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No sloppy 2nds
“What you allow is what will continue.”
I find this quote to be so powerful. Whether you realize it or not, you have control over how others treat you and what behaviors you tolerate. When someone mistreats you, you must reject that behavior.
But, how do you set boundaries with someone who enjoys trampling boundaries and being extra about it?
It can look like the following examples:
1 – Instead of joining them in their drama, refuse to engage. When they say something to push your buttons, exit the room or leave the house completely. Don’t keep buying tickets to their circus.
2 – If they continue to be unfaithful, find ways to save money so you can work on your exit plan. If you depend on them financially, visit a local organization for domestic violence or social services and find out what they offer. Find ways to depend on yourself, even if it takes a while – this might include applying for financial assistance until you can get on your feet.
3 – Stop falling for their hoovers. You can’t heal or move forward while you’re falling for hoovers. It helps to realize that they haven’t changed or started to regret their choices while they’ve been apart from you. They’ve been doing all the things that caused a breakup in the first place…but they’ll certainly be good at lying about it.
4 – If they’ve been unfaithful, stop being intimate with them. Not only does it give them the impression that you somehow tolerate this betrayal, but you put yourself at risk of contracting something from them – not to mention the muddy energies you take on from all their affair partners.
5 – Believe them when they show you who they are. Don’t fall for fake remorse or give into the fantasy that they’re the love of your life. True love doesn’t hurt…and it doesn’t repeatedly lie or cheat.
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Cross God , Abuse Another & God returns it to ya
I’d like you opinion on this one please
The Fatherless Epidemic
A Dad can be in the home and not be of it , not take part in deep ways necessary . He can be masking , projecting and destroying the Mom in thousands of little ways that create a distorted perception of Morher instead of loving compassionate kiddo as to have Allie’s with his own kids
He can desire to power up , control everything and he can not be interested in being a Dad
3 Religions uniting in Israel
Dr Kellog – MD who developed corn flakes for sexual suppression
Narcissist will warn everyone about you
Very true. Trying to destroy me has no limits , no boundaries across the board ; the Great Projectionist. Worse still is the ” virgin” perfectionist who is far from perfect
People die how they lived : Narcissist are worse at dying- it all comes out
Fear of death seemed to motivate him and others I’ve known who are separated from Christ Consciousness
Very sad but it’s their journey
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