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Cutting Cords

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My cycle with you has ended, I have nothing else to offer you, except more complaints and reproaches product of emotional exhaustion in which I find myself.

I don’t want to continue in a relationship that steals my peace and causes me more anguish than happiness, I realized I had an idea of our relationship that didn’t fit reality, I idealized you, I dreamed you, I granted you attributes that you finally didn’t have.

I gave this relationship a lot of chances because I held on to my good memories and my idea of a future with you.

I let you go and close this chapter.

I understand that love is not demanded and should not be forced, I leave this relationship, to focus on the most important relationship in the world:

The relationship with myself ❤️ 🩹

De la red 👩 💻

The Bottomless Pit of learned ingratitude- Charlie McCready

Alienated parents often experience a painful dynamic where their children feel they have to “payback” for perceived shortcomings. This belief is instilled by the alienating parent, who paints (projects) a picture of the targeted parent as neglectful or selfish. The child, who has been led to believe these narratives, may come to expect constant compensation for the perceived wrongs.⁠

In reality, the alienated parent has been prevented from giving their love and support. Their attempts to provide for and connect with their child have been limited or entirely blocked. Despite their genuine efforts and desire to be involved, the child has been conditioned to see these efforts as inadequate.⁠

The alienated child often becomes complicit in this dynamic, unknowingly perpetuating the cycle of blame. They carry the belief that they have been short-changed by the targeted parent, even though the reality is that the alienated parent had so much more time and love to give. This disconnect creates a lasting sense of injustice and unresolved tension.⁠

Understanding this dynamic can help alienated parents find some solace in knowing that the problem is not rooted in their actions but in the manipulative influence of the alienating parent. It isn’t easy to be blamed so mistakenly when we know our children truly have been shortchanged – against our wishes and at the instigation of the alienating parent – and we have to, despite all adversity, triggers, injustice, grief …, maintain our patience, empathy, and continued efforts to rebuild trust and connection with their children.⁠

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Charlie McCready – worse after visits with Alienator parent

It’s almost as if when they’ve spent time with a toxic, alienating parent (or other), they become contaminated. It can even be a phone call or a five-minute visit. The toxicity is that strong! You might notice an increased contempt or disrespect. I always feel it’s like they’ve plugged into the source of negativity and there’s a boost of activity. Have you noticed something similar?

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Narcissist give subtle hints

Yes , there were hints, which intensified, waxed and waned kinda energy .

It took me a long time to understand that his confidences in sharing his

” friends” experiences were in fact his ..

Prowling , with one of his besties , he talked of cruising the prostitution

are of town..3 months after we married .

His employees crossing the highway for lunch hour paid sex ..

So, yes when I wasn’t viable , he wasn’t available, because it wasn’t his

” job ” .

Expressing the same non interest as his Dad expired or a long period

I began to understand that it was problem with him, and ditto for Mom.

Our sons follow this model, and it’s been heart breaking .. I am worthy

of being cared for .

This Dr’s message was indeed a gift , on this full moon 🌕 Gemini .

Blessings & Peace 🫶🏼

Dona Luna

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Vin Diesel : How he treated his partner in separation 🙌🤩

Actor Vin Diesel broke up with his partner after three years, but when they separated, he didn’t take her out of their home. He left the marital house to her and moved to live nearby.

Not only that, he also requested that all monthly bills—internet, phone, and electricity—be sent to him for payment. He completely rejected any form of communication that would interfere or publicize anything about their separation.

After six years, his partner had an accident while returning from a shopping trip…

Diesel stood by her side and donated his blood to her. When she recovered, they got back together. 💙

In summary: either we live together in love with pure and humble hearts, or we separate, but love and respect remain between us. We keep our precious memories and respect each other no matter what happens.

Credits: Memes Virales

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