Tag: love

Wishing you enough

Recently overheard was a father and daughter in their last moments together at the airport. They had announced the departure.
Standing near the security gate, they hugged and the father said, ‘I love you, and I wish you enough.’
The daughter replied, ‘Dad, our life together has been more than enough. Your love is all I ever needed. I wish you enough, too, Dad.’
They kissed and the daughter left. The Father walked over to the window where I was seated. Standing there I could see he wanted and needed to cry. I tried not to intrude on his privacy, but he welcomed me in by asking, ‘Did you ever say good-bye to someone knowing it would be forever?’
‘Yes, I have,’ I replied. ‘Forgive me for asking, but why is this a forever good-bye?’..
‘I am old, and she lives so far away. I have challenges ahead and the reality is – the next trip back will be for my funeral,’ he said.
‘When you were saying good-bye, I heard you say, ‘I wish you enough..’ May I ask what that means?’
He began to smile. ‘That’s a wish that has been handed down from other generations. My parents used to say it to everyone…’
He paused a moment and looked up as if trying to remember it in detail, and he smiled even more. ‘When we said, ‘I wish you enough,’ we were wanting the other person to have a life filled with just enough good things to sustain them.’ Then turning toward me, he shared the following as if he were reciting it from memory.
I wish you enough sun to keep your attitude bright no matter how gray the day may appear.
I wish you enough rain to appreciate the sun even more.
I wish you enough happiness to keep your spirit alive and everlasting.
I wish you enough pain so that even the smallest of joys in life may appear bigger.
I wish you enough gain to satisfy your wanting.
I wish you enough loss to appreciate all that you possess.
I wish you enough hellos to get you through the final good-bye.
He then began to cry and walked away.
They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them; but then an entire life to forget them.
Only if you wish, send this to the people you will never forget. If you don’t send it to anyone it may mean that you are in such a hurry that you have forgotten your friends.
TAKE TIME TO LIVE….
To all my Friends and Family – I WISH YOU ENOUGH

To my son’s partner

I lost that precious connection with each son, and there’s plenty of proof of the many fingers in that ” pie “.

Reclamation and Redemption are currently present . Release close at hand .

TO MY SON’S FUTURE PARTNER

It is hard, so hard, to imagine a day where I will not be the moon, the sun and the sky to my little man.

When he is sad, he calls for me.

When he is scared, it’s me he wants.

When he feels excited, I am the one he rushes to tell first.

I am the keeper of his secrets, the finder of anything which is lost and the solver of any known problem in his little world.

I am his everything and he is mine.

One day, you will have the pleasure of being his everything.

One day it will be you that he comes to, and that is, of course, the way it should be.

But I wonder if you will ever think of me sometimes, perhaps let me be the first to share some good news with you – or allow me the honour of pulling you both out of some trouble life may throw at you.

I will be waiting, ready and willing.

I will not meddle or fuss or pull you in opposite directions I promise you that, and should you be blessed with children of your own, there will be no one, no one on this earth who will love them more than I.

The bond between a mother and a son is divine, this much is true, but I wish for him the very same bond with you.

And I pray the circle of love goes on and on and on, much further than me.

After all, that is what I brought him up to do.

Love.

Donna Ashworth

From ‘to the women’

Art by Lore Pemberton #lorepembertonart

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The depth of love

Just received,

as I asked for more help.

And it was immediately given.

For those also feeling the intense soul-level exhaustion and energy as I am. I hope that this helps you too.

~ Peter Uppman

“What title do you wish to give to this message Jophiel, to ensure that it gets to those who need the reassurance it gives?”

‘They will be directed to read dear one. The energy of remembrance will be felt and they will be guided to receive, as you have asked for also. We wish for you to entitle this, THE DEPTH OF LOVE, YET TO BE REMEMBERED.’

—

‘We have told you dear ones that there are varying degrees of love. That there is truth from within yet to be discovered, and uncovered.

Upon you was given a task.

