Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

From victim to persecutor : Narcissist Characteristics

Carl Jung, the renowned psychiatrist, believed that we start life as a blank canvas, and our experiences gradually add colours to it. He introduced the concept that our minds are composed of two archetypes: the persona and the shadow self. The persona, derived from the Latin word for ‘mask,’ represents the image we present to the world and how we want to be seen. Our shadow aspects are the parts of ourselves that we learn to hide as we grow, experience life and learn the ‘rules’ about good and bad, right and wrong – and behaviours we feel we should hide in the shadows. These concealed feelings can transform into ‘dark’ emotions, which manifest as health issues, mood swings, fears, and mental health challenges. It might seem easier to ignore these shadows, but they keep showing up and growing until we confront them. As Carl Jung aptly said, “That which we do not bring to consciousness appears in our lives as fate.” We all have dark and light aspects. If we learn to accept our shadows and where they came from, they will no longer frighten or ‘overshadow’ our lives. We can embrace them/our wholeness.

Parental alienators and those who profess to be strong, right, and best – including our leaders and governments – put up a front to cover deep wounds, traumas, victim patterns, and shadows. Until they heal, they can’t help others as they like to think they can. They often have hidden agendas and look for a saviour or support system. When we no longer fulfil their agenda, they shift from victim to persecutor and make us their targets. The deeper their wounds, the more vicious their attack. They are essentially battling their own projections, their shadows. We can try to practise loving detachment when we find ourselves in this abusive situation, especially concerning alienated children. Sending our love. Being loving. Striving to be happy. We must not allow others’ judgments and opinions to define our identity; they only define themselves. Most cannot see beyond their trauma and hurt and operate from this shadow place. We can heal our shadow aspects and love ourselves to better love others.

Just as we cannot deny the existence of the ‘dark side of the moon’ or have yin without yang, we must acknowledge that life encompasses both light and dark experiences. We all have those ‘dark’ days and experiences. It’s part of life. If we bury the stuff we don’t like or don’t feel comfortable with, it just rots and festers. It is hard but much better to unearth, accept, and even learn to love them. This process begins with acknowledging that the bad experiences do not define us. We are not parental alienation; it happened to us and our children. We are not defined by the rage, grief, and loss inflicted upon us by this experience. Recognising these experiences for what they are—events that occurred, feelings that were felt—is the first step. Viewing these experiences, even the traumatic and heartbreaking ones like alienation, as part of a journey that has yet to reach its destination allows us to learn acceptance. To deny these feelings and our ‘shadow self’ is to deny a part of ourselves, including how these experiences have shaped us. These events happened, and self-criticism serves no one. There is no need for shame; instead, work towards releasing the grief, guilt, and anger. Find strength within and shine your light not only for yourself but also for your child.

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Holding the Light

It was quite a weekend to be a lightworker. We had large waves of expansion energies within us. They were doing to us the same thing that water does to bread, it expands out multiple times bigger than it was initially.

That’s why the weekend energies were so intense. They were opening up your system to help release any large areas of density that needed light upon it.

Now you’re feeling better within the body. But you might still have a few things rise up today from the weekend energies.

Be kind to yourself as you move through today.

We are in this beautiful time of aligning within the body with much higher energetic levels. Allowing you to start to feel yourself changing. You might not even feel here at times, the alignment is so strong now.

This is part of your walk towards the rainbow bridge and out of this reality. You have been holding less density and more of your true self, which is a higher vibrational level than ever imagined you’d reach in this reality.

You are a phenom at this point. Releasing out all that no longer serves you. Seeing and assisting your old belief structures releasing from you.

Those things you tethered your 3d life to have all but dissipated now. You have learned to release from your programmed ways and trust how you now see, feel, and resonate with your higher vibrational world.

You are expanding out in all directions. Your field is almost quantum at this point. This means no connectioning in for you, you’re already there.

You run the show now, and your vibration is what’s leading your way. It’s also creating your day, you are always manifesting now.

So, if you find yourself having a hard day, it’s time to step into your light and raise your vibration higher. Because somehow you let your vibration slip, and that brings in lower thinking and lower experiences

Take a moment and rise back up.

