Tag: Women

Mother Goddess

9,000 Years Ago, Men Moved In With Their Wives — And Women Ruled the Household! 🏠👩‍🌾

New research from the ancient site of Catalhoyuk in southern Turkey is turning everything we thought we knew about Stone Age life upside down. 🤯

Scientists analyzed DNA from 131 people buried beneath houses in this 9,000-year-old settlement — and guess what? The men didn’t bring their wives home; they moved in with their wives’ families! This “matrilocal” lifestyle means family ties ran through the women, not the men.

Even more fascinating: female children were buried with five times more grave goods than boys, showing that girls held a special place in their community.

Catalhoyuk wasn’t just any settlement — it was one of humanity’s first permanent homes, where thousands farmed, made tools, and created stunning art without trading with other cities.

For years, archaeologists thought the famous female figurines found here represented a “Mother Goddess,” but now it looks like they might have been powerful elder women respected by their people.

While this doesn’t necessarily mean Catalhoyuk was a matriarchy, it definitely shows women played a central role — a refreshing reminder that ancient societies weren’t always male-dominated like many of us assume.

If the roles were reversed, everyone would be shouting “patriarchy!” — so let’s open our minds to the incredible power women held thousands of years ago. 🌟

Isn’t history way cooler when it challenges what we thought was true?

Be safe to woman

Psychology shows that when a woman endures prolonged stress and instability, her body adapts to survival mode—often without her even realizing it until she’s completely exhausted. Mentally, emotionally, physically. She remains on high alert, tense and guarded, always bracing for the next disruption. Even in calm moments, relaxation feels foreign… unsafe. Not because she’s ‘dramatic’ or ‘too sensitive,’ but because her nervous system has forgotten what true safety feels like.
Years of disappointment. Years of bearing burdens alone. Years of smiling while shattered inside. It changes you. You stop trusting quiet days. You question consistency. Kindness makes you wary because you’ve learned that love often comes with strings, silence means punishment, and peace can shatter without warning.
So no—she isn’t ‘moody’ or ‘too much.’ She isn’t overreacting. Her body is stuck in fight-or-flight. Her heart is weary. Her spirit is exhausted from years of self-protection, to the point where being held—truly held, without fear—feels like a distant memory.
If you want to love a woman like this? Be safe. Be steady. Be soft. Don’t give her more reasons to question her worth. Don’t punish her for needing comfort. Don’t make her believe her pain makes her unlovable. She doesn’t need perfection—she needs patience.
Healing doesn’t begin when life gets quiet. It begins when life stays safe.
And too many women are still waiting for that safety to arrive.

Mother

I am so glad I healed my Mother wound ; after so much pain and I refuse to allow others to trigger me , as to our relationship.

The way you treat your mother is the way life will treat you. A mother is the source of love and life.

A mother is made of unconditional love, a love that no one else can give you. Don’t judge her. How many times have you sat down to listen to her? To have a conversation with her about her past? Perhaps she never told you about the miserable life she had to endure before you came along.

Maybe she never shared the wounds she carries, the scars that reopen every time she remembers them… the painful childhood and adolescence she lived through. The difficult moments she endured when no one listened to her, when she was mistreated, leaving traces of harsh words, poverty, fears, and abuse.

How many hidden sorrows does she carry in her heart, ones she never shared with you—so you wouldn’t have a distorted image of her life? Out of love, she chose not to tell you, or perhaps silence became her refuge to avoid suffering further.

Treat her well, like the unique treasure she is in your life. Doing so will bring you blessings, peace, joy, stability, and a long life.

And remember, the way you treat your mother is how others will treat you. People around you will learn from your actions and the love you show. There is only one mother—if you don’t value her now, you may regret it in the future when sleepless nights haunt you.

It won’t be your mother keeping you awake—it will be your own demons of disobedience and disrespect that refuse to let you rest. JOIN US👉👉 Ripple of Inspiration