” There is so many empowering healing modalities
it’s a matter of research and personal choice.
And that make it so much easier to hold hope
The denial is over however , as is the ” targeted ”
“there may be a ‘sensitive period’ in which stress is more likely to affect the development of the hippocampus.”
— Read on www.futurity.org/trauma-babies-teens-depression-1959832/
The essence of domestic violence is that abusers use a variety of tactics to scare and coerce their partners to do what the abuser wants. This results in the mother and children living in fear. There are ten adverse childhood experiences. In the context of a contested custody case, the child usually starts with a score of one for the parents separating, one for domestic violence and one for emotional abuse of the child. Fathers who abuse the mother are 40-60% more likely to also abuse the children physically and sexually. If both, that would increase the score to 5. If one or both parents have a substance abuse problem or mental illness those are two more possible points. Physical or emotional neglect are two more possibilities. Significantly all of the other ACEs are more likely when a father abuses a mother. An ACE score of 6 results in an average reduction in life expectancy of 20 years.
Accepted , in our suicidal culture as normal.
The side effects are equal to a sexually abused
child..those side effects don’t just go away.
Ryan Thomas, Child of Parental Alienation Helping Parents Reconnect
— Read on ryanthomasspeaks.com/blog-2/2-types-of-alienated-children-which-is-yours/
I had a huge breakthrough in the Shame gig , so
worthy that I know I personally don’t have to go
there , nor allow anyone or anything to take me
to that place ..
I totally get it, and all it’s fall out , and have empathy
for anyone holding shame .
Allowing myself to be vulnerable , is part of my 51 out of
55 score on emotional intelligence .. My words , my actions
are catching up with my score 🙏🏼
This article offers so much info, but I would urge caution, in
acceptance of terms that have become lucrative labels for
human begins that is discrimination.
My co dependence was my expectation of a partner , my Christian
and social conditioning that allowed me compliant , Xanax
and professional denial of my abuse , by a partner , whose
ownership is still a force in his mind .
Rendered incapacitated , by any illness , which limits in
clarity , participation , being targeted has been a vulgar
acceptance of immorality that left our sons in alignment
with my unworthiness..
Addicted, legally , our children grew up , with addicts in the
house , as all that was normal was rejected , my faith eroded
in detachment that was very necessary in opposition coming
at me, openly disputing co anything..
What is codependency and how can it affect people, how to recognize signs of codependency, and resources for learning more about and overcoming it.
— Read on positivepsychologyprogram.com/codependency-definition-signs-worksheets/
Gov. Michelle Lujan Grisham says she will direct health officials in her administration to begin making opioid addiction a qualifying condition for patients seeking to use medical marijuana.
— Read on www.kvia.com/news/new-mexico/new-mexico-governor-opioid-addicts-to-qualify-for-medical-marijuana/977006463
The past devaluation of rape , and life long ramifications , towards
anyone , of any gender, race , and age has been exposed as unimportant
from stockpiles of unprocessed rape kits , and being further abused
in a culture of profession acceptance .. Transforming this , will be
a community effort , in a consciousness that does not the rape,
of children, ( molestation seems to desensitize an act that overpowers
a child , doing much harm) .
Healing modalities , love and acceptance await , as we lift the bar
to reconnect with sacred soul contracts , ending so many doing
so much harm.
Last April, Justice Department office on violence against women began to narrowly redefine its basic concepts
— Read on www.salon.com/2019/01/23/trump-administration-quietly-changes-definition-of-domestic-violence-and-sexual-assault/
No one with character that is not acting in the best interest of the child
who sees their job, as winning , trumping a family , bragging is
in the wrong line of work.
The ” burn out ” happens rather quickly , which points to lots
of room for improvement ..
Siobhan Condon, 41, bragged breaking up the family and revelled in the judge giving the parents a ‘massive rollicking’. The post gave enough information to identify the family.
— Read on www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2755853/It-amazing-moment-Social-worker-gloats-Facebook-breaking-family-revelling-massive-rollicking-judge-gave-parents.html
The Admin Of Domestic Abuse, rules on their own abuse.
And of course, it’s not them, ever .
It is too early to assess the full impact of the change.
— Read on slate.com/news-and-politics/2019/01/trump-domestic-violence-definition-change.html