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Collective Expansion 👨‍🦳👩🏻‍🦳

I see more and more men doing “the work”, going into their shadows, looking actively and compassionately at their trauma.

They are coming to terms with their suppressed emotions, without losing their masculine edge, their leadership, the connection to their King energy.

They’re stepping up, leaning in, diving deep, and surfacing with new-found energy and embodied power.

It’s glorious to witness.

I also see more and more women applauding that, being (their) man’s biggest cheerleaders, and expressing how grateful they are about him finally catching up.

I see their posts, their beautiful appraisals, their happiness and sighs of relief that they finally can lean back into their feminine.

So far so good.

Make no mistake, though, that “doing the work” and healing often goes in waves and takes turns.

Not always, though. But often.

Women challenged men to grow because of all the work they did. And men chose to take this challenge and are catching up.

And now, as men rise from their dark night or even dark years of the soul, their new brightness will shine a light on the shadows that women have avoided, denied, bypassed, deflected and ran from and this will be the next level of growth, if they choose to take the challenge and catch up.

Women call for men to grow, and then men demand from women to grow again…

It’s the process of co-creation, the universal law of cyclic evolution.

The ultimate expression of teamwork.

We only have to honor each other’s cycles and paces, be patient, and trust in each other’s abilities.

That’s how we expand, individually and as a collective.

~ Bas Waijers Baumann

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Safe Space

There’s a man out there who will tell you that she’s crazy, emotionally unstable, and aggressive.

There’s also a man who will say he’s never felt more appreciated and respected, that she has created the safest space for him, and that being around her makes him feel nurtured, cared for, and at peace.

Believe them both!

You get the woman you take care of, whatever you give her, she will reflect back to you.

If you show up in confusion, gaslighting her, or are indecisive, of course she’ll seem crazy!

However, if you show up with clarity, know how to lead, and make this a safe space, you’ll see a totally different woman.

Cutting Cords

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My cycle with you has ended, I have nothing else to offer you, except more complaints and reproaches product of emotional exhaustion in which I find myself.

I don’t want to continue in a relationship that steals my peace and causes me more anguish than happiness, I realized I had an idea of our relationship that didn’t fit reality, I idealized you, I dreamed you, I granted you attributes that you finally didn’t have.

I gave this relationship a lot of chances because I held on to my good memories and my idea of a future with you.

I let you go and close this chapter.

I understand that love is not demanded and should not be forced, I leave this relationship, to focus on the most important relationship in the world:

The relationship with myself ❤️ 🩹

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Men : Getting the woman you take care of âť¤ď¸Źđź™Ś

There’s a man out there who will tell you that she’s crazy, emotionally unstable, and aggressive.

There’s also a man who will say he’s never felt more appreciated and respected, that she has created the safest space for him, and that being around her makes him feel nurtured, cared for, and at peace.

Believe them both!

You get the woman you take care of, whatever you give her, she will reflect back to you.

If you show up in confusion, gaslighting her, or are indecisive, of course she’ll seem crazy! đź’Ż

However, if you show up with clarity, know how to lead, and make this a safe space, you’ll see a totally different woman.

Big Energy Shift

November to March – Big Energy Shift

We are about to embark on a journey of rapid energy acceleration over the next few months as the energy now suddenly changes into what I will call Hyper Drive—an intense period that will seem to propel us into 2025 at an incredible pace, almost like a ride without brakes. It will seemingly come “at” you very fast now, especially as time dilates” In this time, give yourself permission to embrace transformation and release what no longer serves you.

The ego, with its worries and attachments, may cling to the familiar, even if it no longer feels aligned.

But your Soul, your guiding light toward abundance and fulfilment, will encourage you to either move forward into expansion or take a momentary step back to recalibrate. Trust this process, as it leads to the truest version of who you are becoming.

Take some time now to deeply feel into the direction that resonates with your heart for the next three months regards your overall journey. The mind, with its logical stability, may try to keep you in a place of unnecessary stagnation. Energy is not something to be overthought—it must be felt. Trust your intuition to guide you beyond expectations and temporary discomfort, toward the abundance and fulfilment waiting on the other side.

