Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

Alienating Parents

An alienating parent can appear loving and protective while inflicting psychological abuse on their child through manipulative tactics such as creating fear of the other parent, portraying themselves as victims, withholding information, isolating the child from the targeted parent and extended family, using rewards and punishment to control behaviour, emotionally manipulating the child, gaslighting, discrediting the targeted parent, and undermining their authority. This facade of care masks their intention to control the child’s perceptions, isolate them from the other parent, and maintain dominance over the child’s emotions and choices, ultimately causing harm to the child’s emotional well-being and relationships.

Denying a child a healthy and affectionate relationship with a non-abusive and caring parent is neither protective nor loving, and it certainly doesn’t serve the child’s best interests. This denial robs the child of the opportunity to experience love, support, and guidance from an emotionally available and nurturing parent. This abusive behaviour intentionally obstructs and robs the child of the love and support of an extended family network that genuinely cares for them. This includes grandparents, uncles, aunts, cousins, step-parents, and step or half-siblings. These family members often contribute to a child’s emotional growth, sense of belonging, and overall well-being.

Alienating parents often elude detection even by mental health experts and family courts due to the complexity of their manipulation tactics, their ability to present a convincing facade of concern, and the child’s genuine emotional distress, which can be misattributed to the targeted parent. They create a narrative that aligns with the child’s distress, leading professionals to overlook the underlying coercive control and psychological abuse. Family courts may struggle to discern the dynamic due to a limited understanding of parental alienation, inadvertently perpetuating the child’s isolation from a loving parent.

Parental alienation needs urgent address so that no children are harmfully absented from a loved, loving parent and all their family. Please reach out you’d like to know more about the coaching I offer.

#charliemccready

#parentalalienationcoach

#childpsychologicalabuse

Reconnection Trauma & Trust /Charlie McCarthy

The short answer is: Yes, relationships can be restored.

The longer answer is that, speaking from personal and professional experience, rebuilding trust (the love is there, just dormant/suppressed/disallowed) after experiencing parental alienation and the subsequent trauma can be a challenging journey for both the parent and the child. Many of us are so thrilled when we have communication and contact again, that we get our hopes up, giddily high. It’s obviously amazing to get to that point, having suffered the loss of our children from our lives, and so unjustly, but the road ahead can still (not always) be a winding one with some twists, turns and speedbumps along the way.

Here is some guidance that I hope will help:

Remember that healing is a unique and individual process for each family. Acknowledge and celebrate small milestones in the healing/reconciliation process. Recognise and appreciate the positive moments that signify progress.

Recognise and validate the emotional pain caused by parental alienation. It’s crucial to acknowledge the trauma both you and your child have endured.

Gain a deeper understanding of parental alienation, its effects, and strategies for overcoming it. Educate friends, family, and professionals involved in the child’s life to create a supportive network.

Where it might help things along, engage with mental health professionals who specialise in trauma, family dynamics and have a firm understanding of ‘parental alienation’ (though they might not want to mention those words out loud as they’re loaded and potentially insulting/upsetting to the child.

Consistency in your actions and words is crucial. Demonstrate reliability and a commitment to rebuilding the relationship by being present and involved in your child’s life. Understand that rebuilding trust is a gradual process. Be patient and set realistic expectations for yourself and your child. Avoid rushing the reconciliation process.

Create an environment where open and honest communication is encouraged. Both parties need to express their feelings, fears, and hopes without judgment. However, I would suggest that the child speaks more fully. It can even be that, years down the line, the child is unable to accept that anyone but them was the victim. They have endured a hell of a lot of ‘programming’ in that alienation period. It’s heavy with guilt, shame, anger, grief … let them unload (this isn’t easy) in a ‘safe space’ with you, one where your child feels emotionally secure. It might have to be neutral ground at first. And let them not fear retribution and anger. Do all you can to give them a sounding board, empathy, patience and love.

I hope you enjoy our daily posts, offering guidance. Reach out if I can help you with the coaching I offer.

#charliemccready

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#narcissisticabuseawareness

Adolp Hitler -Monika Aksumit

In 1923 Adolf Hitler incited an insurrection against the German government. He was tried, given a slap on the wrist, and became a convicted felon. Despite being treated charitably by the judge, Hitler claimed the trial was political persecution and successfully portrayed himself as a victim of the “corrupt” Social Democrats.
Hitler cleverly positioned himself as the voice of the “common man,” railing against the “elites,” cultural “degeneracy,” and the establishment, who he all labeled as “Marxists.” He claimed the education system was indoctrinating children to hate Germany, and promised to return Germany to greatness.

To solidify his base, Hitler masterfully scapegoated minorities for the nation’s problems, exploiting societal divisions with an “us vs. them” narrative. Many Germans took the bait. Hitler’s Nazi Party continued to gain traction, until he became Chancellor in 1933.
Hitler appointed German oligarchs as his economic advisors. He proceeded to privatize government run utilities, solidifying support of the economic elite.

With the working class divided along cultural and ethnic lines, the Nazis shut down workers unions and abolished strikes.
Progressives and trade unionists were imprisoned and sent to concentration camps. Corporate profits skyrocketed while working class Germans lived paycheck to paycheck.

Hitler, who became a billionaire while in office, knew he and his clan of oligarchs could get away with the scam if they constantly had an “enemy within” to blame while the corporatocracy robbed the country blind.

