Tag: survivors

Christmas 🎄 and Family Estrangement

‘Twas the night before Christmas, when all through the house not a creature was stirring, not even a mouse …’ But for us, alienated parents, that silence isn’t peaceful—it’s unnatural. It’s not supposed to be this way. Our children have been unjustifiably, most cruelly, denied a relationship with us, and the quiet reminds us of their absence. The pain is real and heightened on nights like this. I know from personal experience that Christmas can be an extremely tough time for an alienated parent. The sense of loss is heightened, and you can easily get caught in an emotional loop. You have to deal with not seeing the children and maybe even having your presents rejected or returned. Whilst I cannot make your children come back during the festive season or cure the absence of their presence and laughter, I’m here to help you manage these feelings and find your inner strength. I help many parents, like you, cope far better with the challenges that we face. You can learn to re-frame the way that you experience alienation, changing the way you think, feel and act. I will be working on this with my current clients and anyone else who wants to join my program or coaching. You can shift your perspective and regain a sense of peace, not just for the holidays but moving forward. Reach out for support. If not me, then those close to you who can support you when you need it. Take care, Charlie.

#charliemccready

#parentalalienationcoach

#parentalalienation

#parentalalienationawareness

#healing

#divorce

#FathersMatter

#mothersmatter

Meds- Totally natural , I began to treat or prevent *ancer

After a consult by phone , with my Natrapath , knowing that I have to do something , I’m not feeling strong .

Ivermectin- capsules , it’s helping a lot with inflammation

Estrogen – I have never taken it consistently, but read it has a lot to do with tendon and ligament tightness ..

The citrus compound is for my liver as is the Liver Sauce .

I have a Keto diet ebook to download , hopefully tomorrow .

Up late after eating some espresso dusted hazelnuts .

Searching for documents as well.

Peace ✌️

Exadus Project

The soul of a woman, a mother who has been emotionally tortured by a depraved narcissistic abuser, cannot be explained in simple terms. Being stabbed from the inside out, in front of your children, in front of God, takes a special kind of demon, the kind that many are convinced only exist in the movies. If only that were true.

We see this ugliness up close and in person every month. Mothers with broken teeth, mothers with scars over their whole body, mothers with children who have been severely abused, mothers so severely traumatized that they can barely talk. This year, our abuse advocacy program has helped over 500 mothers and their children (over 1,100) escape homelessness, as the result of fleeing abusive relationships of every kind. We’ve stepped in and bailed mothers out of jail who were falsely accused by their abuser to manipulate the family court system into taking their children, and helped to reunite those mothers with their children by providing assistance to secure permanent housing. 51 of the mothers had to be relocated to undisclosed locations with permanent housing to escape abusers hell bent on violating restraining orders and taking children the courts awarded full custody to the mother. One mother, one too many, was sadly murdered by her abuser in front of her children, just 2 days before we were set to move her into her new permanent housing.

We end each year with a drive, a push to help 125 abused mothers and their children secure permanent housing. This December, we’ve helped 87 mothers and their children secure permanent housing with rent/utility deposit, household furnishings, food and personal necessities. We have 38 mothers remaining and I am personally asking friends and supporters to help us help these mothers end the nightmare of homelessness with a year-end donation to The Exodus Project. I am asking those who can to make a generous donation of $10 or whatever God puts on your heart. Please visit The Exodus Project today to lend your support by following to link below and in my comment to this post. Bless you and thank you!

Website: http://www.theexodusproject.com/helping-homeless-abuse-victims/

Alienating Parents & the Damage Done

Parental alienation occurs when one parent, typically after separation or divorce, actively and deliberately attempts to distance the child from the other parent. It’s not uncommon for an alienating parent to have shown far less interest in the child’s life before separation, only to suddenly become intensely involved once the other parent is no longer in the picture. It can be even more so when they remarry.

The alienating parent may use manipulative tactics to undermine the relationship between the child and the other parent. This can involve making negative comments about the other parent, falsely accusing them of wrongdoing, or deliberately preventing the child from spending time with the other parent. The goal is often to erase the other parent’s influence from the child’s life, creating a sense of loyalty and dependence solely on the alienating parent. This behaviour is widely considered harmful to the child’s well-being, as it can lead to emotional distress, confusion, and strained relationships with both parents.

