Category: Parential Alienation-Child Abuse

Wrong Life ?

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You did not live the wrong life, friend.

You made choices, yes, the best choices you could have made at the time, the only choices that were possible for you, choiceless choices that led you willingly or unwillingly to the place where you are now.

Perhaps there was never any choice anyway.

You said yes, you said no, you said no when you meant yes and yes when you meant no.
But these were the only answers you could have given at the time, considering what you knew, where you were, what you needed; considering your genetics and the trauma you had not yet healed, the insights you had not yet had, the path you had not yet trodden on your way to your deepest self.

You did not live the wrong life.

You can look back and say you lived the wrong life.
But these are only thoughts
and you did not live the wrong life.

For you are here. Your breath is rising and falling, right on cue.
The sun is rising in the sky and the leaves are falling from the trees.
Your mind is full of the thoughts that must be thought now.
Your body holds the feelings that you must feel now.
Sounds you must hear, longings you must turn towards.
Regrets you must illuminate, fears you must smile at.
Or not.

And every choice, every missed opportunity, every right path that turned out to be the wrong path, every bridge burned or connection made, every loss and every gain, every moment of doubt, inaction, courage, joy, every depression and every moment of unbridled ecstasy, led you right here.

Here. Now. A new beginning.
A new chance to live. To love.
To make amends, or not.
To laugh or cry at the world and your place in it.

To fall to your knees in awe and humility.

The cosmos does not make mistakes,
even when it does.

You did not live the wrong life, friend,
because life did not live
the wrong You.

  • Jeff Foster

Lesson Learned via Narcissist

What we learned in the trauma, drama and dysfunction is to tolerate the intolerable.

We learned to sacrifice our own sense of self to become whoever and whatever others needed.

It is said the Empath must have the experience with the Narcissist to reach capacity of understanding the human condition

Reposting

Thing is…

As adults we often continue that pattern in our adult relationships.

Learning to listen to our own inner wisdom can help guide us to healthier relationships.

This….so we can see an end to the drama and difficult adult relationships.

So – if we’re seeing that every relationship is the same only different players…

We can start learning to let go of those relationships that feel bad so we can stop replaying the patterns.

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Narcissist- Paranormal-Spell Casters

This is an experience of another that addresses the spell work of the Narcissist.

The Secret Society of Masons are known for this as well as many religions

Unfortunately many have no real idea of how to cast spells and are in denial of the boomerang effect that can and does come back to haunt them .

I’ve been accused of blackmail in trying to legally and financially matters cleared ; because there is always denial and deception as part of the characteristics is to believe in the lie .

I do not miss one bit of his depressive , disturbing and distorted energy that along with neglect drained me and my chi .

He has stressed this monster 👺 is me and our sons have adapted to that shadow world of trauma bond and drama .

It will be resolved if just to cut the cords of trauma bond with regards to me but their’s to heal or not .

I’ve been liberated spiritually and mentally and emotionally and need not allow abusive relationships in my life .

Her story :

I brought up todays topic about Narcissists and the Paranormal because I think it is very important. Because when you experience someting like this, you will believe you have lost your mind. It already makes you crazy being in a relationship with a narcissist but add some paranormal activity to the mix and it can push you over the edge.
My experience started with a phone call, on a phone with a complete charge, And for some reason the battery drained in a couple minutes. I really can’t remember what was said but we were talking alone the lines of tarot cards and doing a reading for this person. It was The start of an online relationship with a guy who lived in Cancun, Mexico That lasted 5 years. He is a raging Sociopath, which I of course had no clue of. Nyways we really connected and started talking every day, all day long. A few months after meeting and learning more about him some strange things started happening arund my home. I don’t really know how to explain this but…. when the sun would set my home would take on a totally different vibe. Dark vibe, you could feel it. It was like something was in the air, is the only way I know how to explain it. Then strange things would happen. Things would be moved around, strange noises etc. My room mate worked second shift, (she was also a Sociopath, but I didn’t know this yet.) So i started becoming very afraid and if you know anything about spirits they feed on your fear.
I’m not going to go into specifics about what happened, I just sound crazy, but the reason im telling you all this is because for me, I believe there is a huge connection between paranormal occurrences and Narcissism.
The end of my story is the Narcissistic spiritual guru dumped me and broke my heart and I believe cast a nasty spell on me. Which played out into the scariest time of my life and what broke me so deeply that I started this group.