An easy target was one of the smallest minorities. Hitler removed birthright citizenship rights of Jews and started rounding them up for mass deportations for being “illegally” in the country.
The German press under Nazi rule highlighted instances of violence by Jews to convince the public that Jewish immigrants were a danger to the “real Germans.”

Hitler wasted no time dismantling democratic institutions. Loyalty wasn’t just encouraged; it was demanded. Opponents were silenced. Media that dared to questioned[sic] him were vilified as “the enemy” and “Marxists.”

Hitler’s Propaganda Minister, Joseph Goebbels, bragged about how the Nazis were able to intimidate the media into giving them favorable coverage, and didn’t need to give direct orders.
The Nazi regime and its followers collected all books they saw as promoting “degeneracy” or what would be considered “woke” today, and burned them in large bonfires. They also burned books that promoted class consciousness.

Berlin had a thriving LGBTQ community in the 1920s, and even had the first transgender clinic. The Nazis burned it to the ground. LGBTQ people were sent to concentration camps and forced to wear triangle badges. Many were killed in the Holocaust.
The Nazis also saw manhood as under threat by independent women who didn’t rely on men. In 1934, Hitler proclaimed, “A women’s world is her her husband, her family, her children, her house.” Laws that had protected women’s rights were repealed and new laws were introduced to restrict women to the home and in their roles as wives and mothers.

Reproductive rights were severely rolled back, and doctors who performed abortions could face the death penalty.
Despite all of this, the German people didn’t have a similar historical parallel to look upon as a warning.
Most Germans never acted like the sky was falling.

Most just went along with their lives as usual, until many of their lives were snuffed out. By the time Hitler’s reign was forced to an end by the Allied Powers, 11 million people were murdered in the Holocaust, and 70-85 million were killed in WW2 .

Monica Aksamit
Bluesky

Just thought everyone needed a refresher course on this tragic part of world history.

Trust & Loyalty

In a world filled with friends and supporters, it is easy to believe that everyone who stands by one’s side truly wishes the best. However, not everyone that stands with you is always for you. This truth serves as a reminder to be cautious about trust and loyalty in relationships. Staying aware of such dynamics can save individuals from disappointment and heartbreak.

Shift in timelines / New Earth

Do you real-eyes that the New Earth is available and waiting for you to step into?

It’s a program of space. It’s fluid. Malleable.

Able to be constructed now with

your intentions for yourself and

those around you.

What drives the New Earth?

The new reality?

An upgraded processor.

Driven by your awareness and perception.

Can you switch around your thoughts to be one of “I control my reality and what it looks/behaves like” and not “this reality controls me”!

You already know you are in a controlled program. It tells you what to do and what to think. You’ve lived it your whole life. Be here now. Clock on. Do this. Okay now stop. Do this now.

But then you begin to awaken and rise above the program and you start to MANifest certain aspects. You become more AWARE and INtentional with your thoughts and suddenly there are angel numbers around, and that sign on the passing truck SPEAKS to you, you notice synchronicities and telepathy comes online. You think something and bammm, there it is.

All of a sudden magic abounds and your life becomes a series of miracle after magical miracle, until the world begins to be shaped and moulded by you. You love doing a certain thing, and the more you do it, the happier you become. The more at peace and at one you are with everything.

You have been practicing it your whole life. Fine-tuning your gifts and abilities. Your connection to nature and its inhabitants. You feel closer to animals and trees and the water than you do to most people.

But new connections to soul family have come in to replace those people who suddenly are nowhere to be found.

Gradually and little by little, there has been less pull on your time and energy by things you do not wish to engage with…participate in. You start giving more of yourself to things YOU want to do, and make healthier choices over what food you eat, what you put in your temple, and how you wish to be treated by others. You place boundaries and practice compassion and empathy for those that seem to have fallen behind in evolution.

The divide becoming so big now you cannot ignore it.

That is you, creating your version of New Earth, where suddenly you look around and everything is how you like it, and you are free to do whatever you want, whenever you want it.

This isn’t an accident. It is by design.

You are PLAYing out your blueprint perfectly.

Piece by piece you are creating a new version of yourself, and your reality MUST reflect that.

You are a portal of love, and you have SHAPED your world to be that…of love.

If you are happy with say, 4 out of 5 areas of your life, in that, you are MOSTLY happy but that one dark cloud is still persistent in your life, be prepared for RADICAL SHIFTS to that area. Be open and receptive to a NEW WAY of that area evolving into a higher state of happening. Or disappearing from your reality altogether, as the big squeeze is UP ON us to get all areas on a LEVEL PLAYing field.

Have no fear.

There is no death or endings, in reality things just transform and transition to new ways of being/doing/living.

Nothing ever dies. But this old 3rd dimensional construct IS.

And we are now seeing the dark 4th dimensional overlay exposed and raw in its form.

Hiding just behind it is the life you dreamed of for yourself, as soul, and all it takes is for a clear view, a clear perception for yourself, on how you wish to live and spend you life.

Do you know how it would feel to be living in your heaven?

Are you focusing all your heart and soul on creating it?

Are you loving yourself and confident in who you are, remembering your sovereignty and divinity?

This is the quantum leap humanity will take when they are ready, but first, they need the Wayshowers, the leaders of New Earth to pave the way for them.

You, living your best life and doing what you want, from the heartspace, gives them permission to do it, too.

Be ready for all who see you to approach you, asking how they can do it, too.

It’s the role you came here to play.

All the past was just dress rehearsal.

And now the spotlight is all on you.

Lights. Camera. Action.

On with the show

This is it.

Peace x. ~ Nikool McIndoe Author

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