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Having babies out of Unalignment keeps you Misaligned

When you bring a child into this world you are reproducing your frequency

If you are traumatized and misaligned with your true self

You will produce a child that is fueled by your misalignment(your false self)

This also becomes an excuse to stay in further misalignment

“I can’t quit this unaligned job because I have to feed my kids”

or

“I can’t leave this toxic relationship because we have kids to raise”

Thus this makes it exceedingly difficult to let go of those things keeping you in misalignment

You don’t even have time to connect with your true self because all your energy is spent maintaining the misaligned life

Most of the humans on this earth plane were born from misalignment

Thus they have to spend their whole life trying to get aligned with their true self

They were unplanned lust babies that were created from a toxic relationship

Now they must heal the generational curses(traumas) that were passed down from their parents and above

They grow up watching you in misalignment and are conditioned to believe being in misalignment is normal

Thus when they encounter a person who is actually aligned with their true self, their traumas are triggered

The truth will always set you free, yet the pain you feel from it is to the degree that you were buried in the illusion

Most children don’t start the healing process until they are adults and move away from the traumatized family members

This is due to the fact that you cannot be healed in the same location that you were traumatized in

You have to get away to make a way with yourself because if you try to heal around the damaged,

They will simply pour their damage back onto you and pull you back into misalignment

Misalignment loves company and it won’t let anyone around them come into alignment because then it would be forced to face the truth

Because then they would have to do the inner shadow work and make those changes to heal and come into alignment themselves

It is much easier to keep another suppressed than to do the work to evolve yourself

One requires you face the fear and traumas within, the other simply requires you to pour your toxicity onto the next person and blame them

You can come into alignment by dropping everything that is keeping you unaligned

Remember anything stressing you is keeping you unaligned and is draining your energy

If you continue to be host to energy parasites, your child will learn to be a parasite host as well

In a perfect world, majority of us wouldn’t be here because we would only be having babies out of alignment

Yet in this society more than 95% of people vibrate at the lowest root chakra frequency due to the fact that people keep reproducing babies from this very frequency

You haven’t learned TRUE SEXUAL EDUCATION and ALCHEMY which allows you to only get pregnant or get another pregnant at your own choosing

Instead of having sex, a baby pops up, and now you’re trying to maintain a shallow toxic relationship due to the creations you’ve created together

Most people are trapped in their EGOs, they believe since the child has the basic necessities of the ROOT CHAKRA material world that the child is satisfied

There’s 6 more dimensions to the child that can’t be nurtured because you’ve haven’t nurtured your own inner dimensions yet

9 times out of 10 the child is holding everything in because they don’t want to hurt your feelings or be judged

This cycle will repeat until one generation decides to stop producing babies out of lust,frustration,fear, low self-worth, lack of self-love and attachment

YOU DESERVE TO ALIGN WITH YOUR TRUE SELF!!!

YOU DESERVE TO COMPLETELY HEAL YOUR TRAUMAS!!!

YOU DESERVE TO REPRODUCE FROM A HIGH-VIBRATIONAL FREQUENCY!!!

ALL GLORY BE TO THE MOST HIGH

SMILE AND GIVE THANKS

Photo Credit: @Adrian.Borda

Alienated Kids are groomed into emotional servitude

Parental alienation doesn’t just separate a child from a parent—it rewires their nervous system.

Alienated children are often conditioned to believe:

• They must manage the alienating parent’s emotional state.

• Any deviation from loyalty is betrayal.

• Their love must be earned through compliance, silence, or performance.

This grooming creates a child who becomes hyper-attuned to the needs, moods, and reactions of others. The message they internalize is clear:

“You are responsible for how I feel.”

And if the child doesn’t manage that emotional state correctly, the cost is often rejection, guilt, withdrawal of affection, or punishment.

They learn to sacrifice their comfort, truth, and identity to maintain approval.

They become peacekeepers.

Performers.

Caretakers of chaos.

This is emotional enmeshment masked as loyalty—and it leaves long-term scars.

What This Looks Like in Adulthood

These children often grow up to:

• Feel triggered by other people’s disappointment—even when it’s not directed at them

• Feel responsible for fixing everything

• Have difficulty saying “no” or disappointing others

• Lose their sense of self in relationships

• Seek external validation at the expense of their own truth

Their inner narrative becomes:

“If I don’t fix this, I’ll lose love.”

“If I don’t keep the peace, I’ll be punished.”

“If someone’s unhappy, it must be my fault.”

This is not their fault. It’s the result of living in survival mode for years under the weight of manipulation.

How to Help Your Alienated Child Heal When They Come Back

When your child returns—emotionally or physically—you have a rare and sacred opportunity. Not to explain your pain. Not to clear your name. But to give them space to discover who they are without pressure.

Here’s how:

1. Give Them Emotional Sovereignty

Let them know they are not responsible for your healing. Say:

“You’re not here to take care of my feelings. I’m here to hold space for yours.”

2. Model Nervous System Regulation

If you stay calm, grounded, and regulated—even when they test boundaries—they will feel the difference. You become the safe space they never had.

3. Normalize Their Confusion and Mixed Emotions

Let them know it’s okay to feel loyalty to both parents. Don’t force them to choose sides. Instead, affirm:

“You’re allowed to love us both. You’re allowed to have your own experience.”

4. Don’t Trauma-Dump

They don’t need to hear your whole story or pain. They need to know they’re loved and safe. If they ask, share—but only what they can emotionally handle.

5. Help Them Rebuild Identity

Encourage expression through creativity, exploration, and play. Say things like:

“What do you love?”

“What makes you feel alive?”

“You don’t need to perform here. Just be.”

6. Celebrate Autonomy

They were stripped of autonomy in the alienation dynamic. Give it back. Let them choose the pace of reconnection. Let them have opinions. Let them say no.

Healing Begins With You

If you want your child to shed the burdens placed on them, you must never place new ones on their shoulders. Let their nervous system relearn what it feels like to be near someone who doesn’t demand anything of them except presence.

You are not here to pull them back into your world.

You’re here to witness the return to their own.