Dear Child who watched their parents fall apart

Dear Child Who Watched Their Parents Fall Apart,

You remember the slammed doors.

The words that cut through walls.

The silence that said more than shouting ever could.

You remember trying to be small,

to not take up space, to be the reason they stayed

or at least the reason they didn’t fight that night.

And you tried—you tried so hard to keep the peace in a war that wasn’t yours.

You didn’t understand all of it,

but you felt it.

The shift.

The distance.

The way love started to sound different—like something sharp and cold.

You watched the people who were supposed to teach you how to love, forget how to love each other.

And that kind of heartbreak?

It stays with you in quiet ways.

In the way you flinch at conflict.

In the way you over-apologize.

In the way you question if love always ends in leaving.

But none of this was your fault.

Not the tension.

Not the breaking.

Not the way they stopped looking at each other like they used to.

You were just a child.

And children should never have to carry adult heartbreak.

You deserved to feel safe.

To feel shielded.

To feel like your home was a soft place to land—not a battlefield with no winner.

So if no one ever told you this before,

hear it now:

You were never the problem.

You were just the quiet witness to something they couldn’t hold together.

And you deserved so much more peace than they gave you.

You still do.

Narcissist =Tasmanian Devil

Nothing quite prepares you for the hell, torment, demonic attacks, and wicked manipulation that a toxic ex will unleash when you escape from Egypt. Just when you thought you were done, free, and safe, you find out that the narcissistic, controlling, and vengeful ex is on a new mission to be a toxic coparent, turn your kids against you, weaponize the courts, traumatize your trauma, and take emotional warfare to a new level. You’re trying to heal while they’re doing everything they can to keep you hypervigilant, dysregulated, powerless, and in constant fear of the next attack, threat, eruption, or toxic trick.

The last thing these tazmanian devils expect you to do is to find your tribe, get expert support to heal under fire, protect your children, take your power back, and end their reign of terror. Countless survivors and loved ones are in isolation and silently struggling with this nightmare. I’ve helped hundreds of survivors defeat this Goliath, turn their hell into hope, and take their power back. I can assure you that if you don’t think that you can end the war, protect your children, heal relationships with minor/grown children, and emotionally heal under fire, you don’t want to miss my 5-week post-separation abuse group coaching cohort, The Silent Struggle: Post Separation Abuse.

This live, virtual event for parents, loved ones, grandparents, and people helpers starts tomorrow, April 10th. Weekly sessions will dive deep into every aspect of this warfare and thoroughly equip and prepare you to turn the tables. If you can’t stand the thought of fighting this fight alone, losing your kids to toxic lies and manipulation, or spending the next decade or more living in fear, emotional turmoil, and being retraumatized daily, register today for this life-changing group coaching event. Weekly live sessions are recorded and can be watched/rewatched at your convenience, 24/7. Follow the link in my bio or below to register today!

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Liberation

Notice everything unfolding in our midst is Inviting us to awaken to the energetic nature of the phenomenal plane and the big picture. Only as we reach a level of Insight can consciousness arise out of its limited body vehicle to enter a wider field of awareness and know liberation.

The growing institutional, local, national, global market upheavals foreshadow the dissolution of the familliar, many levels of destruction and change, many of which are unfathomable in mind.

Part of the job of yogi , and all whom are ready , is to ground self in a state of peace to hold space for the external crumbling of systems and conditioned ways of life that we have outgrown. Soul is aware no chaos exists at the level of infinite Self.

It is transitioning from one age of human consciousness to another. The old paradigm, old ways of functioning, must fade , dissolve so a higher vibrational state can emerge. Only then can the fear of death , loss and duality of our world be recognized as a portal to the birth fo a new world that is free of the kinds of conflicts and illusions that led to this period of transition.

In a nutshell , time is of the essence.

We need an extremely direct path to self love and acceptance. Not much time for pilgrimage walks, ashram stays or reading libraries of books, taking courses. Destruction is happening quickly and the familliar is fading fast. To graduate from this level of reality, now is the moment to get the spiritual knowledge of the most profound sages of our planetary history. To embody their wisdom requires letting go. Shapeshifting happens quickly to those who are wholehearted. Willingly let go of all that has been taught as distraction. ~ Liara Covert ❤️