Tag: relationships

Equally in ancient Egyptian culture between sexes

In ancient Egypt, women were honored and respected equally to men, unlike in many other cultures. They were revered as the mothers of all, givers of life and wisdom. Ancient Egyptians believed that achieving great knowledge, spirituality, and power allowed a man to symbolically wear a wig of long hair, signifying a level of attainment equal to that of a woman. This union was seen as harmonious, where the woman provided strength and protection to her partner. đŸŒŸđŸ‘©â€đŸŠ±

A saying that resonates to this day is: “Beside every successful man, there’s a strong woman to support him.” This reflects the enduring recognition of women’s crucial role in both ancient and modern societies. đŸ’ȘđŸ‘©

Loosing Them

Reality check: Losing them wasn’t a loss. It was a win. If they cheated, treated you like shit, consistently lied, or made you feel like you weren’t enough, be thankful they’re no longer in your life. For their departure marked the end of a toxic cycle, a liberation from the shackles of emotional abuse, and a reprieve from the constant heartache.

Remember, you didn’t lose a loved one; you gained a life free from the suffocating grip of their negativity. You broke free from the prison of their manipulation, and stepped into the sunlight of self-love and self-worth. Their absence is not a void, but a space waiting to be filled with positivity, growth, and authentic connections.

Don’t mourn the loss of someone who never deserved you; celebrate the victory of your own resilience and strength. You survived their darkness, and now you can thrive in the light of your own brilliance. Keep moving forward, and never look back at what was never meant to be. You are worthy of love, care, and respect – and now you have the chance to give it to yourself.đŸŒčđŸŒčđŸŒčđŸŒč

Don’t force it

DON’T FORCE IT

Don’t force him to do anything, don’t pressure him to give you a place in his life, don’t condition him so that he is thoughtful….

Don’t beg him for caresses, or a furtive kiss, or hold your hand, don’t make him give you explanations when something has you dissatisfied.

Don’t insinuate how much you would like him to surprise you with a rose, don’t show him that it hurts that he doesn’t tell you how beautiful you look…

Don’t tell him to treat you with tact and affection, that he saddens you when he stops talking to you, when he hangs up the phone, when he is not gentlemanly, or to dedicate songs, or romantic lyrics to you…

Don’t commit him to supporting you in your difficult times, in your sorrows or when you have a broken heart, don’t ask him for a hug, much less let him know what you need.

Don’t die to hear him tell you: I love you, I need you, when he is no longer born to do it,

Do you know why?…

-Because whoever loves you sincerely, will not take care of you telling him anything, or asking him, or reminding him of the special dates.

The right man, the man who is for you, your exclusive, of your time and your life, the one that destiny has brought you for an indefinite time, will do all that and more to see you and make you happy if he really feels for you something real, unique… and never, but never will ever make you humble yourself and step on your dignity waiting for a “I love you”.

Whoever is the right piece, will fit into your soul and will choose you every day to love you infinitely, he will procure you, he will respect you, you will not need to do something extraordinary, he will love you for the fact of being you, with all your virtues and all the mistakes.

Alone, do not despair, do not open the door to anyone without deserving it, there is that great love, which will come and heal every wound and every tear, to turn it into an excessive cry of happiness… there you will know and say…

It was worth the wait.

Not here to Rehabilitate anyone đŸ’Ż

That negates , the person you try to help from lessons and experiences

that heal and empower themselves and that’s major evolution .

One reason , I began to blog was because I’d reach this point of needing

my space , my peace , my continued healing journey and evolution .

YOU ARE NOT A REHABILITATION CENTER FOR A MAN WHO WAS POORLY RAISED.

It’s not your job to fix him, mold him, or teach him to act like a grown man.

You need a partner, not a project.

If he brings chaos, disrespect, or immature behavior, walk away.

His issues aren’t yours to solve.

If his own parents couldn’t raise him right, it’s unrealistic to think you can.

A real partner already has self respect, maturity, and responsibility.

You deserve peace and support, not a burden.

✍Chris Perry

🎹Vasily Treadiakovsky

Boy Lessons

16 Lessons Every Boy Should Learn

1. Women are not objects – Treat every female with respect, not as a possession.

2. Fists aren’t solutions – Violence never solves problems; communication does.

3. Happiness isn’t bought – True contentment doesn’t come from money or power.

4. Force isn’t manliness – Real strength comes from patience, not aggression.

5. Respect goes further – More than flowers or gifts, respect is what builds lasting relationships.

6. Trust your gut – Your instincts are powerful; listen to them, they’ll save you more often than not.

7. Never outgrow “Mom” – No matter your age, calling your mother “Mom” or “Mama” shows love. “You” is for friends.

8. Dress the part – Sometimes, neat clothes can be the difference between a “yes” or a “no.”

9. Success has many keys – Whether it’s in sports, art, music, or writing, each passion has its own door to unlock.

10. Choose role models wisely – Bright lights can blind you to red flags. Be careful who you admire.

11. Stay curious – Every corner holds a story; always be open to learning.

12. Earn it, don’t expect it – No one is entitled to what they want. You work hard for what you have and pray for what you need.

13. Kneel before God – When you know how to humble yourself before God, you’ll have the strength to stand up to anyone.

14. Own your choices – Your friends won’t be held responsible for your actions. Think before you act.

15. Choose humility over arrogance – Running with the popular crowd teaches arrogance; sitting with everyday people teaches humility, and humility will take you further.

16. Take God with you – Don’t go anywhere or do anything you wouldn’t want to invite your Heavenly Father to. He’s your ultimate protector.

Love ❀

“If you’re going to love, love like you mean it. Tell that person you care. Look them in the eyes. Kiss them with passion and a fearlessness that bubbles up from your chest. Don’t stress over what you have right now, and whether it will grow. Don’t be afraid of the way life is imperfect and fragile. Just love.

If you’re going to love, love like tomorrow won’t come. Like this next day, next hour, next second is all you have. Like the person standing in front of you is the best damn thing you’ve ever seen.

If you’re going to love, love like there’s no one else. Like you can’t get enough of their touch, their smile, their laughter mixing with yours. Love like you’ve never even considered a life without them.

If you’re going to love, love like you’ve never been hurt. Like you’ve never experienced the pain of a broken heart, or the dishonesty in someone’s voice. Like you’ve never watched a relationship fall apart, or two people who once had passion for one another fade into strangers.

If you’re going to love, love with a ferocity. Love like it’s all you’re meant to do, because in all honesty, what else is there? Give the person you care for your whole heart. Show them who you are beyond the layers. Get vulnerable. Get messy.

If you’re going to love, love with purpose. Love with all that you have, all that you are. Love, even when the world makes it difficult or says you should give up. Love through your actions, your words, your choices. Choose to love your person, no matter the ups and downs.

If you’re going to love—damn it, love with intention. Don’t half-love. Don’t ‘almost,’ or ‘kind of’ commit. Don’t waste time giving only portions of yourself so you both miss out on the real thing.

If you’re going to love, just do it.

Just love and love and love. And never stop.”

-Marisa Donnelly @_marisadonnelly

Art: Haranna Art

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