The alienated parent might wonder how alienating behaviours impact the relationship between the alienating parent and the alienated child (a convoluted sentence, but I want to be clear). Some (though not nearly enough yet) may view alienating behaviours as a form of psychological child abuse, especially given there are allegations without proof that the child is better off without one of their parents in their life. It may lead to legal consequences such as changes in custody arrangements or supervised visitation for the alienating parent. We do hear of these stories (again, they are few and far between) as the courts tend to take the lead from the ‘voice of the (indoctrinated/alienated) child’. But, also, and more generally, the alienating parent is not easy to live with. They are highly manipulative, and the child may come to realise this. Their love is conditional. After-all, this is a parent who requires the child to cut the other loved/loving parent out of their life. This is NOT loving behaviour. Deep down, the child knows even if they make excuses and align with this parent.

NB: A father can be a biological parent. A biological parent is someone who is genetically related to a child and participated in the child’s conception. Both the mother and father of a child are considered biological parents.

#charliemccready

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#narcissisticabuseawareness

#narcissisticparenting

#coercivecontrol

#fathersrights

#mothersrights

#parentalalienation

No reason for panic or fear .

I have personally had some efforts to continue control, fear , and panic , as well as trauma , which haven’t worked . It has added to my determination to end distorted , greedy , soulless , selfish attachments 🙏🏼💯

What we are witnessing is a struggle for transparency. The established powers are aware of the impending revelations and are making desperate attempts to maintain their control over you.

I’ve been watching numerous videos shared by people regarding drones, and I’ve observed that some of these are not actually drones. They resemble some of the crafts I’ve encountered over the years, and I received confirmation of this when I went to sleep on Saturday night.

Some drones are manufactured by humans, while others originate from our Galactic Families. You can distinguish between them because our ships exhibit different movements and interdimensional capabilities, so keep this in mind when you observe these drones.

Try to remain in a state of love and resist their fear-inducing tactics. We all possess the power and resilience to navigate through this situation.

Some of their smaller crafts and drones are monitoring anything nuclear, as they will not permit this planet to be destroyed by those who have instilled fear in humanity for ages.

There’s no need to panic; they will intervene when necessary. They will not allow any harm to come to this planet, which is their home as well, and they cherish Mother Earth just as much, if not more, than we do.

This planet is one of the most extraordinary in our Universe; there is no other like it because Mother sustains herself uniquely, and everything here has a purpose.

Indeed, there is a shadow government behind much of this, and we know that the U N, W H O, W E F, and N A T O have control issues where they aim to dominate the world. This will not happen. We are currently witnessing the dismantling of this control, and it will persist as more individuals awaken from the spell they have been under.

Things may become chaotic as this disclosure unfolds; those who wish to keep us in the dark are once again instilling fear and staging a fake alien invasion. Many of us have discussed this for years, and we genuinely hoped it would not come to this.

I feel grateful to be present during these intense yet thrilling moments as humanity uncovers the truth about this world and their own Spirit.

I want you all to be aware that you will start to see more ships and drones, and don’t be surprised if some crafts come very close. Remember that the triangular-shaped ships with a red light in the center and white lights at each corner are reverse-engineered and constructed by humans. They lack the interdimensional capabilities that our crafts possess, but they do have weapons, such as DEW and frequency enhancers; there is more, but at this moment, I can’t recall it all, perhaps I’m not meant to share that.

Have faith in our Galactic Families; they are not here to save us but will assist us with guidance and understanding. They will not allow any severe harm to come to Mother Earth. We will witness the most significant shift ever.

While some may react in fear, many will rise to the occasion and reveal to humanity what is truly happening, much of which relates to those who will be taking office to expose the criminals who have committed atrocities against humanity.

We, as a collective on Earth, are the ones dismantling all of this by shifting our consciousness and seeing through the veils. As I mentioned in a previous post, we will begin to discover more things we were previously unaware of because the frequencies on Earth are continually rising. The higher they go, the more they awaken the dormant parts of our DNA and repair our Pineal Glands, allowing us to push back the veils and see with our true eyes what we have missed for eons.

There is so much more to experience beyond a third-dimensional perspective, and as the frequencies continue to increase, we will begin to see just how truly beautiful Earth is.

Above all, keep an open mind if you are unaware of what is genuinely happening and understand that there is other life in our Universe.

Do not succumb to the fear tactics being presented to you; remain vigilant and do not let what is occurring disturb you emotionally. Fear can distort your energy fields and exacerbate situations, especially during this time when our brains are more affected by what we perceive and do not comprehend.

