America Is in Its Insecure-Attachment Era – The Atlantic

Detachment was a horrible failure , attachment can get very distorted . It’s time to address exactly what the individual child needs and not fail the needs of foundation.

Do you see me ?

Do you hear me ?

Do I matter ?

Discomfort with intimacy seems to be on the rise—and no one’s quite sure why.
— Read on www.theatlantic.com/family/archive/2023/04/insecure-attachment-style-intimacy-decline-isolation/673867/

Book Review of Crash: A Memoir of Overmedication and Recovery by Ann Bracken – Mad In America

A powerful, heartbreaking wake-up call about how the severely damaging effects of medications that claim to relieve suffering can threaten generations in a family. A heartbreaking wake-up call about how the severely damaging effects of medications can threaten generations in a family.
— Read on www.madinamerica.com/2023/08/book-review-crash-memoir-overmedication-recovery-ann-bracken/

Evil people drain you – Energy Vampires

I know in my trauma , at varied times I have intensely discussed things the other person might not be interested in, or be triggered by . More often it opens the other person up to a bit of their story. I’ve shared and discussed my desire to gain support for a women’s and children’s abuse shelter , in our area ll

I have had recent experience with a friend out of the area , and the ex … And drained was defiantly the end result.. of late it’s not too difficult to sleep… per chance to sleep.

❤️🙏🏼😘

Dona Luna

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Home, a message for men..

A MESSAGE FOR MEN…

I get a lot of random messages on here from strange men asking what turns me on.

So, I thought I might just put it out there because I think I speak for a lot of women on this and I’m here to help.

Do you want to know what turns me on? What makes me burn for you?

What makes us breathless? What awakens every passionate instinct and unwraps every layer of fiery feminine sensuality?

Go to freaking therapy.

Do your inner work.

Heal yourself.

Lead yourself.

Be brave enough to get uncomfortable for the sake of wholeness and depth.

Be willing to build your emotional muscle so your arms are strong enough to hold the fire of an awakened woman.

Be open enough to lean into a level of depth you’ve never experienced.

Talk.

Be humble enough to admit that you don’t know everything.

Go deep.

Get real.

Stop hiding behind surface-level sex.

Evolve.

Confront what you need to confront so you can move forward without the shadow of your past.

Stop thinking that vulnerability is weakness. It takes a GIANT of a wild man to get vulnerable and it’s HOT.

Stop running from magic when it’s exactly what you need.

Stop telling yourself she’s too much when the reality is you’re just afraid to be enough.

Lead yourself so you can lead ME.

Believe that you can handle it. Act accordingly.

Be the safe space. The strong ground. The calm for her storm.

Do this and you’ll find your Goddess. Do this and you’ll be taken to a place of wholeness and ecstasy you didn’t know existed and likely wouldn’t have found on your own.

Do this… and you’ll be home.

P.S. Sisters -do the same or stop complaining.🙃

Author: Gina Caruso Hussar

Photo from movie : Pompeii

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Lions Gate Portal?

I no longer celebrate Lion’s Gate, and I invite other people take a closer look at what Lion’s Gate really is and make up your own mind.

For me, No one has really been able to satisfy the origins of this day. I’ve never really understood what we are celebrating here, or why?

For instance yesterday was Solar Lugnasah. We know that because the Sun was at 15° Leo. It has an astrological basis, and we can easily trace the history of this day to the Solar King Lugh.

Unlike the 8 High Holy days of the Pagan year, Lion’s Gate portal is relatively new.

For Lion’s Gate, Sirius indeed is Rising, but only over a small part of the globe. It’s not a global event. In fact, it won’t rise for Australia until January.

On 8/8, it rises over the 37th parallel latitudinal line. The same line as the civil war in America, and the “paranormal super highway”.

No matter what anyone tells you about its ancient origins, it’s really only been in the collective awareness since 2012. (Keep this year in mind)

In my own search of blogposts about Lion’s Gate, I can’t find anything written about Lion’s Gate prior to that year. This only confirms the claims of other Lion’s Gate questioners.

What happened in 2012? Cast your mind back. Including all of the galactic alignments, the ending of the Mayan Calendar and closing of a major cycles….

The Royal Star Regulus moved from the Fixed sign of Leo, to the mutable sign of Virgo.

This was the last Royal Star to move from Fixed signs into Mutable.

Mutable energy is transitional.

