The attachment of Mom & Baby

I felt this instinctively but when I voiced my concern , what I heard was ” he will never even know you’re gone ” MIL stated the 1st time we left him at 4 months – I was told I could not take him and I was miserable and missed him so.

He did miss me and the reaction when we reunited was proof .

I did not enjoy our every weekend being away from our sons .

Later that was my deepest shame and grief and I know deep

Concern that things that were traumatic may have happened with sitters, family and friends

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David Brooks: The Nuclear Family Was a Mistake – The Atlantic

The family structure we’ve held up as the cultural ideal for the past half century has been a catastrophe for many. It’s time to figure out better ways to live together.
— Read on www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2020/03/the-nuclear-family-was-a-mistake/605536/

How Reparenting in Therapy Can Help You Heal | Banner Health

Reparenting is a process where you learn to give yourself the love and support you may not have received when you were a child. Here’s what you should know.
— Read on www.bannerhealth.com/healthcareblog/teach-me/a-guide-to-reparenting-in-therapy

10 Wonderful Things That Make Being a Boy Mom So Extraordinary

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Interference in this Mother / Child , bond will be met with judgement on high.

From the wonderful to the wild to the just plain weird, being a boy mom is full of surprises! Read on for 10 reasons why it’s so extraordinary!
— Read on www.creativehealthyfamily.com/10-wonderful-things-that-make-being-a-boy-mom-so-extraordinary/

Targeted parent. Charlie McCready

Parental alienation, with all its associated injustice and grief, requires great strength, and it feels as if we are tested daily. It calls on us to recognise our mental and emotional strength. There are many techniques to strengthen our Personal Authority, and practising these should be part of a daily routine.

My 9-step program has been designed to help alienated parents start taking back their power.

You learn to look at the experience of alienation through your children’s eyes and adapt your behaviours to better support them. You discover what pushes them away and what brings them closer to you. You start putting this into practice early on in the programme to maximise the benefits. You also learn to understand your own mental and emotional state so that you can begin to restore calm, control and even happiness in your life once more. You benefit from a wide range of coping strategies and tools that help you to shift the way you experience alienation, reducing your stress and enhancing your resilience and personal power.

You are far more powerful than you think, and you can greatly reduce your emotional suffering.

I typically see people changing within the first few weeks of the programme, and by the end of the program, they are already on a path to making big shifts in their life. The most profoundly healing and helpful thing we can offer our alienated children is our own healing.

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