The next few years will be a bizarre and wild journey as so much information comes to light that has been hidden since World War II and even earlier. New technologies that have been concealed from humanity for over 75 years (which are now being demonstrated through their advanced drones) will start to emerge and be utilized as they should have been decades ago, particularly in the 1990s.

We must all endure this to reach the other side and, most importantly, transform our governments for the sole purpose of bringing awareness to humanity and all life on this planet regarding what has been concealed from them. Those who have perpetrated crimes against humanity for their own greedy interests will face consequences. Whether this will be visible, I cannot say.

Maintain your frequencies high and support those who are paralyzed by fear.

I just wanted to share this message. There is a lot coming into my consciousness right now, and I need to write it down because it all comes in so quickly.

Stay safe out there, and above all,

do not fear.

Our Galactic Families only wish the best for humanity and Mother Earth.

Sending love wherever it is needed and calming energies to help us through this transition. 🤍 ~ Mary Long

Mother Hunger

Every woman carries a map of her mother’s unresolved wounds. They are inherited like heirlooms, passed through blood and breath, encoded in cellular memory. McDaniel reveals that mother hunger is not just psychological—it is a profound spiritual amputation. A violence so deep it rewrites how a woman understands love, safety, her own worth.

This book is not for the faint of heart. This is for warriors. For women ready to name the unnameable, to look unflinchingly into the abyss of their own pain and say: No more. Not today. Not ever again.

1. The Anatomy of Invisible Wounds

Mother hunger is not a metaphor—it’s a landscape carved into your soul. Every unmet need, every moment of emotional abandonment becomes a topography of survival. You learn to survive in the negative space of love, creating intricate survival mechanisms that become your armor. But survival is not living. Healing begins when you recognize that the wounds you cannot see are the ones that cut the deepest, and that naming your pain is the first revolutionary act of reclaiming yourself.

2. Rewriting the Language of Love

You were never taught the true dialect of love. Your mother tongue was silence, abandonment, conditional affection. McDaniel reveals that love is not martyrdom, not silence, not shrinking yourself to fit someone else’s comfort. Love is a living, breathing commitment to your own humanity. It is seeing yourself with the same tenderness you would offer a wounded child. It is understanding that your worth was never determined by the love you did or did not receive.

3. The Body as Sacred Witness

Trauma lives in flesh, in memory, in the way you breathe. Your body knows stories your mind has forgotten. Mother hunger manifests in every relationship, every choice, every moment of self-doubt. But here is the miracle: your body is not a battlefield. It is a sacred text of resilience. Every scar, every tension, every unexplained ache is your body’s way of holding wisdom, of protecting you, of remembering what you were never allowed to speak.

4. Breaking Generational Chains

You are not condemned to repeat the patterns of pain. You are the moment of interruption, the generation that says: No more. Breaking generational cycles is not about blame—it is about radical compassion. For your mother, who was also wounded. For yourself, who is learning to heal. For the daughters who will come after you, who will inherit not your pain, but your profound capacity for transformation.

5. Resurrection as a Daily Practice

Healing is not a destination. It is a moment-by-moment choice. Some days, healing looks like rage. Some days, it looks like tenderness. Some days, it looks like simply breathing. You are learning to mother yourself with the same fierce, unconditional love you were always meant to receive. Your worth is not negotiable. Your pain is not a weakness. Your survival is a testament to a love so profound it can resurrect entire worlds.

This is not just healing. This is a revolution written in the language of the heart.

BOOK: https://amzn.to/3Zmv0hx

Do not call us fragile

We are the daughters of men who broke their own hearts before the world had a chance to. Men who taught us that love could be a wound long before it became a song.

We are the daughters of mothers

whose own mothers whispered:

“Be still, be soft, be something small,

so men will want to play with you.”

But they bore us instead, iron-clad and restless. Their defiance braided into our hair.

Our wombs are not temples of waiting. Our bodies do not beg for sanctuaries. We have bled rivers of resilience, each drop a hymn to survival. When the world sought to name us fragile, we broke their tongues and dared them to define strength.

We are the daughters of women who were never given gardens but grew forests from ash.Women who learned to wield fire. Their shadows cast long and fierce over the faces of oppressors, whispering, “We are here.”

Our laughter is rebellion.

Our tears, a language older than war.

We walk with the weight of ancestors, their sacrifices sewn into our skin. Their dreams sprouting like wildflowers in the marrow of our bones.

Do not call us fragile.

We are storms that leave no sky untouched. Earthquakes that shift tectonic souls. We are the breaking and the remaking.The echo and the origin.

📷:@emotional.st