Tag: Women

Exadus Project

The soul of a woman, a mother who has been emotionally tortured by a depraved narcissistic abuser, cannot be explained in simple terms. Being stabbed from the inside out, in front of your children, in front of God, takes a special kind of demon, the kind that many are convinced only exist in the movies. If only that were true.

We see this ugliness up close and in person every month. Mothers with broken teeth, mothers with scars over their whole body, mothers with children who have been severely abused, mothers so severely traumatized that they can barely talk. This year, our abuse advocacy program has helped over 500 mothers and their children (over 1,100) escape homelessness, as the result of fleeing abusive relationships of every kind. We’ve stepped in and bailed mothers out of jail who were falsely accused by their abuser to manipulate the family court system into taking their children, and helped to reunite those mothers with their children by providing assistance to secure permanent housing. 51 of the mothers had to be relocated to undisclosed locations with permanent housing to escape abusers hell bent on violating restraining orders and taking children the courts awarded full custody to the mother. One mother, one too many, was sadly murdered by her abuser in front of her children, just 2 days before we were set to move her into her new permanent housing.

We end each year with a drive, a push to help 125 abused mothers and their children secure permanent housing. This December, we’ve helped 87 mothers and their children secure permanent housing with rent/utility deposit, household furnishings, food and personal necessities. We have 38 mothers remaining and I am personally asking friends and supporters to help us help these mothers end the nightmare of homelessness with a year-end donation to The Exodus Project. I am asking those who can to make a generous donation of $10 or whatever God puts on your heart. Please visit The Exodus Project today to lend your support by following to link below and in my comment to this post. Bless you and thank you!

Website: http://www.theexodusproject.com/helping-homeless-abuse-victims/

Soul

The men look at her and tell themselves they want her..

Imagining taming her fiery heart and wild spirit inspires them to chase her affection relentlessly…

Until they realize that behind her soulful eyes lies unexpected depth and beautiful passion.

Truth is, they all fancied themselves up to the task of winning her heart, thinking this beautiful woman was much like any other..

Until they realized that she was nothing like the rest.

They tried wooing her with expensive gifts and flashy places…only to understand that she didn’t care for the material possessions of this world-

She would trade a thousand diamonds for the chance to meet and connect with a deep soul and have meaningful conversation.

She wasn’t interested in what they could buy her, where they could take her or what gifts they could give her…

She wanted to know who they were, what moved them and their reasons for being.

Truthfully, this surprised and shocked many, for they weren’t prepared to open themselves up, be present and share their vulnerability.

Many couldn’t process what that meant and it scared them.

But that’s who she was, what she valued and how she loved…

She never settled, compromised or devalued herself for anyone else.

Either accept her on her own terms or part as friends…

She wouldn’t change who she was for anything-

Especially love.

She knew true love would be the one that she could embrace herself fully- and so would be.

So, she wasn’t holding out for a hero, superhero or anything else unrealistic.

She was content to live her life and enjoy it…but she’d love him when he would finally cross her path.

And if that wasn’t her future, well, then she would make her own love story quite happily.

So, until then, this fiery woman would keep doing what she did best:

Love hard, live passionately and enjoy her life.

Every day in every way,

She’ll always be strong, proud and free.

And one more thing:

They’d never call her lonely..

They’d realize she was loving and living her life, just the way she chose.

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Mother Hunger

Every woman carries a map of her mother’s unresolved wounds. They are inherited like heirlooms, passed through blood and breath, encoded in cellular memory. McDaniel reveals that mother hunger is not just psychological—it is a profound spiritual amputation. A violence so deep it rewrites how a woman understands love, safety, her own worth.

This book is not for the faint of heart. This is for warriors. For women ready to name the unnameable, to look unflinchingly into the abyss of their own pain and say: No more. Not today. Not ever again.

1. The Anatomy of Invisible Wounds

Mother hunger is not a metaphor—it’s a landscape carved into your soul. Every unmet need, every moment of emotional abandonment becomes a topography of survival. You learn to survive in the negative space of love, creating intricate survival mechanisms that become your armor. But survival is not living. Healing begins when you recognize that the wounds you cannot see are the ones that cut the deepest, and that naming your pain is the first revolutionary act of reclaiming yourself.

2. Rewriting the Language of Love

You were never taught the true dialect of love. Your mother tongue was silence, abandonment, conditional affection. McDaniel reveals that love is not martyrdom, not silence, not shrinking yourself to fit someone else’s comfort. Love is a living, breathing commitment to your own humanity. It is seeing yourself with the same tenderness you would offer a wounded child. It is understanding that your worth was never determined by the love you did or did not receive.

