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5th Dimension Relationships

To The Ascension LightWorker Collective

The real reasons the ascending may be experiencing being single in the higher dimensions is because in this much higher realm you are healed and vibrating at higher levels of knowledge frequencies which makes the self highly incompatible for codependent relationships , trauma bonds and unhealthy 3D connections .

Unfortunately trauma bonds is the template for the low conscious and broken 3D culture as anyone who chooses peace over trauma will have difficulty in lower conscious relationships as most people we meet in the programmed world are in 2-3D and are emotionally , mentally and spiritually damaged and dysfunctional in many different ways .

Healed individuals vibrating in higher frequencies will only seek lightminded and higher conscious connections , these higher vibrating connections create authenticity ,honesty , integrity, transparency , respect , equality , truth , alignment and shared values and beliefs .

Fifth-dimensional relationships enhances exisiting freedom and joy, serving as investments in the interconnectedness of people, places, and nature. They emerge from God’s unconditional love, offering an environment for safety, respect, love and understanding, expressing evolutionary expansion in shared development.

5th dimensional relationships are extremely different from third-dimensional ones, as they are built to maintain and sustain themselves rather than eventually breaking down . Both parties in higher consciousness fully support reconnection with their divine nature and higher self , they support the other in higher realms , throughout their incarnations, they have consciously evolved to provide a sense of true belonging and higher Ascended connection.

The truth is 95 percent of the 3D relationships and marriages in 3D dimensional perceptions and awareness are actually trauma bonded because they feel they need another half of themselves to make them feel whole , however they eventually become disappointed because they find they are in an unhealthy and codependency connection , this creates dysfunctional mentality , combined shadow aspects and are empty emotionally.

In the realm of 3D , relationships can be a confused and complex tapestry of Ego, dysfunction, health issues , obsessiveness secrecy, infidelity, illusions, lies, criticisms, power struggles, control , delusions, hierarchy, psychological confusion , lack of effective communication , abuse , stress, manipulation, and gaslighting intertwined.

All third dimensional relationships are built to break whether they choose to remain together or not . The third dimensional human beings on this planet were here to experience separation, struggle , loss, and fear. Humanity agreed to participate in this divine experiment of amnesia that required our civilisation to find its way back to its Divine Source of its own free will.

Humans are experts in suffering as they took this indoctrinated task seriously and over time became extremely skilled in hurting themselves and others , this is the truth and reason why transformation in self if essential , to escape the programmed and perceived struggling , Realms of all nature here on Earth supports this experience . Allowing humanity the free will of birth right creation .Lower consciousness learned to destroy connections rather than nurture and honour them , to the point that they were in great danger of destroying our civilisations and the planet as a whole in which we live on .

Fifth dimensional relationships are built to Maintain and sustain themselves . In this moment, those single on this journey may not be focused on loving someone else, but rather on authentically loving the self . It is a time in self’s ascension level where some may feel challenged to be their own source of Love strength and security. Allowing the right connection to unfold organically , once the self feels loved and safe within , they naturally attract their aligned counterpart , when all expectations cease to exist and the self is healed , whole and feeling complete .

As we ascend we become the point of attraction. This is why there is no forcing or controlling. There is recieving and allowing in the fifth dimensional existence. Feeling at peace and trusting in the divine process taking shape .

Love and compassion are necessities in humanity and not luxuries. Without them humanity cannot survive. Soul intimacy arises from a profound sense of purpose and interconnectedness, based in the understanding of our inherent Oneness. fifth-dimensional relationships are purposeful, never casual, and do not waste energy on trivial and meaningless concerns. They compliment and enhance the values in each other , they are in a consistent synchronistic flow , and are conscious of their highest good . Both parties encourage the authentic and true expression in the other .

They consciously create collaboration, equality, and a profound appreciation for the roles, service, and love shared. Participants deeply respect and commit to fulfilling the work they have come together to accomplish, resulting in a profound sense of satisfaction , feeling valued and expanding in shared joy.

