Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

Babies oversleeping could be brain inflammation

One of our grandchildren slept a lot as I was told in his infancy . I was aware that a vaccine could be the culprit but could not say anything . Had strong food allergies as well , no idea what’s going on with child now .

Swelling of arms or legs, inconsolable crying, back arching, spasms, convulsions, seizures, rashes……all NOT normal. It’s not “normal” for a tiny human to be injected with the amount of vaccines being “recommended”.

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Jessica Rojas 🇺🇸💪

@catsscareme2021

It pains my heart when I see a parent happy about the fact that their infant has done nothing but sleep post vaccination. That is not a good thing and certainly nothing to be happy about.

Your child was poisioned!

The screaming, high fever, sleepiness, not feeding, rash, swelling at the sight are not normal. Your Doctor will tell you its normal, heck they’re now calling seizures or convulsions “normal” because it’s becoming so common.

These are signs of an adverse reaction and a warning sign!!

Ask any parent who has a vaccine injured child how their child reacted with prior vaccinations. They all look back and say “how did i miss it?”

If we would just listen to that Motherly intuition and gut feeling screaming at us that something is seriously wrong with watching your child scream as a nurse injects chemicals, toxins, aborted fetal cells and animal viruses into their tiny bodies.

They’ll even ask you to hold their thighs down.

Anchored in 5 D

Earth has done it 💫🧬💥🌊✨ She is fully anchored in 5D in the physical. The path is forged for those who wish to follow this path. Many of us have been anchored in much higher dimensions in our etheric bodies, but anchoring the physical body is much more of a feat. 5D is just the first step of our emergence into the new world! Nothing will ever be the same.

🫶🏼 Raylene Short

Nursing

I loved nursing and wish I had demanded support so that I wasn’t rushed or running behind .

1st – 4 months

Almost 3 years between

2nd – 6 months

2 years apart

3rd- 3/4 months or less

I regret that I was physically and emotionally exhausted 😴

Do you know that feeling when you put your baby to your breast and she latches quickly and easily.

And you settle into your chair, and move her into a better position. Adjust your breast slightly. She adjusts herself with you. You’ve both done this so many times. You’re a team, the two of you. And what a wonderful team you make.

And you feel your milk come in. Right on cue. Like always.

And you hear your baby’s sucking turning to drinking. Big hungry, satisfied slurps.

You feel a moment of gratitude towards your body for being able to feed your baby so easily. For being able to provide her with everything she needs, when she needs it.

And she looks up at you briefly, just to check you’re still here. You smile down at her and stroke her cheek to confirm that of course you are. No place you’d rather be. She seems satisfied with that acknowledgment.

She closes her eyes again and focuses completely on drinking.

Her little hand is spread out on your breast. Little fingers scratching gently on your skin. With nails that definitely need a trim. You feel like you’re constantly cutting her nails and you’re STILL getting scratched. It’s hard to mind that it in this moment though. Hard to mind it whatsoever.

And the little hand is so inviting. You can’t help touch it. You give it a squeeze and she squeezes you back. Eyes still closed. She retracts her hand and places it back on your breast. She is too busy for distractions.

You admire her eyelashes. Trace a finger along the bridge of her nose. You marvel at how soft her skin is. You know every mark on her body, and where it comes from. The dry spot on her ankle that you’ve been fighting against for weeks. The weird blue vein on her nose. The bruise from when she face planted in her crawling attempts. You know them all, and those you don’t know, you study closely. You examine them and touch them and worry about them.

And you’re suddenly hit by an overwhelming urge to kiss her. You carefully bend your head down and kiss her forehead. Then kiss it again. Breathe in her baby scent. You notice her hair has changed colour since you first met. Lighter. Thicker. Softer. Longer. You let your fingers run through it.

You stroke her arms, her legs. Play with her toes. Pull a little piece of fluff out from between them. Touch the back of her neck to check her temperature. Caress her back lovingly.

And you can tell she isn’t drinking anymore. She is sucking lazily, with a slightly open mouth. A broken seal. Using you as a pacifier. Not that you mind. You will happily be her pacifier if it meant staying like this a little longer. Even if it’s a bad habit. Doesn’t feel like a bad habit right now though.

A little snore escapes her lips.

You smile to yourself. She is asleep.

Full and safe and warm.

You love that she can find such peace and comfort in your arms.

You don’t feel a rush to do anything but sit here with your sleeping baby.

Nothing seems very urgent right now.

Nothing seems more important than this.