You can do this by listening to music, walking in nature, or if you can’t do those things currently, pop into a quiet space and imagine yourself in a glass elevator starting from wherever you may be. Imagine that beautiful elevator slowly rising you up higher and higher, away from the ground and into the clouds. It’s quiet there, away from all the activity on this planet and up into the peace of the light and it’s beautiful high vibration.

That will raise your vibration back up to Its normal level and let you continue with your day in a much higher way.

Your light is needed on the planet now more than ever. Wrap up in Source light to protect your energy and you within it. Then stay as steady and bright as possible while we move through these last alignments and adjustments.

Rise above the movie playing in this reality, and send love to the world. You can do the greatest good now for you and all that are on the planet in this way.

Things are about to shift around us. The energy alignment is almost there. We are watching Lightworkers phasing in and out of their crystalline systems.

Hold the light as high and bright as you can. This is the mission. This is exactly why you came.

We are there, it is now.

Much love and light,

-SA Smith

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My Degree -2013

Unfortunately life and varied challenges have not created the space for my actualizing income .

I asked for a loan in 2005 or 06 to take an intergrated nutrition course . My house , bought ” under the influence ” of psychiatric poisons was $1000 a month , bare minimum to replace my health care was a $1000.

He said no .

Too busy , traveling , big timing , still paying the kids cell phone bills and lavish Christmas gifts and vacations . Using money he cheated me on .

Condemning me for not working , especially in letters to my lawyers , but not willing to support my effort to do so .

I’m so glad I received this degree , I chose not to use the more common ” psychic ” counselor, not here in Virginia .

I don’t think I’ll attempt 1 on 1 counseling but a pod casts or web page .. internet radio .

Just going through the motions of clearing up old business .

Peace ☮️

Inherited Trauma

Research in epigenetics and psychology suggests that trauma isn’t just personal, it can be passed down through generations. Studies on Holocaust survivors’ descendants, for example, show that trauma can alter gene expression, shaping stress responses in future generations. This phenomenon, known as intergenerational or transgenerational trauma, highlights how deeply our lineage influences us.

But healing is possible. Somatic therapy, inner child work, energy healing, and trauma-informed therapy can help release inherited emotional burdens. Practices like ancestral healing rituals, breathwork, and journaling offer powerful tools for breaking these cycles, allowing us to reclaim our well-being and shift the epigenetic patterns we’ve carried.

The Alienator – Charlie McCready

At the core of parental alienation lies a troubling truth: the alienating parent often harbours a profound animosity towards their ex-partner that eclipses their love for their child. This dynamic can be unsettling, as it reveals how personal vendettas can overshadow the fundamental duty of nurturing a child’s emotional and psychological well-being.

An alienator typically views their ex as an adversary rather than a co-parent. This perspective often stems from unresolved conflicts, feelings of betrayal, or even jealousy. Rather than seeking to heal or move forward, they channel that pain and perceived wrongs into a relentless campaign against their former partner. Their fixation on undermining the other parent can manifest in various ways—through manipulative narratives, distorted truths, and emotional coercion, all designed to create distance between the child and the targeted parent.

This hatred can be so consuming that it clouds the alienator’s ability to see the child’s needs clearly. They may project their bitterness onto the child, expecting them to take sides in a conflict that has little to do with the child’s own feelings or experiences. In doing so, the alienator denies their child the love and support they desperately need from both parents. The alienating parent may profess love for their child, but it is conditional and subject to the child’s allegiance to them and their distorted worldview.

The impact on the child can be profound and damaging. As the alienator fosters feelings of fear, resentment, and distrust towards the other parent, they may inadvertently instil in the child a skewed understanding of relationships. They may be led to believe that expressing affection for the targeted parent is a betrayal of their ‘favoured’ parent, reinforcing a toxic dynamic that prioritises control over emotional honesty.

Ultimately in their obsessive pursuit of revenge or validation, alienators are willing to sacrifice their child’s mental health and happiness. Recognising this truth is crucial for understanding the dynamics of parental alienation. It highlights the urgent need for intervention, support, and education for both parents and professionals.

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