Or if divorced show that you are a mature adult and can treat the mother of your children with respect and kindness, regardless of the relationship status. If you are a step mom be mature with healthy boundaries . Be aware of the fact that you chose to step into this situation and respect both parents’ decisions about your step child, always. Step back and follow their lead as this is not your child.
In our case it was from the MIL, law ..sisters, their friends
all seemed to accept me. Our sons were name carriers , and
I witnessed more than once the difference of daughters vs son
grand-parenting.. Discrimination in Jesus name, affirmed by
zip code , bank account and group participation in very social