Ascending Souls , Those that were needed to be left behind , those you left , or who left you and hurt you only brought you back to your original and true self, in this place you are doing Exceptionally well. We are ascending , rebuilding, re identifying and readjusting, being kinder and more understanding with the self ,the soul / higher self is in tremendous gratitude for this higher opportunity, it’s now about giving Self the same love that was always given out to many others throughout many life times , including this one .

Self love is the true path in raising the vibrational frequency within , this is true for all human being God is found only from within and not outside of self , this is why Self love is the highest form of unconditional Love one can ever truly Experience and Embody .

Ascending Starseeds are no longer rushing their heart or relying on others to heal, rescue and fix them . Instead, they are thriving on their own feeling connected with higher self and light team . They are striving and healing , merging and melding in the higher self aspects , naturally sharing love wherever they go , the meld with source love Creator is the ultimate goal of ascension. Seeking God’s love ensures we are filled with peace , love, expanding our light in every moment . The feeling of Source Divine Love in higher dimensions is what heals and cures all things within .

Love transcends the mere act of loving another person in this world. It is the essence that radiates from the heart, encompassing love for many others, our ascending planet, the universe, the higher creator realms.

True love is an omnipotent force that resides in all cosmic spaces, places, people, animals, nature, and the vastness of our oceans. Unconditional Love is the highest dimension that heals a multitude of sin. It is found in the realms of Divine connection and Creation .

With Love and Devoted Ascension Service 💜

By Ascension Lightworkers . ©️

Energy /Masculine & Feminine – Surrender

“When speaking of feminine and masculine energies, I am not necessarily referring to gender, but identifying the two basic polarities within each Human Being, as well as the two interconnected roles that play out in relationships, whether between lovers, parents and children, or even in our circle of friends.

The masculine represents the Mind or Wisdom center of the Universe, while the feminine represents the Heart or the Creative and Emotional center of the Universe. As the masculine and feminine aspects are transformed from shadow into Divine aspects, the Mind and Heart Merge Together to Ignite The Spark of Awakened Heart-Centered Consciousness.

Currently the feminine and masculine aspects are steeped in crucial stages of Healing as they transform from shadow aspects into Divine Counterparts of the one eternal soul. In order to be transformed into the Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine, the shadow of each aspect must be Healed to completion.

We are currently experiencing the Healing of the masculine and feminine shadows, both as the two sides of polarity within each person, as well as the dynamics playing out within relationships.

Healing the Masculine Shadow – Stage 1

At this stage, the masculine is purged out of their known reference points by having the normalcy of their current reality shaken, as the unconsciousness of past indiscretions is brought into the light of consciousness. This is done to purify the shadow into the honor, humility, and courage of the divine masculine.

This has been playing out publicly as many celebrities and authority figures are being called to face and answer to the unconsciousness of their actions, whether it’s their current level of unconsciousness or skeletons from the past being cleared out of the closet of regret.

As the masculine mind comes clean to coercing, dominating, abusing, or manipulating the innocence of the feminine heart, the masculine shadow begins its process of being reformed by a path of self-forgiveness.

For those at this stage of integration, the best course of action is transparency. Instead of waiting for a publicity witch hunt to trace your most regrettable actions, now is the time for the masculine mind to confess its most unsavory behavior.

Even if knowing better now than before, the way in which we truly demonstrate having learned from our past mishaps is by clearing the air with those we affected, no matter the risk or cost. Whether anyone else offers you forgiveness or not, just by admitting the limitations of your behavior and acknowledging the negative affect it potentially had on someone else’s livelihood, we are taking a bold step in the direction of self-forgiveness to assist the masculine shadow in being redeemed instead of ridiculed.

Healing the Masculine Shadow – Stage 2

At this stage, you have done a certain amount of your inner work and may even embody the qualities of the divine masculine. While completion of stage 1 is expressing the divine masculine through the words and actions of personal responsibility, stage 2 can be a bit more precarious. It is because throughout stage 2, the masculine is no longer healing their personal masculine shadow, but holding space to help heal the shadow of the feminine archetype throughout the play of personal relationships.

