Tag: relationships

Love ❤️ & Maturity

“Man goes from one woman to another, goes on changing. People think he is a great lover; he is not a lover at all. He is avoiding, he is trying to avoid any deep involvement because with deep involvement problems have to be faced, and much pain has to be gone through. So one simply plays safe; one makes it a point never to go too deeply into somebody.

If you go too deep you may not be able to come back easily. And if you go deeply into somebody, somebody else will go deeply into you also; it is always proportionate. If I go very deep in you the only way is to allow you also to go that deep in me. It is a give and take, it is a sharing. Then one may get entangled too much, and it will be difficult to escape and the pain may be much. So people learn how to play safe: just let surfaces meet — hit-and-run love affairs. Before you are caught, run.

This is what is happening in the modern world. People have become so juvenile, so childish; they are losing all maturity.

Maturity comes only when you are ready to face the pain of your being; maturity comes only when you are ready to take the challenge. And there is no greater challenge than love.”

~Osho

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Dear Friends

Platonic love-

It is the purest form of love I have ever found.

Familial love is certainly the stronger,

But filled with obligations and duties,

And so often is stained by secret, year-old resentment.

Romantic love is what we are taught to long for

from an early age.

But it is sullied by sexual desire,

By cheating, lying, pain and jealousy.

Platonic love is my favorite of them all. To see a person, get to know them,

And choose to walk the path of life together.

Not because you have to,

Not because you desire each other, But because you truly admire them, To the core of their being.

I have never felt

more cared for, more seen, more loved,

than when I am with my dearest friends.

No having to be in a relationship

“Can I tell you a secret? You don’t have to be in a relationship.

I mean it. I know they force it down your throat until you choke on it. Girls aren’t pretty unless they’re wanted. Boys aren’t men unless they’re having sex with someone. People aren’t lovable until they’re dating someone.

But a relationship won’t always make you happy, and as wonderful as romance is, it isn’t the only love that exists. I have seen friendships that are deeper and more pure than couples who swear it’s forever – and yet the friendship is the one people ignore.

I have heard so often “nobody loves me” out of the mouths of people who are single. And it kills me because if you ask them: where are your parents, your teachers, your classmates, your pets – they say, yes, okay, but it doesn’t count. Of course it counts, love doesn’t diminish just because someone doesn’t want to have sex with you. In fact, doesn’t it sort of make that love more real that they want nothing – not even a date – out of you?

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Quality of Mom’s happiness has most effects on baby/child thriving

I had to consider my Mom , who was someone I tried to avoid due to her moods and distance …

Sad 😢

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Conscious Woman

Loving a conscious woman ……..

Men are often “afraid” of a conscious woman. For a woman who knows what she feels, what she thinks and what she wants. They think a conscious woman is dangerous. A woman who feels and experiences so much… she must be crazy. She’s too much for me.

In a way they are right. For someone who is not on the same level, she will be too much.

She will be too much for someone who lets his ego speak too much. For someone who doesn’t dare to face their fears yet. She’s too much if you like superficial conversations instead of deep conversations. She’s too much if you think she won’t show you what she feels. Be it fear, anger, sadness or pain. She will share the conheceu with you. She is not afraid to show her vulnerability.

But remember this…

A conscious woman will never hold you responsible for her emotions. Together she will look for you where she came from. She is a woman you will feel more than safe with. You come home. She doesn’t hide behind walls or mascarados. What you experience is what you get. No secrets, no surprises. When you meet her she will show you who she is. Soul to soul.

She knows she’s worth it and she’s not afraid to open up to you. You may see who and how she is and then it is up to you whether you want to walk with her or not.

She will leave you and your worth. She also won’t do something or say something that pretends to be different from her out of fear that you don’t like her enough. She doesn’t want to commit you to terms. She will only want to VER – commit. She is an open book without a secret language. She has no time for relationships filled with conditions and fears of losing someone. She can love herself.

A conscious woman will invite you to love everything about her.

She will and can allow you to enter her soul because she has already done a lot of work. She loves herself as she is. She doesn’t need you, she just invites you to walk together because she thinks you’re beautiful to go on that journey together… No matter how short or long it takes!

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