This is your moment to take a leap of faith going into December as the energy goes what I can only describe as hyper drive. Like the scenery flashing past you as your speed down a country lane. These next three months will be significant, offering immense growth and momentum. The synchronicity is clear: it’s time to move forward with trust and courage.

Remember, you can’t overthink energy; you must feel your way into it. Dialling back into the old radio station will bring only static. Keep working your magic—you’ve got this. You can do it. In dimensionality, You already have.

With love and compassion,

Your Alexander Quinn – Starseed

Boy Lessons

16 Lessons Every Boy Should Learn

1. Women are not objects – Treat every female with respect, not as a possession.

2. Fists aren’t solutions – Violence never solves problems; communication does.

3. Happiness isn’t bought – True contentment doesn’t come from money or power.

4. Force isn’t manliness – Real strength comes from patience, not aggression.

5. Respect goes further – More than flowers or gifts, respect is what builds lasting relationships.

6. Trust your gut – Your instincts are powerful; listen to them, they’ll save you more often than not.

7. Never outgrow “Mom” – No matter your age, calling your mother “Mom” or “Mama” shows love. “You” is for friends.

8. Dress the part – Sometimes, neat clothes can be the difference between a “yes” or a “no.”

9. Success has many keys – Whether it’s in sports, art, music, or writing, each passion has its own door to unlock.

10. Choose role models wisely – Bright lights can blind you to red flags. Be careful who you admire.

11. Stay curious – Every corner holds a story; always be open to learning.

12. Earn it, don’t expect it – No one is entitled to what they want. You work hard for what you have and pray for what you need.

13. Kneel before God – When you know how to humble yourself before God, you’ll have the strength to stand up to anyone.

14. Own your choices – Your friends won’t be held responsible for your actions. Think before you act.

15. Choose humility over arrogance – Running with the popular crowd teaches arrogance; sitting with everyday people teaches humility, and humility will take you further.

16. Take God with you – Don’t go anywhere or do anything you wouldn’t want to invite your Heavenly Father to. He’s your ultimate protector.

Detachment from Narcissist

After awhile, you start not to care about the narcissist. The constant drama, the endless manipulation, the exhausting games – it all becomes too much to bear. You reach a point where you’re numb to their antics, indifferent to their needs, and unresponsive to their provocations.

The spell is broken, and you see them for what they truly are: a master manipulator, a skilled deceiver, and a heartless exploiter. You realize that their behavior is not about you, but about their own insecurities, their own fears, and their own desperate need for control.

You start to detach, to let go of the emotional investment you once had in the relationship. You stop trying to fix them, stop trying to please them, and stop trying to understand them. You accept that they are who they are, and that they will never change.

With detachment comes freedom. You’re no longer held hostage by their whims, no longer trapped in their web of deceit. You’re free to live your life, to pursue your own interests, and to cultivate meaningful relationships with others.

You start to care about yourself, to prioritize your own needs, and to nurture your own well-being. You rediscover your own identity, your own values, and your own sense of purpose. You emerge from the toxic fog of the narcissist’s world, blinking in the bright light of your own liberation.

And when the narcissist tries to reel you back in, to manipulate you once more, you’re immune. You see through their tactics, you resist their charms, and you maintain your distance. You know that you deserve better, that you’re worth more, and that you’ll never again surrender to their toxic grasp.

Do what’s best for your soul

Once we start following our soul and let all the noise of the hologram to just be excess noise and distraction we start really embodying our soul mission. For each person this is different.

We each know when we have reached this state of consciousness when nothing that happens outside of us affects our state of being. We feel everything but it moves through the body and does not get stuck creating a reaction or emotional turmoil.

How do we get here?

It is a process not an event. It is letting go of the old ways of being and doing things and creating a new state of being. It is internal peace, gratitude, and inner fulfillment beyond anything this world can offer us. The ego takes a back seat and the soul remembers its mission and ability to create rather than react.

đź’š Jen Jen Reynolds