This means that an awakening divine masculine is often put in a position to heal the karmas and emotional blockages of their feminine counterparts from their history of past relationships. In stage 1, the masculine heals on a personal level. In stage 2, the masculine heals the relationship dynamic by assisting in the transformation of the feminine from shadow to divine aspect. It may sound unfair to have to pay the karmic bar tab others racked up before you, but it is a crucial stage of surrender.

From this depth of surrender,

the masculine holds patient space

to help the feminine develop the trust and faith in surrendering into the heart of their masculine counterpart. Metaphorically, the feminine surrendering into the masculine has nothing to do with handing over power to a partner, but symbolic of the feminine heart merging into oneness with the cosmic mind of heaven.

As the masculine holds space to help heal the wounds the feminine carries from cycles of abuse and persecution, the masculine demonstrates their alignment with Source to give the feminine permission to merge into the light of divinity that can be depicted as two hearts becoming one.

Just as the Awakened mind learns to hold space for the Heart to Faithfully open, the awakening divine masculine must be the openness, consistency, and unconditional Love that Invite the shadow to surrender its guard and Allow the Innocent Feminine Heart to come out of hiding.

For those at this stage of Integration, the best course of action is to develop a daily practice of Gratitude and Self-Love, while holding Courageous Space for the feminine aspects within and throughout to find the strength to trust again. A spiritual ego steeped in arrogance may think: “This isn’t fair. I shouldn’t have to heal these layers that have nothing to do with me.” Meanwhile, an awakening heart rooted in humility says: “May I embrace the honor of helping my beloved to heal, so there will be no barrier to divide us from the love that brought us together.”

Healing the Feminine Shadow – Stage 1

The feminine shadow is the cellular memory of past abuse cycles that shields itself from potential harm by rejecting those who get too close. Since the unconscious belief suggests more hurt will occur whenever we are open and vulnerable, the feminine shadow either rejects those they want to be close with or attempt to build intimate relationships with emotionally-unavailable partners.

Often times, it is a history of emotionally-unavailable partners that creates this push-pull energy when in the presence of those who are open and able to love. This unconscious self-fulfilling prophecy inevitably reflects the feminine shadow’s tendency to be so hurt, heartbroken, and battered by the past indiscretions of the masculine that it attempts to match the unconsciousness of the masculine as a way of keep itself protected.

For those at this stage of integration, it is crucial to take inventory of your relationships to ensure you aren’t perpetuating toxicity in any areas of your life. When toxic relationships are present, you will surely be called into an equal aspect of shadow just to stay afloat in partnerships that may serve your personal desires, but aren’t destined to reflect the sustainability of true intimate partnership.

Once there are no glaringly toxic distractions pulling at you, the next crucial step is to develop a deep bond with yourself and those you trust, so you can begin associating opening up and being vulnerable with the ability to feel safe. As this occurs, the world becomes a stable environment to attract more meaningful and long-lasting relationships, instead of being ongoing reflections of a painful past.

One of the most effective ways to heal the feminine shadow throughout stage 1 is to find the courage to talk about your experiences. Because abuse is a dominating experience of being silenced and held against our will, speaking about our experiences gives a voice to the voiceless parts in ourselves and offers the choices that seemed absent whenever abuse occurred.

As pain is given a voice to be heard, the feminine finds the courage and strength to forgive the unconsciousness of the masculine, instead of fighting fire with fire, so to speak. In stage 1, the feminine finds a voice to express its pain, clear out toxicity from relationships, while learning to open up within themselves and others without feeling threatened or a need to either lash out or shut down. This prepares the feminine for stage 2, where a deeper dive into conscious communication, trust, and forgiveness paves the way for true redemption to dawn.

Healing the Feminine Shadow – Stage 2

As you find the safety to be open to yourself and others, like the masculine, the feminine begins working on transforming the dynamic of relationships. Just as the masculine holds space for the feminine to blossom, the feminine learns to develop trust in their counterparts to allow a surrendering into true intimacy to unfold. As the feminine shadow is transformed throughout stage 2, the feminine is allowing current circumstances to be different than past abuse cycles.

