettably Reclamation

requires the truth , n light and apparently he’s been

inoculated.

But he does have a new gal ❤️.

This clearing includes them as well, if he chooses to accept this .

Blessings & Peace ,🙏❤️🥰

©️

Doña Luna

www.youtube.com/watch

Narcissist have No Loyalty to Anyone Anything – Trevor J. Freeman

This was masked , and over time became apparent

though very loyal in all appearances and actions

the negative language of mom , and much later

his 3rd person stories of his cheating .. Calling

him out on every lie or weirdness would have

consumed me.. As we were rushed in to parenthood

my blessing , his nightmare , and the decent in acknowledging

his deep detachment .. I did see growth, then it was

shadow again.. sensing he held a lot of pain, but he

never shared deeply , only this behavior described

in the video. It was dank and haunting , as a possessive

man, I was well aware of my chances in a divorce .

Causal and Toxic till the end …

©️Doña Luna

Blessings & Peace 🎄🎁🥳

www.youtube.com/watch

The Reaction Of a Narcissist When Met with Truth

What a Christmas gift 🎁, to hear this young man .

Hear his message to avoid the dark place that I complied

with , let’s make each experience that abuses children count

doing what we can in family reunification and simplify children’s

lives, families lives …

©️

Blessings & Peace ❤️🎄

Doña Luna

www.youtube.com/watch

Weaponized Blocking via Narcissist

Lots of truths in my experience , teamed with mom, or

beloved or kids , I’ve been blocked over 20 years , targeted

to shut me up .

Using children weaponized Abuse for Power and 🤑

©️

Blessings & Peace ,

Doña Luna

www.youtube.com/watch

Drcachildress.org Childress announces his new website 🌈

I have a new website.  I have reorganized my posts to my website.  It’s still in transition, we’re moving the domain names (drcachildress.org & .com) over, my tech is talking to their tech, but they jabbering in language I don’t speak so… 
Until the domain name gets changed over my website will be in flux.
Office of C.A. Childress 
Unfortunately, changes mean that links to materials on my previous site don’t work.
No way to get around that, it will be a convulsing transition for some, and then it will work itself out.
My site is organized now into five sections, echos of Mushashi, these will be more helpful for newcomers to the site.  I anticipate this will occur with greater regularity, we’re entering a new phase.
I’m coming.  Before, I was using my website for other purposes.  Up until now, I’ve been busy putting things in place, change agent things. 
We begin building any structure by laying foundations, I was building foundations.  Everything is in place.  I’m here now.
You had a role in educating ignorance before. That will be shifting to me, your emerging role will be to drive demand and market forces to a clinical psychology assessment and to make it dangerous for ignorance and incompetence to remain ignorant and incompetent.
I’ll take on the education role more directly.
You can see our foundations clearly laid out in my Australian Amicus Submission, available on my website, MH: Articles & Essays.
It’s time for me to trim the sails, open the gun ports, roll out cannon, and prepare for action. The HMS Dr. Chldress has arrived off the port of Tortuga, we have some pathogen to clear out.
You can already begin to hear the cannon fire from Dr. Childress on this Facebook Group, can’t you?  The smoke, noise, and fire of battle is upon us, my cannon have commenced their bombardment of the port’s defenses.
Truth is truth, knowledge is knowledge.
Ignorance solves nothing, apply knowledge to solve pathology.  Diagnosis guides treatment.  You will hear the roar of cannon for a while, until we’ve cleared   Tortuga and the APA of its pathogen.
Until we’ve stopped the trauma and abuse, to you, to our children, you’ll hear cannon fire off the port of Tortuga.
My ship, my website, is a resource organized unto itself.  You can simply link to my website (once domain names are shifted), I’ll take care of the rest on my end.
I have organized my site into five Sections, each with sub-sections, think of them as the gun ports on the HMS Dr. Childress:
Parents: This has 6 sub-sections, Parent Consultation and Parent Resources will be most useful, the others simply batten down some hatches, like the Flying Monkey Newsletter if anyone ever needs that.
Mental Health Professionals: There are 9 subsections for this area, with the primary ones being AB-PA Forms and Articles & Essays. The rest batten down hatches.
Attorneys: This has three sub-sections, the two most active gunports are Resources and High Road (Puter), the High Road workshop represents remedy in many cases.
YouTube: These are links to my YouTube series, I will be organizing this more fully. I’m planning a regular weekly “fireside chat” with Dr. Childress, on topics that catch my fancy.  Currently, the YouTube section leads with the Foundations: Family Systems series. I just re-watched that, it’s a good resource for basic education.
Registration: This is for my training seminars. Dublin, Ireland with Dr. Childress & Dorcy Pruter in April is currently available on this Registration page, scroll down for registration information.
Another useful gunport is Parents: Blogs of Note.  I had the choice to put this in Parents or Mental Health Professionals, I chose Parents, and I selected Blogs that are both for parents and are resources they can provide to others.
For those who have been working with me for a while, this will disrupt your links. Ahhhhh, sucks for you.  No worries, no way around it, I’m on the battlefield now, it’s my job to bring fire. Refer to my website, that will be enough.
The Australian Amicus Submission represents a significant step along the path to solution, step-by-step we are going to get your kids back.  Not a doubt in the world on that, it’s simply a matter of when.
That’s up to ignorance and sloth, you, and the universe.
The universe has this.  It is time.  Solutions are coming.  Solutions are here.  All anyone needs to do is… simply do it.  Solve it.  It’s not hard.  It’s simple.
But trauma thinks it’s “hard” and “complicated” – there’s reasons for that.  Have I mentioned that the pathogen lies?  Yeah, all the time – there’s a reason for that too.  Those are both symptom features of trauma pathology, I can explain where they come from if anyone wants to know.
I used to work foster care, I’ve worked trauma up-close and personal.  This is the worst trauma and emotional-psychological abuse I have ever encountered – emotional abuse of parents and psychological abuse of their children.
It needs to stop.  Now.  That is serious.  Active and ongoing trauma and abuse are serious matters, the abuse and traumatization of these parents and their children needs to stop.
I’m a clinical psychologist, I’m working.
Apply knowledge to solve pathology, start with family systems therapy:
Childress YouTube – Foundations: Family Systems.
Start there.
Craig Childress, Psy,D,
Clinical Psychologist, PSY 18857

‘Housing is a human right’—Philly organizer explains why housing must be centered in 2020 campaigns

Definitely , a crisis I have noted since the early 90s and it’s epidemic now.

Certainly worthy of resolving ASAP

In the 2020 race, Democratic candidates are finally beginning to speak deeply about the housing crisis. Community organizer, educator, and Philadelphia City Councilmember Helen Gym, however, believes that housing is actually one of the most central…
— Read on www.dailykos.com/stories/2019/12/17/1906044/–Housing-is-a-human-right-Philly-organizer-explains-why-housing-must-be-centered-in-2020-campaigns

Intimate Partner Violence – PTSD: National Center for PTSD. Virginia

Describes intimate partner violence (IPV) as a type of domestic violence and explains how common it is. Provides information about the signs and effects of IPV and offers tips and resources to stay safe.
— Read on www.ptsd.va.gov/understand/types/violence_ipv.asp

20 Alarming Domestic Violence Statistics for 2018 – Social Solutions

Every year, over 10 million men and women are subjected to Domestic Violence. Read more Domestic Violence statistics to understand its impact.
— Read on staging.socialsolutions.com/blog/domestic-violence-statistics-2018/