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Touch Starvation – Associated with Narcissist

This was treated like it was normal. Romantic gestures , kisses , hugs , intimacy were not part of marriage . It was deadly to my spirit and my soul , yet I held faith that change would come ..I think I became fearful of what life would be like with 3 small sons .. I learned to pick my battles in an time when there was soooo much going on . Discovering I had been responsible for everything except his day to day work, was daunting …

My body spoke to me when I quit smoking , Xanax covered and smothered my symptoms , as my highly sensitive self became an addict quickly and overdosed which was seen as bipolar ..

Touch was just one weapon in the brutality of a man at war , and is in charge ..

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Narcissist Never Ever

Don’t be fooled. The new supply will eventually learn the truth. And they will experience the slow fall off the pedestal as the narcissist devalues them and continues their perpetual search for new supply.

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Media Ruled by Robust PsyOp Alliance

An investigative journalist has recently exposed this research director as one of the key architects of the censorship industrial complex.
— Read on articles.mercola.com/sites/articles/archive/2023/11/20/media-ruled-by-robust-psyop-alliance.aspx

Education

We destroy the disinterested (I do not mean uninterested) love of learning in children, which is so strong when they are small, by encouraging and compelling them to work for petty and contemptible rewards — gold stars, or papers marked 100 and tacked to the wall, or A’s on report cards. In short, for the ignoble satisfaction of feeling that they are better than someone else. We kill, not only their curiosity, but their feeling that it is a good and admirable thing to be curious, so that by the age of ten most of them will not ask questions, and will show a good deal of scorn for the few who do. ~John Holt

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(Art: Photograph by Bernard Hoffman)

Some Parentified Kids Grow Up to Be Compulsive Caretakers – The Atlantic

Some people who have to be responsible for their siblings or parents as children grow up to be compulsive caretakers.
— Read on www.theatlantic.com/family/archive/2017/10/when-kids-have-to-parent-their-siblings-it-affects-them-for-life/543975/

PA is not normal, not loving towards their child – Charlie McCready

I have read that a parent who alienates their children against their other parent is exhibiting narcissism.

I believe this is so .

The parental alienator is angry you left them, and you’re no longer under their control, paying their bills and/or stroking their ego, and playing their victim/victor games, so you must be punished. They may suffer from a narcissistic wound, and they will use any means, especially the child/children, because that will hurt you the most. Your pain is their pleasure. This is obviously abnormal unhealthy behaviour. Any deep wounds they have are no excuse for them. Instead of taking responsibility, they blame others – it’s easier. Parental alienators are highly manipulative, they use coercive control, which is basically a way of reducing or totally denying a victim’s freedom, by stripping away their (child’s) sense of self. Parental Alienation with coercive control is abuse. Their end game is to sever and destroy the child’s relationship with their other parent after family separation. They will manipulate a child (subtle use of language, lies, false allegations, bribes, threats …) into showing unwarranted fear, disrespect or hostility towards the target parent and this includes their extended family and friends. This includes any hobbies the ‘target’ parent is interested in. Even their pets. The parental alienator convinces others the child speaks for her/himself – this is similar to gaslighting behaviour seen in situations of domestic violence whereby the perpetrator convinces the victim it’s their fault. Also, the parental alienator triangulates others into believing the targeted parent is the cause of the children’s rejection. Bottom line, parental alienation is abuse, and it is not normal behaviour for a child to totally reject a parent.

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Narcissist Neglect – The monster in Parental Alienation – Charlie Mc Cready

I want you to know that what you’re experiencing is incredibly challenging, and your grief, rage or sense of injustice about feeling as if you’re unimportant, invisible, ignored, uncared for, and unloved are entirely valid. It’s important to acknowledge that being in the presence of a narcissist or a psychologically abusive person can be deeply damaging, as they often prioritise their own needs and interests above all else.⁠

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Your pain is real, and it’s not your fault. Narcissists (alienating parents often fall into this category) thrive on manipulation and control, and they may make it seem as if you’re the one at fault, but please remember that this couldn’t be further from the truth. It’s all too common not to recognise the presence of a narcissist until we’ve already been deeply affected. They can be incredibly skilled at hiding their true intentions, and they excel at making us feel like we’re the ones who should be changing to meet their demands.⁠

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But here’s the truth: when we subjugate our own needs, wishes, and interests for the sake of a narcissist, we unintentionally empower them even more. It’s like feeding a never-ending appetite; they are insatiable in their need for control and admiration.⁠

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Please understand that you are not alone in this struggle. Many have faced similar challenges. It’s not an easy journey, but breaking free from the grip of narcissistic abuse is possible. You deserve love, care, and respect, just as anyone else does. Your spirit may feel crushed now, but with the right support, self-care, and healing, you can begin to mend the wounds inflicted.⁠

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Remember that seeking help through therapy or support groups can be a significant step towards understanding and healing from this traumatic experience. You have the strength within you to regain your power, rebuild your life, and emerge from this darkness into a brighter future.⁠

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You are important, visible, cared for, and loved, even if it doesn’t feel that way right now. Your journey to reclaiming your self-worth begins with recognising your value and taking steps towards a healthier, happier, and more fulfilling life. Keep going. Stay strong, my friend. ⁠

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