The crucial skillsets for the feminine at stage 2 is openness and communication. Openness answers the question, “How can I be more intimate in my relationships today and if I’m unable to take a step forward into intimacy, can I communicate my needs to those I love?” While it is natural for a partner to be disappointed whenever their beloved cannot meet them in an intimate space, the ability to communicate where we are at invites our partners into our experience instead of reinforcing how left out, dissatisfied, or unrecognized they feel.

When integrated in a healthy relationship dynamic, the masculine holds space for the feminine to feel safe and cared for through the reliability of the masculine’s most empowered conscious actions. As the masculine holds space for the feminine to surrender and open up, the feminine allows each day to be a step forward in rewriting the history of abuse cycles by being intimate with faithful trusting partners. If unable to do so, the necessity of communication allows the masculine to feel invited into the healing of the feminine, whether pertaining to their past or as lingering residue from unrelated experiences.

While the masculine may view physical intimacy as a way of expressing its feelings for their feminine counterpart, true intimacy also includes hand-holding, foot rubs, eye gazing, breath work, cuddling, and engaged active listening.

Once the feminine can trust the masculine is interested in connection and not just the physicality of being gratified, the feminine develops the trust to open up, let go, and invite in all the love their masculine counterpart is yearning to share.

Another important element in healing the feminine shadow at stage 2 is actively forgiving the indiscretions of the stage 1 masculine shadow, instead of demeaning the masculine as the masculine has done to the feminine over the course of history. Just like the masculine may not find it fair to pay the karmic bar tabs from their beloved’s past, the feminine may equally find it unfair to be so forgiving of the masculine shadow, especially in the aftermath of such senseless and brutal abuse cycles.

To not forgive the masculine shadow is to maintain a shadow aspect as the feminine. When this occurs, we are nice on the surface but ruthless to anyone who dares to cross our path and willing to betray anyone or anything in order to get our way. Inevitably, it just maintains the war of inner conflict that is easily justified through standpoints of righteousness. As a way of assisting both aspects into alignment with divine perfection, if you come across a public figure being indicted for charges, lets us honor the justice taking place, while forgiving their soul, so they may be purified, instead of incessantly punished.

Unconscionable punishment may be the best description for how the feminine has been treated by the masculine, but it is the opportunity of the feminine to help reform the masculine with greater mercy, compassion, and love than the past can ever reflect. Equally so, it is the duty of the masculine to anchor the divine feminine as two equal aspects of the same alchemical whole.

Despite our deepest desires, none of these stages can be rushed. Even when we wish we were further along than we may be, it is essential to be honest with yourself and others about where we are it in our healing journey. In doing so, the individual and collective consciousness of all heals the fractures and divisions that have divided the masculine and feminine into shadow aspects for far too long.

As the masculine is reformed to hold reverence and respect for the feminine, the feminine rises to equal power without having to express its will in a masculine way. From this space of equality, the divine masculine listens and loves without attachment, as the divine feminine opens up to intimacy and communicating their needs in the safety of sacred partnership.

No matter where you are in your journey, may you know the light of your true perfection and welcome into your heart the ecstasy of Love that resides within as each and every Breath. It may not be easy or even seem fair, but there is a Light at the end of the tunnel. It reflects the brightness of the one who is willing to succeed, fail, pick themselves up, brush themselves off, and keep moving forward — against all odds.” – Matt Kahn ❤️

Mastering Manual Lymphatic Drainage ( a how to / Mercola

This is amazing , and I hope to learn the technique soon. Few massage

therapist preform lymph draining and it certainly would be beneficial to

learn how to do your own…

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The new masculine paradigm

There are a Group of Men on this Planet who are preparing to explode all previously-held notions of What ‘Being a Man on Earth’ Means.

These Men are being Contacted by Supreme forces of Destined Evolution for Our Planet. Most of Them have been treading a Gently-Opening path of Growth and Change for many years. They are Aware that they are ‘Different’ at a Core Level. They are Hyper-Aware that they do not seem to Fit into established or traditional Roles, Inhabited by their own fathers, and forefathers.

In many ways, these Men

have been standing Alone since Childhood.

