Wives importance in settling Jamestown, Va

The Jamestown Company had a serious problem. Would-be settlers were abandoning the colony and returning to England. Why? Almost every colonist was a man. They might be willing to endure famine, disease, and warfare, but many of the colonists weren’t willing to do without a wife. And, of course, a colony without women wasn’t sustainable. So, the Company knew it had to do something to lure eligible brides to Jamestown.

To make the prospect of life on the Virginia frontier enticing, the Company devised a remarkable set of incentives. Women who agreed to come to Virginia to find a husband were provided free transportation, clothing, furniture, and a plot of land in their own name. They were also given property and inheritance rights that they wouldn’t have in England. Best of all they were allowed to choose their own husband (who was guaranteed to be wealthy). Each woman was courted by dozens of eager suitors, and the Company provided her with room and board while she weighed her options and made her choice.

A man lucky enough to win the wife sweepstakes was obligated to pay the Company 150 pounds of prime tobacco. A decade into its existence, the wife-supply business was the only part of the Jamestown Company’s operations that was profitable.

Fighter for love

I’ve fought all the wrong battles for all the wrong people who never really cared about me the way I deserved.

I kept fighting when they stopped, leaving me holding the pieces of my broken heart and wondering why I held on so long when they wouldn’t.

Because I’m a fighter and I always have been.

It’s in my blood, forged by the hard times that tried to take me down more than once..

But I had to learn the hard way who and what is worth fighting for and who will never stand beside me through the storms.

I want that one brave soul willing to hold my hand when things get hard, life gets tough and doesn’t leave.

The one that looks me in the eye and tells me they love me and then backs it up.

People have tried to tell me I expect too much, but I know what I’m worth and what I deserve..

And I’m never going to settle, lower my standards or be okay with less.

Call me feisty, stubborn and spirited and I’ll just smile and say “thank you.”

In my world,

When you fight for what you want, stand up for what you believe and stay true to yourself and your values, that means something.

So that’s what I’m going to do because that’s who I am.

So, if you’re standing before me asking me to let you love me, be sure you know what you’re getting into.

I’m a handful some days while I’m a mess on other days..but I’m always real.

I’m always genuine, strong willed and loyal..

And I expect the same in return.

No lukewarm passion, halfway love or weakness lives long in my world.

So, when the winds of challenge threaten to blow us apart- and they will- are you strong enough to stand up and fight?

Or will you give up and walk away?

Because one thing is for sure-

I believe in love and my heart is open, but I’m holding out for the one who will stand and fight for me, for us.

And I’m never going to accept anything less.

Are you strong enough to love me just the way I am?

Because I am and always will be.

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The promise of dawn

I will not rescue you,

for you are not powerless.

I will not fix you,

for you are not broken.

I will not heal you,

for I see you in your wholeness.

I will walk with you through the darkness as you remember your light.

– Sheree Bliss Tilsley,

A Medicine Woman’s Prayer

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Let someone love you , as you are

“Let someone love you just the way you are — as flawed as you might be, as unattractive as you sometimes feel, and as unaccomplished as you think you are. To believe that you must hide all the parts of you that are broken, out of fear that someone else is incapable of loving what is less than perfect, is to believe that sunlight is incapable of entering a broken window and illuminating a dark room.”

Marc Hack

Ramón Casas y Carbo – You’ll Have to Pass After my Body, 1893.

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Interviews with the 30/40 years olds years back, stated they would have

” beta marriages ” , and receive every 10 years , and separate if the relationship wasn’t doing well without a lot of legal interference.

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