Tag: relationships

Heavy Hearts 😒❀️ /Charlie McCready

Parents whose children have been coerced and manipulated to reject them carry a heavy heart. The pain of being unjustly and cruelly alienated from one’s own children is an emotionally devastating and deeply challenging cross to bear. Carrying on means persevering through difficult circumstances, remaining resilient in the face of adversity, and prioritising your well-being and personal growth. It involves finding ways to cope with the emotional pain, and seeking support from trusted individuals. It means getting on with your life but hoping your child will regain clarity and autonomy. Ultimately, carrying on despite this heavy burden is an act of resilience, love, and hope. It is a testament to your strength and determination to navigate the challenges of parental alienation while keeping your heart open for the possibility of reconciliation and a renewed connection with your children. You are AMAZING.

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If you want your wife to….

πŸŒŸπ—œπ—™ 𝗬𝗒𝗨 π—ͺ𝗔𝗑𝗧 𝗔 π—ͺπ—œπ—™π—˜, π—§π—›π—˜π—‘ π—•π—˜ 𝗔 π—›π—¨π—¦π—•π—”π—‘π——πŸŒŸ

1. If you want your wife to make love to you often, then take care of her heart. You cannot mistreat your wife and hurt her then expect great and frequent sex.

2. If you want your wife to respect you, then you have to do respectable and admirable things. You cannot dishonour her and shame her then expect her to excuse your gross misbehavior with a blanket respect. She can’t submit to torture.

3. If you want your wife to feel safe with you and open up to you, then you have to stop emotionally and physically abusing her. You cannot instil fear and wonder why she protects herself from you.

4. If you want your wife to enjoy intimacy with you, then you have to maintain oral and body hygiene. You cannot expect your wife to enjoy kissing you and playing with your penis yet you smell of sweat, you don’t shower, don’t brush your teeth and smell of cigarette, weed or alcohol.

5. If you want your wife to stop complaining, then you need to stop repeating the same wrongs. She complains because she has to call you out when you do wrong since she believes you can be better.

6. If you want your wife to be financially transparent with you and to stop making financial decisions behind your back, then you need to start showing financial responsibility. As long as you keep being reckless, she will save and invest without your knowledge to protect her future and that of the children.

7. If you want your wife to brag about you to people, then do things that make her proud. She cannot pretend that you are a great man yet you are not.

8. If you want your wife to stop nagging and being moody, then you need to make time to spend with her and make her feel special. A woman nags and becomes grumpy when she feels neglected. A loved up wife glows.

9. If you want your wife to stop fighting your friends, then you need to stop surrounding yourself with the wrong friends and allowing your friends to pull you away from your family. You wife is just protecting you.

10. If you want your wife to be proud to be your wife, then you have to do things that make her say “Yes” to you daily. Don’t expect her to be satisfied with the title of wife just because she wears your ring, has a marriage certificate or has your child/children.

11. If you want your wife to help you and support you, then you need to have a vision and share it with her. A woman can only be a helper to a man who knows where he is going and gives her room to build with him.

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Parallel Parenting -Charlie McCready

In cases of documented abuse and neglect towards children and spouses, the priority must always be the safety and well-being of the child. Parallel parenting can be a necessary approach in such situations, where the focus shifts from collaboration between parents to minimizing contact and interactions to ensure the safety of all involved parties.⁠

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Parallel parenting allows for the establishment of clear boundaries and guidelines for communication and decision-making, reducing the potential for further conflict and harm. It provides a structured framework for parents to fulfil their responsibilities while minimizing direct contact and exposure to abusive behaviours.⁠

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While the concept of parallel parenting may not completely resolve the underlying issues of abuse and neglect, it can provide a necessary safeguard for vulnerable individuals and facilitate a more stable environment for children to thrive. Additionally, it may be accompanied by legal measures such as restraining orders or supervised visitation to further ensure the safety of all parties involved.⁠

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The distinction between parental alienation and cases of documented abuse and neglect emphasises the paramount importance of protecting children from harm and taking appropriate actions to address and prevent further abuse. In cases of documented abuse, it’s crucial for professionals and authorities to prioritize the safety of the child and take appropriate actions to protect them from further harm. This may include intervention from child protective services, legal measures to restrict contact with the abusive parent, and providing support and resources for the non-abusive parent and child to heal and rebuild their lives.⁠

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The narcissist marriage of servitude / Control not connection

When you marry a narcissistic man, you never get a chance to be a wife; instead, you take on the role of a mother because these adults behave like man-children.

They go to work Monday through Friday and then spend their weekends sitting in front of a laptop, downloading music, playing video games, or making messes for you to clean up.

You find yourself single and a father simultaneously, taking on the burden of responsibilities without the support of a partner.

Narcissists don’t marry for love or partnership; they marry because they want a maid, cook, secretary, banker, and a nanny.

They crave control, not connection. Their selfish desires consume them, leaving you to run the household, raise the children, and satisfy their every whim.

Your dreams of a loving and equal relationship are shattered, replaced by the harsh reality of servitude.

As days turn into weeks, and weeks into years, you become a shadow of your old self.

Your identity is erased, replaced by the exhausting duties of handling a narcissist’s life.

You are obliged to sacrifice your own desires, interests and friendships to accommodate their demands.

Emotional childbirth is suffocating, leaving you drained, resentful, and wondering how you ended up in this nightmare.

You’re not alone in this fight.

Many women have fallen prey to the charming facade of a narcissist, only to find themselves trapped in a loveless and ungrateful role.

Remember, you deserve better.

You deserve a partner who loves, supports, and respects you.