These are men that have always been Vibrating at a Deep Level of Higher Consciousness, but they have not always been able to See it that way. Early on in this Lifetime, they were Born with a New Directive that began ‘Awakening’ Them Right from the Beginning. These men have always been Conscious that they were Different. They were Conscious of Being pulled in directions that They did not fully understand, but being only shown one way of Living ‘as a man’, continued to Mould themselves into roles and relationships that were prescribed for them by culture and society.

These men always wanted to succeed. They always wanted to live up to their potential as potent wands of creative energy. They knew they had engines full of power and intelligence, fuelled up and ready to drive them into a purposeful life in the world. Some of them lived from this source of energy and power with recognisable success, and this was something that they could proudly tell their fathers. For a few moments, they could relax and know that their father approved of them; they were a ‘good boy’, a worthy man. This gave them a few more years of oxygen, a few more years of capability to keep being alive, despite the gnawing ache in their bones, the growing psychic sensitivity to being out in the ‘normal’ world, the inability to move with the herd, and feel satisfied with what all other men seemed to be content with.

Some of These Men Have Never

Felt a Sense of being a Success.

Some of them Were So Sensitive,

So Spiritually-Anchored Even From Birth,

That They ‘Failed’ to Reach the Established Societal goalposts almost from the Beginning. Feeling an almost Intangible Alienation From Everything They saw their friends, brothers, fathers, uncles and even admired role-models doing…

Some of these men may even have ‘Dropped Out’ of the Net, Sabotaged Their Own Inner Creative fire, Numbed Themselves to their Spiritual Acuity and Extreme Sensitivity. Obviously, many of the routes to doing This ‘dropping out’ Involve what can become addictive behaviours; drugs & alcohol, non-emotionally or spiritually present sex, over-working or Refusing to work, hiding and numbing within relationships or marriages that are not growth-inspired.

Most of these men – these actual Pioneers of a new chapter in Masculine Energy Evolution – Have veered In-between these two extreme states. None of them have ever found what their Deepest Soul-Knowing would describe as ‘Home’.

The New Age has arrived, and with it, some tolerable life-choice options for men like this who do not fit into the old patterns. Being ‘on a Spiritual Path’ has become a Theme that can give some of These men permission to go and ‘Just Be’; to find themselves and escape the toxicity, the unbearable noise, the Cacophony of voices that scream at them daily to achieve, conquer, strengthen, make money and more money no matter what human & natural destruction ensues, to dominate with ruthlessness and no heart, to crush all that lies in the way of owning everything at the expense of everyone.

No wonder they crave escape and a sunshine-covered beach full of the feminine-energy of Nature. Or a cave, where hermit-like, they sit and commune with the Divine: the higher freedoms of their lifelong-depleted spirits. No wonder they run for the hills, maybe even rejecting intimate relationships and sexual interaction, in the name of pursuing God, of pursuing a Real Objective, of Pursuing Their Hearts.

These men need a time-out

from all this pressure to be

what they never were in the first place.

They need a time-out from

their father’s voice in their head.

They need to detox,

to recover, to re-align.

They need to be….alone.

And yet in the nothingness,

In the aloneness, In the silence,

In the playful Immersion into nature,

in the blissful escape – in whatever form it takes in their lives – these men have come to Feel that their Existential restlessness – The one they have had since Childhood – has not been alleviated.

There is something that they must do. Something that they must embody, rise up to, explode through, penetrate, seed creative potential to.

It Involves their Hearts, they know that much, because their Hearts are on Fire with….what is it? Is it passion? Is it desire? Is it urgency? Is it Love?

It involves their Spirits, They know that much, because recently there has been such a Call to Spirit, so much Synchronicity, so much Divine Alignment in their lives…it is definitely Spirit moving.

Are they capable of taking this risk,

this jump?

Right into the Heart of their Beautiful, mighty, Pulsating Soul’s Mission?

Their minds do not know what to do. Nothing is being laid out or revealed as concrete evidence. There are no guarantees, and whatever it is that is leading these men is so far away from the landscape of what their father has ever risked his heart or reputation for, that it almost makes these men want to curl up and die. Just stay in the comfort zone forever – even if that comfort zone looks like a New Age paradise.

