Tag: relationships
Secrets of Narcissistic
When you’re in a relationship with a narcissist, there will always be another secret life going on behind your back.
This is because these people are very empty, and they need stimulation from multiple sources just to face existence. They’ll be doing drugs or pornography. They’ll be stringing multiple partners through flirting and emotional affairs. They will be chasing financial intrigue that occasionally gets them into scams and trouble.
The reason they must flirt with other people is also because they’re seeking to move on to other people who don’t know the games they play.
They know they’ll get bored with you eventually, or you’ll learn to resist their shenanigans. And since being alone would kill them, they begin to groom possible replacements among anyone whom they can charm.
You’ll also notice this habit of making promises to you and then using those promises as a dangling carrot to get compliance from you. If you don’t do what they want, they’ll withdraw the promise.
Sometimes, they’ll deny having promised at all, or they postpone it until you give up. The truth is that they never intended to fulfill it in the first place.
Narcissists have lost all sense of right and wrong.
Everything is about satisfying themselves.
When you finally leave, they’ll circle back to you, pretending to be checking on you when actually they’re checking if they still have access.
If you have a child with them, they would weaponise that child to torture you until you cut them off totally or you manage to enforce boundaries with the help of the law.
But the child will be scarred or wasted by the counter parenting and objectification from the narcissist.
Society knows very little about narcissists.
Sometimes, you stay because you fear the pain of letting go until you realize the pain you’re already taking for holding on.
Other times, you think you’re staying for the children until you realise that the narcissist is turning all of them into other small narcissists and broken empaths.
Your solution is to recognize that this person is incapable of peace. They’re only excellent at pretending and confusing you.
You will never have a life until you detach from them and direct your life towards wholeness and emotional stability 💜

There should be a test before marriage
Later in marriage when you hit parenthood, you’ll realize what you really wish for in your spouse is not big money or ‘six-pack’. A pretty face and a good bank account are nice to have but at the end of the day, there’s so much more you should be looking for.
At 3am when your child is crying, and your eyes are heavy and your body is weak for postpartum, it will not be how he looks or what he owns that will matter. It’ll be the compassion in his heart and the love for you in his soul that push him out of the bed to attend the child immediately and tell you,
“Go back to sleep, love. I got this.”
If I could tell the younger people what to consider in a companion, I would say marry the man who will be the best father for your children. The man who will put you and your little family first, above all else. The man who is as responsible as you are in raising family because you both are in it together. In short, marry the person who will set a standard for a spouse in your children.
Because in all of these, whenever you watch your partner with your child, you’ll find yourself falling in love all over again.
#TeamDanJesusRich

Children back talking
When a child backtalks, sometimes also referred to as mouthing-off or sassing, they are in the throes of a huge, internal maelstrom of emotion. Whatever they are reacting to in the moment, whether it’s being told ‘no’ about something or being asked to do or not do something, it is rarely those issues that are at the root of the problem. The moment at hand is just the tipping point causing a fissure in the child’s heart that lets out a bit of the steam inside. The real concern should be that there is, metaphorically, steam in the child’s heart to begin with.
It is at this point that parents have the opportunity to model self-control and self-regulation by controlling their own knee-jerk reaction to their child’s backtalk. Instead of meeting fire with fire, childish outburst with childish parental outburst, child’s tantrum with adult tantrum, parents can slow down, breathe through their own emotions, and then listen through the fiery storm of their child’s words to the hurt, fear, and anger behind the words.
In the same way that “a gentle answer turns away wrath,” a soft-voiced, “Let’s take a minute and calm down so we can work through this together, okay?” from a parent is a magical, healing balm that immediately begins to diffuse tough situations and creates an atmosphere in which connection and communication can bring effective, peaceful solutions not only to the issue at hand, but to the inner turmoil that prompted the outburst in the first place.
Meeting a child at their point of need when that need is expressed through meltdowns, yelling, disrespect, or defiance takes patience, self-control, and empathy on the part of a parent, which can be a huge growth experience for the parent if they, themselves, were not parented that way. But the impact of living those positive life skills in front of our children is immeasurable.
-L.R.Knost
Read more: http://www.littleheartsbooks.com/2013/07/08/backtalk-is-communicationlisten/
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Babies feel what their Mom’s feel
I definitely believe this and the anger and neglect present during our first pregnancy did adversely affect me , thus our baby .
I pray there is a healing for our child(ren) for each were subjected to at the least was a disinterested Dad .
Alot of people dont know this, but the baby feels everything the mother feels.
Every heart break, every smile, every single emotional thing. Even touch! When hugging the father and just taking that time to breath the baby can feel that love. That feeling of warmth and security. At 22 weeks the baby has started to learn voices and can tell which voice is peaceful to its mother and which voice hurts the mother. They have become aware of most sounds around them. By 26 weeks the baby can develop emotions for him or herself on feelings the mother feels. By 30 weeks the baby has picked who’s voice it is most favored towards. Needless to say, dont stress yourself. Cause your baby feels it all. ❤️💕
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Things Men notice about women
Transformation ❤️🤩🏆🌟
When a woman is consistently spoken to with softness and love, she transforms into a new version of herself—one that radiates abundance, confidence, and peace. The simple act of speaking to her kindly can rewire her nervous system, nurture her inner being, and awaken her feminine energy. This transformation, however, doesn’t happen overnight. It requires commitment, patience, and a deep understanding of the complex layers of her being.