Something so difficult in its undertaking that has forced so many of you to seek solace from within. To question your worth and the point of your journey.

Why must it be so difficult?

Why must I endure such pain?

Because dear souls, in order to find a depth of love in which previously you have not recognised, you MUST have endured the remembrance of Self in the manner in which you have done.

There is more.

There is always more.

But you have found from within, that which was previously unrecognised. Unacknowledged. Forgotten.

Previously you accepted love as Being in the manner in which it was. Feeling that you have given your all and could not possibly find more from within.

We have told you many times that there is no ceiling to love – the remembrance and the degree of love in which you possess. It is everlasting as much as it is all-encompassing.

You have found this from within BECAUSE of the journey in which you have asked to endure.

It could not have been recognised previously. You would not have understood.

You thought that you had given your All and indeed this may be of truth. But your All is yet to Be, and perhaps it can be said that it will never Be. For there is no depth to the amount of love in which you can and will discover from within.

You see dear souls (those who are recognising these words because you also are on the similar journey to what Peter is experiencing), there MUST have been pain.

There MUST have been rejection, betrayal. The choice from another to choose something so far beneath your energy, making you feel as though what you give and possess is of no value.

It MUST have been this way.

For you are remembering.

You are recognising that the JOURNEY is the pinnacle. NOT the end result. For there truly is no end. It continues evermore.

The more love that you experience and harness and accept from within (without deception) and that which is of purity of mind, body and soul, the more you will FEEL this love in order to give to others to find it from within also.

This has been your task in this life as you know it to be.

It could not have been any other way.

You have found a depth of love from within that is no longer based on lust and impurity.

It is something so incredibly beautiful which is now who you’ve become, that was not recognised as Being previously.

A level of understanding in which others cannot possibly understand until they too, take the step forward to remembrance in which you have done.

There is more dear souls.

You have wondered why you continue to be asked to give when another does not seem to care?

The journey is about YOU dear ones, not another.

They have played their role in your journey and if they are meant to be more than just a lesson to help teach you, they will return. When they too recognise a depth of love from within, that you also have taught them to find.’

(Archangel Jophiel)

JULY 9 2023

Love remains , Child Psychological Abuse

In many ways, the alienated child, however long they cut off emotionally, and for however long, knows they have our love. It’s a given. But they’re not secure in the love of the alienating parent, and they’ve been told they’re the ‘all and everything’ and filled with negative thoughts and beliefs about the ‘target’ parent. It’s confusing, upsetting, and psychologically abusive. They start to doubt their feelings and beliefs. They trauma bond with the alienating parent for fear of losing both parents. For fear the alienating parent might be right. And yet, deep down, when they allow themselves – and are brave enough to face it, overcoming the feeling of guilt, and the fear/control of the alienating parent – they know you love them. Sometimes they don’t know it on a conscious level, or they ‘cut off’ and psychologically ‘split’ in order to comply with the alienating parent and feel safe somewhere, but on an unconscious level, where there was once love, there is still LOVE. Let’s hope they can be open to it, take off the bandaid of control/fear, and feel it. They are truly more loved than they (allow themselves) to know. Never give up hope. Near or far, think of them with love.

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Conditioning & Traumatizing – Legacy for kids

Many women relate to being single married single parents , as I realized I was responsible for everything but a paycheck ..when I reacted to the psychiatric RX , the traumas of my life , our family was affected … however I became responsible for everything from a to z and after 20 years of trying to resurrect a family from those ashes to normalcy , ease and acceptance/ forgiveness is not my sole purpose in life .

I had no idea just how many families are adversely effected by psychiatry, toxic/addictive RX, a legal system that has aligned with the dictates of the psychiatric/ chemical companies for profit over families .

We cannot ignore the side effects of deep and profound trauma that is diagnosed as mental illness of varied labels and the consequences for the individual who does not know, accept or allow that transformation that re creation , reparenting , and surrender give us .

So having witnessed and experienced and researched , I know in my bones children deserve much better and it’s coming ..

( we are all seeds in gods hands )