Tag: Children

Detachment can be exhausting

Detachment is your ally. Detachment lets you shift from wanting to undo a wrong to just focusing on healing yourself. When your weaponised, indoctrinated, alienated child is rude, insulting, upsetting, angry, accusatory – and even if you wanted, you can’t defend yourself from something you didn’t do because you’re not given the airtime – it is not easy to deal with this. But not reacting, not fighting fire with fire, is a loving act. ⁠

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Detachment allows us to disengage emotionally from the turmoil of the situation, providing a much-needed respite from the relentless onslaught of hurtful behaviours and manipulative tactics. Cultivating resilience and inner strength in these adversarial circumstances is paramount. ⁠

By accepting the reality of our situation, we create space for healing and transformation to unfold. As Kabat-Zinn eloquently puts it, “You can’t stop the waves, but you can learn to surf.” In other words, by relinquishing our attachment to outcomes and relinquishing the need to control, we empower ourselves to ride the waves. ⁠

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The ancient Chinese philosopher Lao Tzu once observed, “Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength while loving someone deeply gives you courage.” In this journey of parental alienation, may we find the strength to love ourselves deeply and the courage to extend that love to our alienated children, even in the face of the most difficult adversity.⁠

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Your child chose you as a parent

YOUR CHILD CHOSE YOU 🌟

🌟Did you know that the soul of your descendant chose you to be his mother even before he was born?

🌟The soul travels to infinity and when it decides where it wants to be reborn, it is then aware of its experiences, memories and past agreements it has gone through before incarnation.

🌟When she decides to come back here, she chooses her parents. He hopes to learn more activities and experiences during this new life opportunity.

🌟Be grateful that you have a child, be happy that their soul decided to join your family and learn from you.

🌟This is the highest honor you can receive, even if you don’t feel ready to raise a child.

🌟But you really do have everything that this soul needs to thrive in the environment it chose to be reborn in.

🌟As a parent, you have a long way to go where you must be responsible for guiding this soul along the path of goodness so that the mission of this being is fulfilled.

🌟Each soul decides which family can help them fulfill their life mission, so that they can learn what is needed to fulfill it. And the job of the parents is to direct that soul to it’s goal.

🌟Although the lifestyle is difficult sometimes, there are times, good and sad, when father and mother should never regret what they have to go through for their child to grow up.

🌟Remember that you have been chosen for the greatest mission of your life: to give your soul a physical body that is actually a divine spark.

Suppressed memories of the Alienated parent due child psychological abuse

Alienated children may suppress memories of the alienated parent due to psychological stress and loyalty conflicts.

This phenomenon, known as memory erasure or suppression, can occur when children feel pressured to align with one parent and reject the other, leading them to forget positive experiences or relationships with the alienated parent, contributing greatly to an overwhelming sense of a guilt and creating loyalty conflicts that culminate in anxiety issues.

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