Tag: consciousness

Holding peace

You are a rockstar! Whereas, an alienating parent engages in emotional abuse and manipulative tactics. Their actions can stem from deep-seated emotional issues, such as unresolved trauma, low self-esteem, or a need for control and power.

During a divorce or separation, this internal conflict is exacerbated, as the alienating parent may perceive the dissolution of the relationship as a personal attack or rejection. A narcissistic wound. They’re angry, resentful, and a desire for revenge can manifest in the weaponisation of your children as pawns or collateral to further their agenda. In their distorted worldview, they may view you as an enemy to be defeated rather than a co-parent to collaborate with.

Their controlling and manipulative behaviours are an attempt to exert dominance and influence. They may engage in character assassination, spreading false narratives and actively trying to alienate the child from you and anyone associated with you. Their actions can create an environment of fear, anxiety, and instability for everyone involved. An inability to separate their own emotional struggles from their role as a parent can lead to emotional neglect and confusion for the children who unfortunately get caught in the crossfire, feeling torn between their loyalty to both parents and manipulated into taking sides with the alienating parent.

You cannot change an alienator. You can only change how you deal with them. You must become the rock that protects yourself and your children and provides support to your family. There are plenty of tools and techniques to help you do this, creating emotional and mental strength and resilience.

If you are interested, check out my 9-step program. I also offer 1-2-1 coaching both of which guide you through the process of becoming a ROCK.

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Mercury Retrograde

Mercury will be in retrograde in Sagittarius from November 25, 2024 to December 15, 2024. This is a significant astrological event. Mercury, the planet of communication, intellect, and commerce, symbolises the mind’s connection to the world. When it retrogrades, its usual energetic flow feels obstructed. This reversal offers an important opportunity to turn inward and reassess what going on. Think of this time as a philosopher’s sabbatical—a pause to question, examine, and refine, one that will be needed weather contemplated or not. We are already experiencing heightened energies, which can make decision-making challenging. Without love and mindfulness, choices made during this period may later be regretted by both the mind and heart. This can lead to disruption and even chaos.

KEY THEMES

Miscommunication and Introspection:

What You’ll Feel: Words may fail to convey their true meaning. Misunderstandings are likely to arise, leading to conflict or, ideally, introspection. Conversations may feel circular, as though you’re speaking but not truly being heard. Those with blocked throat meridians might struggle more acutely during this time, potentially experiencing issues such as coughing or difficulty swallowing—or both.

What to Watch Out For: Avoid critical discussions that require absolute clarity. Misinterpretations are likely, so document important points and, if possible, delay significant agreements.

Delays in Travel and Technology Failures:

Flights may be rescheduled, plans might unravel, and gadgets could malfunction.

A sense of helplessness or frustration might arise as things don’t go as planned.

Reflection on Past Relationships:

People from your past—old friends, ex-lovers, or unresolved connections—may resurface. Emotions tied to unfinished chapters may bubble to the surface, offering an opportunity for closure or deeper reflection.

Revising Decisions and Plans

What You’ll Feel: Previously made choices may feel uncertain or incomplete. Projects might require revision, and clarity could seem elusive. Agreements that once seemed solid may now appear shaky, prompting a reevaluation.

This is tricky energy we are about to embark on, and December is going to be a time of deep and intense shadow work. “Light can be found in the darkness,

As can your strengths.”

Conclusion: Your light is in your shadow; you don’t find more light in light.

This understanding will be critical

to getting through the next four weeks

for many.

More about this shortly.

Alexander Quinn – Starseed

Kevin Hart Photography

Liberation

The person I needed the most taught me that I don’t need nobody, a painful yet liberating lesson etched in the scars of my heart, where love and abandonment once entwined like fractured vines.

Their absence became my greatest teacher, guiding me through the dark landscape of self-discovery, where I unearthed an inner strength, a resilient voice that whispers “I am enough” amidst the echoes of rejection.

In the hollow of their departure, I found a profound sense of self-sufficiency, learning to fill the void with my own light, nurturing a garden of self-love that blooms in the cracks of shattered dreams.

Their silence became my loudest awakening, alerting me to the realization that my worth isn’t anchored in someone else’s approval, but in the unwavering acceptance of myself.

Through the fire of their neglect, I forged an unshakeable resolve, tempered by the understanding that true freedom lies not in the arms of others, but in the unyielding love I hold for myself.

432 Hz

432Hz is the natural frequency of the universe, used by geniuses like Bach and Beethoven to create music that resonates with the soul.

This means that the universal music scale used 432A to tune their instruments.

During WWII, this was changed to 440Hz, which is like static on a radio, unclear and leaving you feeling off-balance.

But 432Hz brings harmony, and flow. It’s the perfect tune, one that feels natural and uplifting!

Gotta love nature!

Cutting Cords

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My cycle with you has ended, I have nothing else to offer you, except more complaints and reproaches product of emotional exhaustion in which I find myself.

I don’t want to continue in a relationship that steals my peace and causes me more anguish than happiness, I realized I had an idea of our relationship that didn’t fit reality, I idealized you, I dreamed you, I granted you attributes that you finally didn’t have.

I gave this relationship a lot of chances because I held on to my good memories and my idea of a future with you.

I let you go and close this chapter.

I understand that love is not demanded and should not be forced, I leave this relationship, to focus on the most important relationship in the world:

The relationship with myself ❤️ 🩹

De la red 👩 💻

Wounded Angel Child

The wounded child inside many males is a boy who, when he first spoke his truths, was silenced by paternal sadism, by a patriarchal world that did not want him to claim his true feelings. The wounded child inside many females is a girl who was taught from early childhood that she must become something other than herself, deny her true feelings, in order to attract and please others. When men and women punish each other for truth telling, we reinforce the notion that lies are better. To be loving we willingly hear the other’s truth, and most important, we affirm the value of truth telling. Lies may make people feel better, but they do not help them to know love. ~bell hooks

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(Art: ‘The Wounded Angel’, 1903 by Hugo Simberg)

IDing Love ❤️

A GUIDELINE FOR IDENTIFYING THE EXPERIENCE OF PURE LOVE

Sometimes we may doubt what it is we are actually experiencing and feeling. Often, it’s a mix of many different emotions at the same time, which can leave us quite confused. Is it love? Is it fear? Is it both? A good guideline for identifying pure love is: “Only when you feel free and empowered is it pure love you are experiencing!”

Birgitte

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