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Devil Sends Narcissist

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My benefactor used to say that a warrior who stumbles on a petty tyrant is a lucky one.

The only bird that will peck at an Eagle is the crow. He sits on his back and bites his neck. The eagle does not respond or fight with the crow, it doesn’t waste time or energy on the crow.

It simply opens its wings and begins to rise higher in the sky. The higher the flight the harder it is for the crow to breathe and then the crow falls due to lack of oxygen.

Stop wasting your time with the crows in your life.

Just take them to your heights and they’ll fade.

A petty tyrant is a tormentor. Someone who either holds the power of life and death over warriors or simply annoys them to distraction.

A petty tyrant is a person who causes distress by imposing his/her will on others using psychological pressure rather than physical force. The petty tyrant feels he may impose his will because he believes that he is a superior being and because he wants to operate from a position of authority.

Petty tyrants are the button-pushers, the individuals that have the ability to throw things off-balance for you if you let them. Many petty tyrants are unaware that they are the cause of so much frustration. They are effective teachers because they force the warrior to closely monitor their own reactions and habitual behaviors. The result is mindfulness and the ability to shift the assemblage point , even if ever so slightly, in order to loosen the fixation to the conditioned response that causes the reaction in the first place.

“don’t take anything personally.” This is the biggest gift of the petty tyrant. To be able to recognize that even though you will be annoyed to no end by the petty tyrant one must not allow themselves to be energetically attached to the petty tyrant. They are ruthless and are often painfully consistent in throwing someone off of the center quickly and effectively. To fall prey to a petty tyrant means that you allow yourself to become agitated repeatedly by the same words, behaviors and attitudes over and over again.

The freedom arrives when the petty tyrant no longer affects you. You are in their presence and they are the same they have always been. Annoying to no end, distracting and even disruptive but they just don’t have the same affect on you anymore. You are no longer annoyed or imbalanced by them. You have accomplished the feat of shifting your assemblage point so that you no longer perceive annoyances in the same manner you did in the past and you have successfully severed the energetic stronghold that the petty tyrant had on your self-importance. In fact, you can’t even remember what it was that annoyed you so much in the first place.

This is the gift. The petty tyrant pushes and pushes and pushes until the very thing(s) that bothered you about them in the first place no longer do. Unwittingly, they set the stage for growth in areas you may not have even realized should be addressed. The petty tyrant can stop your world by activating a series of emotions and responses within you that you could not even imagine existed. They are, in their own right, a portal for deepening your quest for freedom.

Even the worst tyrants can bring delight, provided, of course, that one is a warrior.

Αfter considerable experience with tyrants the warrior is approached by inorganic beings allies entities …CHOOSE YOUR ALLY

An ally is a power a warrior can bring into her/his life to help , advise , and give the strength necessary to perform acts, whether big or small, right or wrong.

This ally is necessary to enhance a man’s life, guide his acts, and further his knowledge.

In fact, an ally is the indispensable aid to knowing.

An ally will make you see and understand things about which no human being could possibly enlighten you.

An ally is a power capable of carrying a man beyond the boundaries of himself.

It is neither a guardian nor a spirit. It is an aid.

No Future in sticking by Narcissist

One of the reasons it’s so hard to accept the narcissist for who they are is believing they think the same way we do.⁠

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They repeat the script and we believe them.⁠

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Their script keeps the fantasy alive in our minds that they care, that we’re deeply connected to them, and that we have a special bond with them that no one understands.⁠

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Only…this is nothing more than a storyline we keep alive in our imagination (with the narcissist’s help, of course).⁠

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The truth is too painful, so we deny the reality that keeps playing out before us, even in the face of unquestionable proof.⁠

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We project our empathy and compassion onto them, falling prey to the idea that they’re just a hurt soul who is trying to live and survive like anyone else.⁠

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And all while you’re giving them second chances and the benefit of the doubt, they’re planning on ways to destroy you…it’s only a matter of time.⁠

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I promise you that if you’re dealing with a narcissist, they may pretend to be a decent person here and there, but you will be hit with the shock of their deceit…and probably sooner than later.⁠

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Which will later lead to crippling feelings of anger and revenge. You will be so consumed with hatred for them, you won’t be able to see straight.⁠

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You’ll be so obsessed with feelings of revenge, you won’t be able to function in everyday life.⁠

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How can I say this so confidently? Because not only do I hear it from my students and clients (every day), I experienced these feelings myself.⁠

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If you’re struggling to detach from the narcissist, to resist their hoovering, or are feeling fed up with yourself for the number of times you’ve forgiven them, chances are it’s because you’ve bought into one or more of their schemes.

Relationship with Narcissistic be like ….

In every toxic relationship, there comes a point where you look at your life and think, “Not This”. It could be a fleeting moment of awareness during your morning shower or when you’re being subjected to yet another silent treatment or triangulation event. ⁠

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We all have “Not This” moments during the course of toxic relationships.⁠

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It’s during our “Not This” moments that we can choose to start planning something different for ourselves. We may not know what that will look like, but in the moment, it doesn’t matter. All we know is “Not This”. There is no turning back.⁠

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Or, after the dust settles, we may choose to “work on” the relationship because staying means less upheaval than leaving. At least with a toxic partner, we know what to expect. ⁠

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Getting out on one’s own is often a scary proposition, so we choose to stay in “Not This”, thereby setting ourselves up for a life of emotional ruin. You’ll look back on all the years you wasted and realize things haven’t changed at all.⁠

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But, every passing minute is a chance to turn it all around. I have several resources for you if you’re ready, or even if you’re just thinking about it…⁠

👉 https://linktr.ee/kim.saeed

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Xo (◍•ᴗ•◍)♡ ✧*。⁠

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