3. The Body as Sacred Witness

Trauma lives in flesh, in memory, in the way you breathe. Your body knows stories your mind has forgotten. Mother hunger manifests in every relationship, every choice, every moment of self-doubt. But here is the miracle: your body is not a battlefield. It is a sacred text of resilience. Every scar, every tension, every unexplained ache is your body’s way of holding wisdom, of protecting you, of remembering what you were never allowed to speak.

4. Breaking Generational Chains

You are not condemned to repeat the patterns of pain. You are the moment of interruption, the generation that says: No more. Breaking generational cycles is not about blame—it is about radical compassion. For your mother, who was also wounded. For yourself, who is learning to heal. For the daughters who will come after you, who will inherit not your pain, but your profound capacity for transformation.

5. Resurrection as a Daily Practice

Healing is not a destination. It is a moment-by-moment choice. Some days, healing looks like rage. Some days, it looks like tenderness. Some days, it looks like simply breathing. You are learning to mother yourself with the same fierce, unconditional love you were always meant to receive. Your worth is not negotiable. Your pain is not a weakness. Your survival is a testament to a love so profound it can resurrect entire worlds.

This is not just healing. This is a revolution written in the language of the heart.

BOOK: https://amzn.to/3Zmv0hx

Do not call us fragile

We are the daughters of men who broke their own hearts before the world had a chance to. Men who taught us that love could be a wound long before it became a song.

We are the daughters of mothers

whose own mothers whispered:

“Be still, be soft, be something small,

so men will want to play with you.”

But they bore us instead, iron-clad and restless. Their defiance braided into our hair.

Our wombs are not temples of waiting. Our bodies do not beg for sanctuaries. We have bled rivers of resilience, each drop a hymn to survival. When the world sought to name us fragile, we broke their tongues and dared them to define strength.

We are the daughters of women who were never given gardens but grew forests from ash.Women who learned to wield fire. Their shadows cast long and fierce over the faces of oppressors, whispering, “We are here.”

Our laughter is rebellion.

Our tears, a language older than war.

We walk with the weight of ancestors, their sacrifices sewn into our skin. Their dreams sprouting like wildflowers in the marrow of our bones.

Do not call us fragile.

We are storms that leave no sky untouched. Earthquakes that shift tectonic souls. We are the breaking and the remaking.The echo and the origin.

📷:@emotional.st

Hit & Run Love – Osho

“Man goes from one woman to another, goes on changing. People think he is a great lover; he is not a lover at all. He is avoiding, he is trying to avoid any deep involvement because with deep involvement problems have to be faced, and much pain has to be gone through. So one simply plays safe; one makes it a point never to go too deeply into somebody.

If you go too deep you may not be able to come back easily. And if you go deeply into somebody, somebody else will go deeply into you also; it is always proportionate. If I go very deep in you the only way is to allow you also to go that deep in me. It is a give and take, it is a sharing. Then one may get entangled too much, and it will be difficult to escape and the pain may be much. So people learn how to play safe: just let surfaces meet — hit-and-run love affairs. Before you are caught, run.

This is what is happening in the modern world. People have become so juvenile, so childish; they are losing all maturity.

Maturity comes only when you are ready to face the pain of your being; maturity comes only when you are ready to take the challenge. And there is no greater challenge than love.”

– Osho

Matriarchal society of Native Americans ❤️💯

NURTURING:When Europeans first arrived in North America, they were amazed by the Indigenous People and their culture and how it differed from their own. Children appeared to be indulged and lavished with affection more than European children, who were often disciplined by force. This tenderness instilled in them a sense of honor and respect through example. Native appearance and dress were understandably different, but strangely, native infants at birth were as light of skin as any from Europe. As they aged, their skins took on the hues of adults.��The women of these strange new people were esteemed and honored by society, unlike European women. American tribes had a matriarchal society in which children “belonged” to their mothers and were raised by them. The words of these women held sway. It was often their voices that ended conflicts or chose a direction for the entire clan or tribe.��In this painting, the Clan Mothers welcome new additions to the village. They will be raised in the old ways and and someday may become leaders of their people. (written with the help of Beth Kennedy — author and Clan Mother)Courtesy ~ JohnBuxton

“ Good “ Woman

My ex taught me a lesson:

no matter how good of a woman you are, you will never be enough for a guy who isn’t ready to be a man. I don’t matter how much love, care, and effort they give in, if one is not mature or willing enough to become a man, nothing shall work in that relationship.

Being a “good woman” means being kind, supportive, and loving. But if the guy doesn’t value those qualities, it’s not your fault. You can’t make him appreciate you or grow up when he’s not ready. A real man understands responsibility, respects your worth, and works with you to build a solid relationship.

