Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

Living Bereavement- Charlie McCready

An alienated parent experiences profound emotional turmoil, feeling trapped between a rock and a hard place. They are often isolated from their child due to the alienating tactics of the other parent, which can lead to overwhelming loneliness and confusion. The deep sense of loss, akin to a ‘living bereavement’, encompasses not just the physical absence of their child but also the loss of the once-strong emotional bond. The alienated parent feels helpless, unable to protect their child from further harm, and may experience anguish and betrayal as their child parrots negative statements from the alienating parent.

To navigate this hugely difficult situation, alienated parents can seek support through counselling to express their emotions, develop coping strategies, and gain perspective. In the case of the coaching I do, I sometimes work in small groups, and I offer 1:1 coaching too. Sometimes the ‘target’ parent will be accompanied by a partner, a parent (grandparents suffer too), and I have given coaching to alienated children too. They are not always willing to talk at first, but often open up and find it is a neutral space where they can talk freely, and I can guide them towards seeing the bigger picture.

Prioritising self-care, both physically and emotionally, is crucial. Learning about parental alienation, maintaining boundaries, and considering legal recourse when necessary can empower. Focusing on reconciliation rather than retaliation when interacting with alienated children is crucial. Recognising and addressing these complex emotions is the first step toward healing and potentially rebuilding the parent-child relationship.

These daily posts are here to spread awareness, inform and (where possible) uplift. Please don’t hesitate to contact me directly if I can help you with coaching. There’s more information on my website. I am also working on a series of e-guides (downloadable online guides), the first one is available now for the price of a few coffees.

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Brutality of being alienated/ targeted – Charlie McCready

Being an alienated parent is brutal. It’s a unique trauma, leaving you caught between deep grief, searing injustice, and the unrelenting confusion of watching those who should support you turn a blind eye. It’s not just about losing a child; it’s about facing spousal or partner psychological abuse, which in turn becomes psychological abuse against your child. And despite this, if you choose to stay kind, to refuse to let bitterness corrupt you, to remain open-hearted despite your pain—that, in the words of Keanu Reeves, makes you a true badass. And I agree. ⁠

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Keanu Reeves is no stranger to tragedy. Having lost his best friend, his partner, and their unborn child, he could have succumbed to bitterness and isolation. Instead, he became known for his humility, kindness, and resilience. His quote speaks to your journey, if you are an alienated parent (step-parent, grandparent, or child). Despite being ‘brutally broken’, the courage to keep showing up, offering love, and being a safe harbour for others is a powerful statement of your amazing, strong, beautiful character.⁠

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In a world that often misjudges the alienated parent, where your efforts are dismissed or misunderstood, choosing to still show compassion and not lash out takes incredible strength. Like Reeves’ iconic roles, where characters break free from oppressive systems—like in The Matrix—alienated parents must summon that inner resolve, facing a relentless enemy not with anger, but with unwavering integrity.⁠

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If you follow my posts, you’ll know I’m a big fan of The Matrix. I often compare the experience of an alienated child to that of being trapped in the fabricated world of the film. The alienating parent constructs an ‘unreality’ and the child is programmed to believe a distorted version of the truth. They’re caught in a world where up is down, love is hate, and rejection is loyalty. Like stepping out of The Matrix, the day they finally take their own ‘red pill’ and see the truth will be disorientating and painful. But you, standing steadfast in your love, are the lifeline they need when they’re ready to break free.

It’s the hardest path to take—to keep being gentle when the world has been anything but. Yet by doing so, you not only hold space for your child’s eventual awakening but also set yourself free from the trap of reactive anger and despair. True strength is knowing your worth without needing others to acknowledge it, and offering love without expecting anything in return.

In choosing to embody the strength and gentleness Keanu describes, you’re not just surviving—you’re transforming grief into power, and that makes you a true badass with the heart of an angel.

NB: Hollywood attracts people with talent—and a fair degree of narcissism too. Beneath the glitz and glamour, it’s a world full of manipulation, deceit, and image control. Many stories are now emerging about abuse, blackmail, and betrayal in an industry where ruthless self-interest is often the norm. While shocking, I hope this exposure is part of the detox the world needs. But even in such darkness, there are a few lights—you are one of them.

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Awakening is Remembering 💯❤️

To The Ascension LightWorker Collective

As our frequency changes, a new world will emerge. This transition to a higher dimensional way of being is the 3D to 5D Shift, it requires that we shift our thinking to a higher vibrational frequency from mind centered thinking to heart centred knowing.

They call it ‘awakening’ but really it’s remembering, a deep wordless knowing that rises from within, it’s not something you learn but something you have always embodied. All memories are stored in the soul’s imprint, beyond time, beyond logic,

Wisdom from lifetimes encoded in your energy. In dreams and in De ja Vu. in the quiet moments when the noise fades, activation of remembrance is why some truths feel so familiar the first time you hear them, why certain symbols, sounds or places. stir something ancient in you.

Not all transformation looks dramatic. Most Of it is Cellular, Silent. Subtle. But no Less Powerful. The most important shifts often happen when it feels like nothing is working. Because that’s when the old system within begins to dissolve.

Not mistaking stillness for stagnation or mistaking quiet for failure. You are in the moment between timelines. The breath before the leap. If It Feels Like Nothing is Happening this is a strong sign that shifts are occurring behind the scenes .

Growth is messy. It loops, spirals, and stings. You’re not ever failing, you’re peeling back layers.

