I realized in my healing journey that my parents had no idea how to raise children properly . Both had harsh childhoods with life lessons that did not include healing , balanced , guiding healthy children.
I have tempered this with in myself and reparented myself properly , however siblings have not , or in the process . I’m not involved in their efforts and hold faith for each of them 💯🙏
I wasn’t able to discuss things with Mom before she exited ; and that bothered me for decades .
I did with Dad however have time with Dad who opened his heart ❤️, and he was full of regret .
Grandchild are beautiful gifts for my grandmother spirit ,

