A GUIDELINE FOR IDENTIFYING THE EXPERIENCE OF PURE LOVE
Sometimes we may doubt what it is we are actually experiencing and feeling. Often, it’s a mix of many different emotions at the same time, which can leave us quite confused. Is it love? Is it fear? Is it both? A good guideline for identifying pure love is: “Only when you feel free and empowered is it pure love you are experiencing!”
Birgitte
goodconsciouslife.com
A Heavy Heart
You think she’s angry, but you don’t see,
The weight she carries silently.
It’s not the rage that fills her eyes,
But tiredness in a thin disguise.
She’s not furious, but worn and torn,
From dreams abandoned, hopes forlorn.
She’s tired, she’s weary, she’s feeling lost,
Paying life’s relentless cost.
She’s sinking deep in a sea of doubt,
Crying softly, without a shout.
Frustration builds, but not from hate
It’s the closed doors, the heavy weight.
She promised much, her dreams were bright,
But now she battles every night.
She wants to give, to rise, to shine,
But life’s harsh currents pull the line.
So when you see her weary stare,
Know it’s not anger, but despair.
She’s fighting hard to find her way,
Hoping tomorrow’s a kinder day. 🥀🌷
– Christina Stewart
Alienated parents often experience a painful dynamic where their children feel they have to “payback” for perceived shortcomings. This belief is instilled by the alienating parent, who paints (projects) a picture of the targeted parent as neglectful or selfish. The child, who has been led to believe these narratives, may come to expect constant compensation for the perceived wrongs.
In reality, the alienated parent has been prevented from giving their love and support. Their attempts to provide for and connect with their child have been limited or entirely blocked. Despite their genuine efforts and desire to be involved, the child has been conditioned to see these efforts as inadequate.
The alienated child often becomes complicit in this dynamic, unknowingly perpetuating the cycle of blame. They carry the belief that they have been short-changed by the targeted parent, even though the reality is that the alienated parent had so much more time and love to give. This disconnect creates a lasting sense of injustice and unresolved tension.
Understanding this dynamic can help alienated parents find some solace in knowing that the problem is not rooted in their actions but in the manipulative influence of the alienating parent. It isn’t easy to be blamed so mistakenly when we know our children truly have been shortchanged – against our wishes and at the instigation of the alienating parent – and we have to, despite all adversity, triggers, injustice, grief …, maintain our patience, empathy, and continued efforts to rebuild trust and connection with their children.
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When someone you’re into isn’t interested in you, the answer isn’t to play hard to get or ignore them. The real solution is to simply lose interest and move forward. It might seem like ignoring them and letting go are the same thing, but the key difference is in your mindset.
Ignoring someone often comes from a place of low self-worth, where you’re trying to play a game to make them want you. Letting go, on the other hand, comes from a place of self-respect knowing that if something or someone isn’t meant for you, that’s okay. You deserve better.
— yourrelationshipschool
🎨Felicia Cunningham
There’s a man out there who will tell you that she’s crazy, emotionally unstable, and aggressive.
There’s also a man who will say he’s never felt more appreciated and respected, that she has created the safest space for him, and that being around her makes him feel nurtured, cared for, and at peace.
Believe them both!
You get the woman you take care of, whatever you give her, she will reflect back to you.
If you show up in confusion, gaslighting her, or are indecisive, of course she’ll seem crazy! 💯
However, if you show up with clarity, know how to lead, and make this a safe space, you’ll see a totally different woman.
“Men Only Correct the Women They Love” – A Harsh Truth
Listen up, men. If you’re letting a woman spiral into chaos without stepping in, you don’t love her—you’re just playing along for your own convenience. Real love isn’t about passive acceptance; it’s about stepping up, holding her accountable, and guiding her toward becoming her best self. If you can’t do that, you’re either afraid or uninterested in her future.
A man who has no long-term plans for a woman will let her “do anyhow.” He’ll let her dress half-naked, smoke, drink recklessly, and act wild because he doesn’t care about her future—he’s just there for the short-term thrill. He’s not investing in her as a partner; he’s exploiting her. And the worst part? Many women prefer this. They mistake his silence for love, not realizing that a man who doesn’t correct them doesn’t respect them.
Contrast this with a man who truly loves a woman. He won’t sit back and let her ruin herself. He’ll tell her the hard truths, even if it stings. If she’s dressing inappropriately or engaging in self-destructive habits, he’ll confront her because he cares. He’s not controlling her—he’s protecting her. Real love involves discipline and correction because he sees her potential and wants to build a future together.
But here’s the problem: many women can’t handle being corrected. They’d rather soak in their emotions, complain to friends, and hear lies like, “You deserve better, babe.” They confuse guidance with control, rejecting the very men who care enough to hold them accountable. Meanwhile, they cling to men who let them do whatever they want—men who don’t care about their future. The cycle is predictable, and the outcome is always the same: regret.
Men, stop enabling chaos. If a woman rejects correction, she’s not worth your time. A woman who truly values you will respect your guidance, not resent it. Correction isn’t about control—it’s an act of love. If you love her, you want her to be the best version of herself. But if she can’t handle accountability, she’s not ready for a real relationship.
And women, understand this: a man who corrects you isn’t your enemy—he’s your ally. The man who stays silent doesn’t care about you; he’s just passing time. The one who calls you out is investing in your future. Don’t confuse his discipline with criticism. He’s building you up, not tearing you down.
The bottom line? Real love isn’t about letting someone “do whatever they want.” It’s about setting standards, holding each other accountable, and building a solid future together. If you’re not willing to correct the woman you’re with, you don’t truly love her. And if she can’t handle correction, she doesn’t love or respect you either.
Stay strong, stay sharp, and demand accountability in every relationship. A woman worth keeping will value your guidance and respect your leadership. Anything less is a waste of time.
Aklahyel Goni
10 SNEAKY WAYS People WILL USE TO MANIPULATE YOU.
1. LOVE BOMBING: flooding with affection to gain control.
2. GASLIGHTING: Making your doubt your reality.
3. SILENT TREATMENT: Ignoring you to make you feel guilty.
4. GUILT TRIPPING: Making you feel responsible for their emotions.
5. PLAYING THE VICTIM: Always being the one who is wronged.
6. FUTURE FAKING: Promising a future that never comes.
7. TRIANGULATION: Using others to make you jealous.
8. BLAME SHIFTING: Turning the table to make you the problem.
9. WITHHOLDING AFFECTION: Using love as a weapon.
10. MINIMIZING FEELINGS: Dismissing your reactions as over reacting.
Be mindful of manipulative people who paint themselves as victims, blame others, and refuse to take any accountability for their wrongdoing. Don’t buy into their stories. Showing sympathy for them plays into their hand..💜✨
Be advised to see deeper than what your eyes can see.
Blessed day!
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