For a man to consistently show up with this level of softness, it’s not an easy task. It demands immense hard work, not only in understanding her but also in confronting his own inner world. As men, we carry traumas, fears, anxieties, and insecurities from our childhood. These unresolved wounds can easily resurface in our relationships, triggered by seemingly small things. It’s important to recognize that these triggers are not the fault of the woman; they are opportunities for growth and healing.
When a man chooses to speak softly and love deeply, even in moments of conflict, he creates a safe space for a woman to heal. He becomes her sanctuary, a place where she can rest her soul. This, in turn, begins to heal generational wounds, not just for her but for their future children. The ripple effect of this love goes far beyond the present moment.
A woman who feels safe emotionally, mentally, and spiritually allows her feminine energy to blossom. She begins to trust her intuition, her creativity flows effortlessly, and she steps into her full potential. Her heart, once burdened by the weight of unspoken traumas, becomes lighter, and her joy becomes infectious. She doesn’t just exist; she thrives. And when she thrives, so does the relationship.
But this kind of healing partnership requires a man to be deeply introspective. He must be willing to examine his past, uncover the roots of his own pain, and take responsibility for his triggers. It’s not easy to admit that your reactions in the present are shaped by unhealed wounds from the past. However, this awareness is the first step toward change.
When a man begins his healing journey, he not only changes himself but also creates a ripple effect for the woman he loves. His presence becomes more grounded, his words more intentional, and his actions more aligned with love. She feels this shift, and it gives her the courage to let her walls down. Together, they begin to co-create a relationship that is rooted in trust, understanding, and deep emotional intimacy.
Supporting a woman’s healing also means learning to listen without judgment. She doesn’t need solutions all the time; sometimes, she just needs to be heard. In those moments of vulnerability, when she shares her fears and insecurities, a man’s calm and loving response can heal wounds she’s carried for years.
It’s also about consistency. It’s not enough to show softness on good days and withdraw it on hard days. The real work lies in showing up with love, even when the circumstances are challenging. This consistency helps a woman feel secure, and security is what allows her to rest and rejuvenate fully.
So dear man, when a woman feels loved and respected, she naturally becomes a magnet for abundance. Her energy shifts, her confidence grows, and her ability to attract positive experiences multiplies. This doesn’t just benefit her; it uplifts the man as well, creating a partnership where both individuals grow and flourish.
When a man takes on the responsibility of working through his own traumas to support a woman’s healing, he isn’t just healing her—he’s healing himself, their relationship, and the generations to come. This journey is far from easy, but it’s one of the most rewarding paths a man can walk. True love isn’t about perfection; it’s about growth, healing, and walking the path of transformation together.
– Abhikesh
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Justifying mistreatment/ Narcissism
A narcissist or toxic person will find every excuse in the book to justify their mistreatment or abuse.
They believe that because they “feel” a certain way about you, were “told” something about you, “heard” something about you, or “think” something negative about you, they are entitled to:
• Disrespect you
• Devalue you
• Bully you
• Try to control you
• Treat you badly
• Take their anger out on you
They will always blame their actions and behaviors on you or someone else. They rarely apologize to those they hurt—unless it benefits them or gets them something they want.
Your worth is not defined by their projections. Refuse to be a part of their cycle and take back your power.
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White Hats – Parental Alienation/ Charlie McCarthy
Amid gross injustice, misunderstanding, lack of support, enormous grief, and obstructed contact and communication because of a vengeful, selfish, alienating ex (and/or others), the ‘target’ rejected parent still strives towards an end to the conflict even though they’re often left with no option but to ‘fight’ in court, while valiantly trying to rebuild their connection to their much loved and missed children. These are the ones who demonstrate a genuine concern for their child’s well-being and do what they can to maintain a loving and supportive relationship, despite every effort of the alienating parent to sabotage things.’Target’ parents act with integrity and prioritise their child’s emotional needs over personal grievances, representing the epitome of selflessness and unconditional love.
We are talking about heroes.
‘White hats’ typically refers to high-level government officials or insiders who, it’s believed, are working to expose corruption in the deep state, to dismantle a global conspiracy of corruption on every level, and disordered state control and crimes against humanity. Whatever your take on this, I’m likening alienating parents to white hats here for the sake of an analogy which you know I’m partial to when writing these posts. When will people see the blatant lies and false narratives of the alienating parent? When will people know it is the target, rejected parent who stands for truth, authenticity, and love? And that the apparently loving, protective one who has positioned themselves as all powerful and the only parent needed is actually doing so much more harm than good, despite appearances.
It could be seen as a battle between good and evil, ‘white hats’ and ‘villains’ on the world stage and at home, the ‘target’ parents and alienators.
I believe love is mightier than hate. I believe ‘parental alienation’ – despite being called a pseudo-science by some, and despite us having to use terms such as ‘target’ and even ‘parental alienation’ – will one day (soon let’s hope) be widely recognised as psychological abuse, with informed and trained legal and mental health professionals donning ‘white hats’ and stepping into their role as heroes supporting and taking action to combat abuse alongside the parent heroes, like you.
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