Man cannot handle the same hurt he gives a woman

A man can’t handle the same hurt he gives a woman—and that’s a truth most won’t admit.

She cries. Breaks down. Questions herself. Holds on longer than she should. Tries to make it work even when her heart is breaking. She carries pain in silence, forgives what she shouldn’t, and still hopes he’ll change. She fights with herself trying to understand how someone she loved so deeply could cause so much damage.

And when she finally walks away?

It’s only after carrying far more than anyone ever should.

But him?

The moment he feels a fraction of the same pain—a missed text, an unanswered call, a shift in energy—he’s spiraling. Angry. Hurt. Accusing.

He made her feel invisible… but can’t stand being ignored for a second. He gave her silence, but can’t handle it himself. He broke her trust—but suddenly, every small distance feels like betrayal.

Because when a woman starts mirroring his energy, he has no choice but to face himself. And that reflection? It’s too heavy. Too real.

Men want women to absorb pain without breaking—like strength is endless in her, while they give nothing back.

But here’s the truth:

Just because she carried it doesn’t mean it was light.

She was strong—not because she wanted to be alone—but because she had no other option.

So yes.

Men say “she changed.”

But really?

She just got tired of feeling everything—and getting nothing in return.

Narcissist perfect mate is a prisoner

Life with a narcissist is a prison.

You are not a partner.

You are a possession.

A trophy when they need to show off.

A distraction when they’re bored.

A nuisance when you have needs of your own.

They don’t want a spouse.

They want a puppet — one they can box up, shelve, and dust off when it benefits them.

Try asking for respect.

Try holding them accountable.

Try having a boundary.

Watch them rage.

Because your only “role” in their life is to meet their needs and protect their image.

If you dare ask for more —

You become the problem.

You become “too much.”

You become their target.

This is not love.

It’s captivity dressed up as commitment.

You don’t have to stay.

Transcending

As we continue transcending the three-dimensional levels , moving into the soul ones , which correspond to the fifth and sixth dimensions , we continue activating and expanding our Diamond crystalline DNA , reconnecting our DNA torus or antenas to the Earth’s Consciousness , especially for the ones who are gridworkers , New Earth’s Anchors and those of you who work with the Earth’s fabrics , and gates.

Many of you are now having massive changes in your template and DNA time codes , realigning to the Earth’s new timelines and plugging into them to obtain the right coding to shift what has been distorted. Stabilizers will be immersed in this task permanently now, as we are constantly recalibrating and harmonizing the constant changes that our planet is now undergoing.

Tomorrow 6/6 together with Venus in Taurus, represents the peak of the inner work we have been doing of light body recalibration, bringing ourselves and lives into balance, restoring harmony at all levels and preparing us for the next passage, the Solstice, which will be a great Light amplifier, together with Jupiter in Cancer, helping us in our mission of expanding into our soul portal, and supporting the Earth’s structures to continue retrieving its original programming.

Guides share the importance of clearing and balancing the ego before stepping into the Field or our planetary mission as we welcome the Solstice, to avoid unnecessary lower frequencies that disturb our mission. Do not judge anything you envision, especially for planetary healers.

Our mission is to witness whatever it is we are clearing, as war timelines, or current ones, and many other atrocities that occur in 3D planets or in planets where duality is permitted, with neutrality, from our Soul/Heart portal, so we can help in the planetary retrieval that is taking place now, and that involves as well All Living Forms, as Guides reiterate the importance of not only focusing on us or the grids, but in All living forms that are not passing through a process of transfiguration.

Amplifiers as clear quartz crystals, diamonds, Herkimer’s, citrines, voguel crystals, and a protector of your choice, received through personal guidance, can help our field remain stabilized, as we connect to the land or location, whether physically or remotely. There will be other crystal formations you may need to use to assist or protect, which you will receive uniquely through your guidance.

Remember, as well, as we prepare to stabilize for those of you who hold this role, the importance of conscious nutrition, which involves the thoughts we put in our mind, not only what we eat and drink, but also our feelings, and all our acts.

Our DNA activation process will cease the moment we do not act with integrity, or treat our bodies in unconscious ways, simply because we are given a different order, and our DNA treats us with utmost respect, and all we command is law for it.

If we hold the intention to activate our DNA, and start rehabilitating it, and what we think, feel, and do opposes our intention, the change we wish to anchor will not take place. This is how important it is to act within divine love and integrity towards ourselves and All.

The 6/6 passage is a source of harmony that the Solstice will amplify together with the many Sol transmissions we are constantly receiving, creating a unique opportunity for the activation of our solar bodies, DNA, reconnection to the soul dimensions, healing, or any other purpose we are working with at this time.

The most important thing is to always understand that the energies do not do the work for us. We are sovereign beings, and that involves being grounded and taking full responsibility for our ascension journey, understanding that we are the only ones who can trigger any change we wish to manifest in our bodies. The purpose of the energies is to help us amplify this inner work, if we choose to align with them.

Being conscious of our power and how we use it changes our entire perception of ourselves, others, the world, and how everything works. This is one of the most important things to achieve before stepping further into planetary work, for we will be co-creating with forces and forms of consciousness we do not always understand from our perspective.

Being sovereign but egoless is key to performing our unique role, trusting in the LoveLight Forces, Guides, and God that accompany us and act through us in our mission, overcoming fear, and learning how to remain balanced as we confront the many personal and planetary challenges we may encounter.

June is a wonderful month for amplifying anything we desire at this time, whether it is more peace, harmony in our relationships, soul mission embodiment, or any other clearing work we are doing.

The more we live outside our minds and move into our Hearts, the more we neutralize the noise and distractions that impede us from fully seeing who we truly are, what needs to be healed, where we need to be of assistance, and the bigger picture of all we experience.

I wish you all a month filled with infinite love, joy, and expansion, Beloveds.

May all you do become a living expression of your Divinity.

Within Infinite Love,

Natalia Alba

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Alienate – Charlie McCready

Parental alienation is a harrowing, vengeful form of psychological abuse, where one parent (sometimes with help from others) systematically erodes the attachment bonds of the child with their other ‘target’ parent. They actively sow seeds of doubt and misinformation, manipulating the thoughts and beliefs of innocent children against their own flesh and blood. It involves projecting the alienating parent’s own insecurities and faults onto the ‘target’ parent, creating a distorted reality for the child. Blame is shifted, and responsibility is deflected, all while the alienating parent gains control by isolating the alienated parent from family life. The result is a toxic environment where the child is emotionally torn, experiencing conflicting feelings due to the cognitive dissonance created by the stark contrast between the alienating parent’s manipulative narratives and the actual truth. This relentless psychological onslaught fractures trust, distorts reality, and inflicts deep emotional wounds, leaving all parties, especially the children, in a state of profound turmoil and confusion. There’s debate over the term ‘parental alienation’ and it could certainly be called pathogenic parenting, hostile aggressive parenting, intractable contact, narcissistic parenting, disordered parenting, malicious parent syndrome, psychological manipulation, emotional abuse, domestic partner abuse, child psychological abuse, spousal abuse, domestic violence, family bond obstruction or child alienation … it is abuse by any other name.

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