For some ascending that feel frustrated in certain parts of their awakening journey, you are not stuck. You are in the quiet part, the part where everything starts to shift within . You might not see it yet or all at once . You might feel at times like the momentum slowed down or disappeared but underneath the surface, something greater is recalibrating.

Human beings are not meant to be doing Machines. If you have been feeling tired, stuck, uninspired recently, It’s not because something is wrong with you. You were not divinely created to wake in fear or with dread. To measure your worth by output or spend your days surviving routines that strip the essence of the Soul.

For those that feel like your life doesn’t reflect who you really are at this point in life. That’s not failure. That’s evidence that you are remembering. You are not lazy. You are not broken. You are not ungrateful. You are simply sensitive to misalignment.

You are not stuck forever. Your current reality is not your final form. You are not late. You are not lost. You are remembering and waking up to the truth.

Humanity were taught to call exhaustion in self “normal.” To silence the aches and pains. To press on. But that ache, that pain is sacred. It is the Soul’s calling of what needs to be consciously recognised.

Reality Doesn’t Respond to What You Want

It Mirrors Who You Are. The universe isn’t reacting to your desires . It’s reflecting your frequency. We are not passive observers. We are transmitters, Projectors. Reality isn’t “out there.” It’s unfolding from within.

Why visualising a new life doesn’t always change your current one. Because your system isn’t just listening to your words, it’s vibrating to your field.

The ego is a tool, it just needs to be aligned, not erased. A healthy ego serves your soul, while a distorted ego serves only illusions and fear .

You manifest what matches your nervous system baseline. What you have practiced. What your energy believes is real. Not what you hope for but what you inhabit and embody, when things don’t seem to be shifting , ask: What part of me doesn’t believe this is possible? What fear am I still building around? What version of me is this desire assigned to?

You don’t create by wishing, you create by becoming and when your being holds the frequency of truth reality bends to meet it.

Resistance Isn’t the Problem It’s the Portal.

What you’re pushing against might be the very doorway you’re meant to walk through.

Most people fear resistance. We may take it as a sign to stop. But resistance is sacred. It’s where your system is trying to hold the old reality together. When something inside you resists change it’s not trying to ruin your progress. It’s trying to protect you from the unknown.

The greater the change you’re stepping into, the louder the resistance becomes. The reason why is because you’re leaving the terrain your nervous system calls safe.

The moment you stop making resistance wrong-it begins to dissolve . It’s not a wall. It’s a signal. And it’s pointing you exactly where to go. Recognising where resistance is showing up the strongest in life, consciously exploring what it is pointing towards.

The nervous system holds time differently.

Safety doesn’t come from age, it comes from permission. Permission to soften, to open, to feel and to finally Rest .

Not everything that asks for your energy deserves it. Your power is sacred-guard it with intention. Energetic clutter within and without will scramble the nervous system. You thrive in stilhess, not chaos.

You are not starting from zero, you are returning, reconnecting, reclaiming what has always been yours this is the great remembering and your soul has been waiting for it.

Healing isn’t linear. It’s cyclical and the moment you feel safe you shift conscious timelines. You don’t heal the past by reliving it. You heal the past by finally becoming the one who was missing all along “Yourself”.

You don’t need to be perfect to Ascend

Being spiritual doesn’t mean you stop feeling. True growth is learning to feel everything without letting it control you. Your humanness is sacred too.

It’s never too late to become the True Self

There is no deadline for becoming real.

All are always welcome to return home to who they truly are.

Ascension is not escape, It’s not about floating away from Earth. Real ascension is integration, grounding your higher self into the physical body and living with awareness in this reality.

In Loving and Devoted Ascension Service

By Ascension Lightworkers .

Lawyers & Parental Alienation- Charlie McCready

Does anyone care to comment? When I have more time, I’d like to gather more data on what alienated parents have actually experienced in the family court system. How long did it take? What was the outcome? How much money was spent? Did it lead to reunification? If the court ordered contact, was it enforced—and if so, how did that go?

Alienated parents often pour their life savings into a legal system they once believed would protect their rights and their children’s well-being—only to emerge financially drained, emotionally shattered, and, in many cases, no closer to justice.

This highlights the urgent need for reform. Lawyers dealing with these cases should be trained to recognise attachment disordered parental alienation – the false narratives and coercive, manipulative behaviours that drive it. The legal system must do better, not only for parents who are being erased from their children’s lives but, most importantly, for the children themselves—caught in a battle they never chose.

Perhaps we expect too much. Perhaps we should know better by now. After all, injustice isn’t confined to family courts or parental alienation. Look at the wider world—those who commit crimes often walk free, while those who expose them suffer the consequences. The alienated parent is no different: seeking truth in a system that too often fails to protect the innocent while enabling the abuse.

I don’t mean to sound cynical. I try to stay focused on solutions. But we shouldn’t have to ‘fight’ to see our own children in a court of justice—because we are not criminals. We are parents. Parental alienation isn’t simply a legal matter; it’s a psychological and relational issue—one that the law is often ill-equipped to handle. And for many, prolonged legal action is not only financially impossible but also emotionally destructive. While sometimes necessary, court should be a last resort, used only when every other effort to protect a child’s well-being has been exhausted.

If you are going through what’s commonly known as ‘parental alienation’, know you’re not alone. I’ve been through it myself. Personally and professionally, I have over 20 years of experience. I am reunited with my children and here to offer support with daily posts on social media and also with the coaching I offer. Feel free to reach out to me anytime.

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