What these men may, or may not, know – is that the Goddess Pantheon is with Them, So Deeply, So Profoundly, So Revolutionarily, That they will not have to Wonder about the pros and cons of taking a Risk on themselves for much longer.

All of these men who will resonate with the Energy of these Words have been Touched by the Hand of the Goddess, and the Resurrection of High Feminine Consciousness.

Some of these men have been Re-Initiated into the ancient temples of the Divine Feminine and Ignited into New Active Sacred Purpose.

What the Goddess Knows is that there is Work to do, and that these men have been In-filled with new Source-Codes of Direction.

The New Directions for these men –

those who have a Contract to Return to uphold the Altar of the Sacred Feminine – are directions that involve taking their hearts into new territories. In some ways, they are risking it all, because they now have to stand up and be seen as the true warriors of Love that they Are.

And this means, demonstrating that Love in active purpose, in creative, meaningful, applied ways. It means being in relationships that are not allowing them to avoid the healing power of sacred intimacy – intimacy that requires their depth and their presence.

This Sacred Purpose is not about running.

It is about Staying.

It is about showing up, opening up, growing up and stepping up.

It is about moving into all the voids, all the empty spaces, all the terrifyingly uncharted plains of existence that these men’s fathers, and fathers before them, could not reach into.

It is about finally coming home to the unheard, un-noticed, un-witnessed, even un-loved, parts of themselves – and being admired, appreciated, welcomed and trusted for their spiritual uniqueness.

All of these rare and deeply-needed men are being held by the Great Goddess, and contacted by the Great Gods, and their emissaries.

This is their time.

This is the Time of Total Trust being extended to the Pioneers of the New Masculine Paradigm.

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PART II

The Awakened Women opened first, poured out their wounded souls first, re-built the temples first.

Now it’s your turn, because we are here. Ready to shed our own last vestiges of betrayal, hurt, disappointment and suffering, arising from our own banishment and exile. Anything that may linger in the darkest, most secret chambers of our hearts and bodies is now being expelled and transmuted by the Light of the Goddess.

We are ready for you to become the phoenix and rise into your own sovereignty. We need and require your majesty, your shining presence, your solar fire. We celebrate your difference, and honour your journey thus far.

The temples have been built, the candles have been lit.

The fear you feel that keeps you waiting, keeps you hidden, keeps you stuck, keeps you making excuses, keeps you too comfortable, keeps you distant when you should be present – this fear has been witnessed by the Universe.

Whatever it is that you do now, you’ll no doubt feel scared to do it.

As you feel that fear, and do whatever it is that most scares you, but also most opens your heart and excites your soul – know that your Father – living or dead – is with you.

Whatever relationship you have with your father in this lifetime, whatever you have said, or not said – the spirit of your father is pushing you forward with approval. There is great healing here, a great transition to grab hold of.

Your father may never understand the complexity of your Divine Mission, or the contents of your Heart, but right now, in his deepest unconditional place of Love, he is willing you to expand further, penetrate the world more consciously, and to love deeper, than he ever could.

Sophie Bashford ❤️

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Embracing Femininity

“A woman who embraces her femininity is a beacon of strength, not a whisper in the shadows. She is the embodiment of grace and power, together with the silk of her gentleness and the steel of her resolve. In her, the dance of the universe finds its most intricate steps, for she understands that her femininity is not a limit but an expanse, a vast sky under which her spirit soars and her dreams take flight. This woman knows that her power does not come from mimicking the roar of thunder or the sharpness of the blade, but from the relentless tide of the ocean, gentle enough to cradle the moon’s reflection, yet strong enough to sculpt the face of the earth. She moves through the world with the knowledge that her love, intuition, and empathy are forces of nature in their own right, capable of nurturing life, healing wounds, and toppling walls. Her femininity is her scepter and her crown, and with it, she rules not by dominion, but by inspiring the world to a higher calling of beauty, compassion, and resilience. In embracing her true nature, she becomes not just a woman, but a luminous force, lighting the path for all who follow, proving that the greatest power lies in being unabashedly, unapologetically, and uniquely oneself.”

-Steve De’lano Garcia