We can all see the plain truth that humanity consents less and less to a power that coalesces around a central closed system.

You will recognize the “Fixed” symbols of power on all of our major buildings that represent “power” in the world. Including churches.

The Man, The Bull, The Eagle, and The Lion.

These symbols correlate to the Fixed signs, and where the Royal Stars were prior to 2012.

With these central systems of power under attack, central power is definitely fighting back against humanity’s shift.

The symbols of mutable signs are much more balanced, and “open minded”. Gemini (the twins) Virgo, (The Priestess), Sagittarius, (the centaur-archer) and Pisces the (two fish).

We can already feel the shift into this energy.

Just the word Lion’s Gate. What’s that about?

In the old city Jerusalem, the Lion’s Gate was the gate Jesus walked through on the way to his crucifixion.

One thing to consider is; is Lion’s Gate portal a ritual of false light matrix?

Is the energy of our celebrations and rituals being used or “hijacked” for the wrong purposes.

Are our intentions, prayers, and willing consent, being walked through a Gate, leading to our symbolic slaughter?

I know that sounds a bit far out and conspiratorial, but stick with me for a moment.

The first thing that clued me in was the fact that I don’t find many mainstream articles covering the 8 High Holy Days.

But just this year, several mainstream outlets are amping up a celebration on this day. Lion’s Gate.

We know that the New Age was founded by secret societies, and that it’s been infiltrated by some of our global security services.

In esoteric circles, 8 symbolizes “The Right to Rule” through a bloodline, or other elitist concepts.

And Sirius is the focal point of Free Masonry.

We really do need to become aware of what we are giving our attention to these days. And the way that participation = consent in many occult rituals.

We need to be able to feel the stamp of the false light matrix when it’s vying for our attention.

The true spiritual path is not about identities. As Sasha Rose so beautifully said yesterday, and my whole spiritual ethos absolutely aligns… “if your spirituality includes putting on more and more identities, we might want to take a closer look at that.” (Not verbatim)

That’s why working with Venus is so powerful. She is about disrobing. Becoming spiritually naked, and more and more in contact with the pure essence of who we are. She is about balance.

If you were looking forward to doing ritual on this day, we can honor the completion of the Venus Cycle. These energies are especially potent.

Also, as I mentioned, Solar Lugnasah just passed yesterday.

Today I will actually be closing my energy system. Pulling it in tight. Rather than opening, or doing any channeling.

I will be finishing my completion contemplations for the Venus Cycle.

It’s all about discernment, and understanding where we are focusing our attention.

If you are interested in going down this Rabbit Hole a bit further, my jumping off point was Divine Harmony’s Lion’s Gate MasterClass from last year? It lays out some of the astrological/astronomical points. divine harmony

And Cosmic Space Witch on Instagram who has so much information on this.

There are several astrologers who have covered this over the years.

ETA; Zoe Christina Solaris and Tami Brunk have written comments in this thread that are definitely worthwhile context in your own personal inquiries.

In all, this is enough to have me pause. To ask questions…

#liongate #lionsgate #lionsgateportal

The split has begun

My life is calm , if not peaceful, as the unraveling , revelations cast light , that is not seen nor acknowledged by one’s held dear in my heart .

Wobbly is definitely how it feels , and I definitely want and need more on my own time, as I pray and hold patience.

All is not as it should be and that’s coming , soon.

As I hold space , for others, in their own journey , their own destination , while I am in reality holding plan B , and a ” fuck it bucket” for those things I release, those things and people that have no interest in rising to their higher self, the self of higher power , of knowing yourself and your gifts .

For over 20 years , I have exampled the monster in the closet , disposal, hatred and vengeance , the lack of love and respect and a preference to lie , cheat and steal , in order to own power that’s distorted realities .

My miss is my mercy , and so happily , I seek my home , a fall of preparing , a winter of rest and writing , and peace in my heart .

I never wanted certain things to be hopeless, and I prefer to have faith that what’s meant for me will be : Thy Will Be Done .

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When the Narcissist hears you talk

In retrospect , I’m sure he heard his voice , his needs , and those words of his confidant , his Mother .

Intimacy and trust never developed , though I tried , he was not interested or drained from communicating with others .. of course I’m blamed for this too.. I wasn’t worthy of his time.

Around age 3 he began to interact with our 1st child, and was thrilled when I gave birth to number 2, his ” brother ” his friend and parent in adult life ..

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