Sometimes, we hold on hoping the other person will change. Fact is, change happens from within, and you cannot make someone change. When the man does not want to be one-to commit, communicate, and care-then end.

This lesson is not one of bitterness. It’s about knowing your value and not settling for anything less. You deserve someone who is willing to be the partner you need, who appreciates the phenomenal woman you are. Don’t waste your love on some bum who’s unwilling to grow up.

Neena Gupta.

ⓒ Love Is An Emotion of Strong Affection

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Woman Power

Having an understanding of this as a new wife and Mother , I was not supported or acknowledged as having any value .

At the time of X’s departure I was not myself and unable to respond correctly ; incorrectly assuming since I had legal representation, I was being cared for .

Protected

I was horribly wrong .

As the years passed and I worked hard on myself , I did grow empowered and motivated to finish old business . I know accept why on many levels how varied challenges hindered my progress , except for my faith . I think there are more than a few who grasp who I am . A male friend just stated how strong I am in a phone call .

I am grateful for the hands on my back and repel the hands that hold knives !

THE 6 POWERS OF A WOMAN

Your power as a woman goes beyond your body. It’s okay to have great curves! The ability to get a man chase you hard is power on its own. Having a hour glass (figure 😎 shape is an automatic magnet for lustful men and some can eat the very sand at your feet just to get in between your thigh. Getting a man pant after you is power but your power goes beyond sensuality, sex and seduction, they don’t last! We are talking about lasting power here!

You carry so much power that you are not aware of. This power can make you a success. It can make your man an outstanding success. Make you a voice to reckon with and cause great changes in the society.

1. YOU HAVE THE POWER OF WORDS

Words are powerful! They can make or break someone. No! They can shatter someone to a million pieces without repair! Women are known with verbal power! Either to make, mend, destroy or kill! It is in every woman! By words alone, Delilah brought Samson to his death! By words, Jezebel made her husband commit murder! By words, Esther the queen saved a whole nation! By words, Abigail saved her life from death and became the wife of a king! By words, Adichie Chimamanda Ngozie is promoting feminism in Africa and beyond! By words, Linda Ikeji amassed billions of Naira into her account! Whether written or verbal, your words carry power! With your words you can end up a global success, challenge your man to success and change the society for good! Maximize your tongue by using words to your advantage!

2. YOU HAVE BODY POWER!

Men are attracted to beautiful women. Use your feminine body to your advantage! Not by sleeping around for money/job/promotion, etc you lose power and control that way. The moment you give a man sex he is not entitled to through marriage, he loses respect for you and you lose power! Package for excellence!

Be irresistible, charming, appealing, comely and worth chasing then divert his attention from your body(clothed body please. I’m not asking you to go about naked/show him your boobs and curves. You get what I mean) to your mind, intellect, talents, potentials and vision. That is how to hold a man spell bound! That is how to make him stay glued. That is how to command respect and honour. That s what make some men chase certain women hard till they marry them and after marriage, support with all you’ve got till he becomes a phenomenal success. You have the brain, wisdom, power, intellect, money and God to help your man succeed, that power lies within you. Maximize it!

3. YOU HAVE BRAIN POWER!

Women are blessed with the power of imagination. What you can see, you can achieve! Women who go out to change the world always do so especially when you have divine backing! You can be the next Nigerian president, you can build orphanages, you can create women empowerment programmes, you can rescue juvenile delinquents, you can cause great changes in the society. You can feed the poor, you can end up a great philanthropist.

4. YOU HAVE THE POWER OF INFLUENCE

You can influence your man, children, neighbour, friends and family for good. The power is within you. Once your mind is made up to achieve a result, cause a great change or turn your man to an international stardom, you can! You can influence a whole community, nation or country! You can influence your customers/clients and attract more money into your account. The power of influence lies within you. Esther the queen influenced a whole nation to fast and pray till they obtained their freedom. You are a great influencer!

5. YOU HAVE MONEY POWER!

Because women are naturally endowed with relationship skills, it’s easier to win more customers/clients and swell your bank account beyond your imagination. You can make as much money as you want.

6. YOU HAVE GOD POWER

Women connect with God at a deeper level than men. Not all women though, but a good percentage of women draw strength deeply and powerfully from God than their male counterparts who like to go macho with everything to the point of self destruction! Maximize your God power! With deep, intimate relationship with Him, you will draw power to achieve the impossible and up a phenomenal success. A role model millions look up to round the world.

Every woman carry power. Maximize yours, unleash it and end up a celebrity!