In a world of distractions, you love these moments where she’s your only one❤️

Written by: The Mommy Poet

There should be a test before marriage

Later in marriage when you hit parenthood, you’ll realize what you really wish for in your spouse is not big money or ‘six-pack’. A pretty face and a good bank account are nice to have but at the end of the day, there’s so much more you should be looking for.

At 3am when your child is crying, and your eyes are heavy and your body is weak for postpartum, it will not be how he looks or what he owns that will matter. It’ll be the compassion in his heart and the love for you in his soul that push him out of the bed to attend the child immediately and tell you,

“Go back to sleep, love. I got this.”

If I could tell the younger people what to consider in a companion, I would say marry the man who will be the best father for your children. The man who will put you and your little family first, above all else. The man who is as responsible as you are in raising family because you both are in it together. In short, marry the person who will set a standard for a spouse in your children.

Because in all of these, whenever you watch your partner with your child, you’ll find yourself falling in love all over again.

#TeamDanJesusRich

Children back talking

When a child backtalks, sometimes also referred to as mouthing-off or sassing, they are in the throes of a huge, internal maelstrom of emotion. Whatever they are reacting to in the moment, whether it’s being told ‘no’ about something or being asked to do or not do something, it is rarely those issues that are at the root of the problem. The moment at hand is just the tipping point causing a fissure in the child’s heart that lets out a bit of the steam inside. The real concern should be that there is, metaphorically, steam in the child’s heart to begin with.

It is at this point that parents have the opportunity to model self-control and self-regulation by controlling their own knee-jerk reaction to their child’s backtalk. Instead of meeting fire with fire, childish outburst with childish parental outburst, child’s tantrum with adult tantrum, parents can slow down, breathe through their own emotions, and then listen through the fiery storm of their child’s words to the hurt, fear, and anger behind the words.

In the same way that “a gentle answer turns away wrath,” a soft-voiced, “Let’s take a minute and calm down so we can work through this together, okay?” from a parent is a magical, healing balm that immediately begins to diffuse tough situations and creates an atmosphere in which connection and communication can bring effective, peaceful solutions not only to the issue at hand, but to the inner turmoil that prompted the outburst in the first place.

Meeting a child at their point of need when that need is expressed through meltdowns, yelling, disrespect, or defiance takes patience, self-control, and empathy on the part of a parent, which can be a huge growth experience for the parent if they, themselves, were not parented that way. But the impact of living those positive life skills in front of our children is immeasurable.

-L.R.Knost

Read more: http://www.littleheartsbooks.com/2013/07/08/backtalk-is-communicationlisten/

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Fighting a rare, incurable cancer, but I’m still here!💞 L.R.

Babies feel what their Mom’s feel

I definitely believe this and the anger and neglect present during our first pregnancy did adversely affect me , thus our baby .

I pray there is a healing for our child(ren) for each were subjected to at the least was a disinterested Dad .

Alot of people dont know this, but the baby feels everything the mother feels.

Every heart break, every smile, every single emotional thing. Even touch! When hugging the father and just taking that time to breath the baby can feel that love. That feeling of warmth and security. At 22 weeks the baby has started to learn voices and can tell which voice is peaceful to its mother and which voice hurts the mother. They have become aware of most sounds around them. By 26 weeks the baby can develop emotions for him or herself on feelings the mother feels. By 30 weeks the baby has picked who’s voice it is most favored towards. Needless to say, dont stress yourself. Cause your baby feels it all. ❤️💕

Illustration by Brooklyn Walker Art

Psychological Splitting from Abuse /Parental Alienation – Charlie McCarthy

The emotional strain and confusion resulting from parental conflict can be overwhelming. The child may feel powerless, torn between loyalty to both parents or fearful of displeasing the ‘favoured’ alienating parent. Fear of displeasing the alienating parent, coupled with emotional manipulation and coercion, may prompt the child to distance themselves emotionally from the targeted parent, resorting to disassociation as a protective measure or psychologically ‘split’. This is because the child’s mind instinctively resorts to disassociation to protect itself from intense emotional distress.

Disassociation offers the child a psychological escape from the distress caused by parental alienation. By emotionally detaching from the alienated parent, the child shields themselves from the pain and confusion of their situation, essentially numbing themselves to cope with the overwhelming emotional turmoil.

However, despite the challenges posed by this emotional cut-off/disassociation, there is hope for children affected by parental alienation. Children can overcome this defence mechanism and reconnect with the alienated parent. Even from afar, the alienated parent can be a beacon of stability and love, providing a role model for their child. With time, understanding, and intervention, reconnection is possible, offering healing and restoration to families affected by parental alienation.

#charliemccready

#parentalalienationcoach

#narcissisticabuseawareness

#coercivecontrol

#parentalalienation