Tag: Women

Women knowing their worth

A truly feminine woman isn’t seduced by status or wealth alone. She may admire success, but it is not what awakens her soul. What draws her in is a man’s depth, the sacred stillness in his presence, and the way he embodies truth.

She does not seek a man who merely shines in the world—she yearns for a man whose soul radiates light. She is not impressed by what he has; she is moved by who he is at his core, by the divinity he carries within him.

She surrenders to a man’s presence, to his ability to hold space for her heart and body.

When a man embodies grounded, masculine energy, she feels it in her bones. She recognizes it not through words, but through the way he moves, the way he listens, and the depth of his stillness. His presence isn’t loud, yet it commands attention. He doesn’t seek validation because he is secure in who he is.

A woman in her feminine essence does not crave a man who merely provides; she longs for a man who protects—not just with his hands, but with his soul. His leadership isn’t about control, but about creating a space where she feels safe enough to soften. Her surrender isn’t submission; it’s trust. And trust is something he earns, not something he demands.

She does not fall for a man who chases power. Instead, she is drawn to a man who is power—power that is quiet yet undeniable, power that nurtures, power that understands its responsibility. A man who holds himself with integrity, whose actions align with his words, becomes irresistible to a woman who has embraced her own depth.

She doesn’t want empty promises; she craves consistency. She doesn’t need extravagant gestures; she seeks presence. The way he holds her gaze, the way he stands firm in the storm of life, the way he honors her emotions without being consumed by them—these are the things that make her heart lean toward him.

A feminine woman thrives when she is cherished, not controlled. She flourishes in the presence of a man who understands that her emotions are not weaknesses but expressions of her heart’s depth. She needs a man who doesn’t fear her waves but learns how to stand steady amidst them.

When she feels truly seen, she opens like a flower. Her laughter becomes lighter, her touch more tender, her love deeper. She no longer needs to guard herself, because she knows she is with a man who sees her, not just desires her. And when she is seen, she loves without restraint.

A masculine man does not take her freedom; he nurtures it. He does not expect her to shrink to make him feel stronger; he rises so that she can rise too. His strength is not about dominance but about devotion. His masculinity is not about authority but about unwavering presence.

A woman in her divine feminine essence is not impressed by the temporary. She moves toward what is eternal—truth, love, depth. And only a man who has met himself, who has walked through his own fire, who has conquered his own shadows, can truly stand beside her.

Because a woman who knows her worth will never settle for anything less than a man who is fully there.

– Abhikesh

Art: Reddit

Poor Partner ? Good Father Myth

If a man believes he can protect his children while hurting his woman, he is deeply mistaken. What you give to your woman—whether love, respect, or pain—is what she will pass on to your children. This is an undeniable truth of life, one you cannot escape. A woman is the emotional and spiritual foundation of a home, and her well-being influences the emotional climate of the entire family.

When a man nurtures and supports his woman, he creates an environment where love and safety thrive. This love flows through her and reaches the children. A woman who feels cherished and respected will radiate warmth and stability. Her sense of peace will naturally create a secure world for her children to grow and flourish in.

On the other hand, when a man chooses to hurt or neglect his woman, he disrupts the harmony of the home. Her pain doesn’t stay confined within her; it becomes a silent burden that shapes the atmosphere of the household. Children growing up in a space filled with tension and emotional distress often internalize those struggles, carrying them into their own lives.

It is essential for a man to recognize that his relationship with his woman sets the foundation for his children’s emotional development. If he provides her with love and security, his children will learn the importance of healthy relationships and emotional intelligence. If he chooses to cause her harm, he risks teaching his children to repeat the same patterns of dysfunction.

A woman’s role in a family is unique. She is often the heart of the home, and her energy influences the rhythm of daily life. When a man honors this role and treats her with care, he empowers her to fulfill it wholeheartedly. This empowerment doesn’t just benefit her—it shapes the emotional well-being of their children for generations.

A man cannot claim to be a good father while being a poor partner. His treatment of the mother of his children is one of the greatest lessons he teaches them. Sons will learn how to treat women by observing their father, and daughters will learn what to expect from men. Therefore, a father’s actions have a profound and lasting impact.

Many men fail to see this connection, assuming they can compartmentalize their relationships. They believe they can show up as loving fathers while being absent or hurtful partners. But children are incredibly perceptive. They notice the unspoken dynamics and carry those observations into their understanding of relationships.

The truth is, children thrive in an environment where both parents are emotionally healthy and supportive of one another. A man who uplifts his woman not only strengthens her but also creates a stable foundation for his children to grow upon. His love and respect set an example that shapes their worldview.

Men must also recognize that protecting their children goes beyond physical safety. It involves creating a space where emotional security is prioritized. This cannot happen if the mother of the children feels unsupported, neglected, or hurt. Emotional wounds within the family ripple outward, affecting everyone.

To truly protect your children, protect their mother. Nurture her spirit and honor her contributions. When you invest in her happiness and well-being, you invest in the emotional health of your entire family. What you give her, she will magnify and return to your children tenfold.

So dear man, the greatest legacy a man can leave for his children is the example of a loving and harmonious partnership. By treating his woman with care and respect, he teaches his children the value of love, kindness, and mutual support. This is the universal truth you cannot escape—and one every man must embrace.

Be that woman 👩

Be the kind of woman you want to call when things go wrong.

Be the motivator, the encourager of dreams.

Be the kind of fierce friend you want to have yourself.

Love your girlfriends deeply, they are your sister warriors in this world and only they know just what a crazy, hormonal ride womanhood really is.

Be loyal, love hard.

Be a soulmate, be a sister.

Be strong, be kind.

Listen hard and laugh lots.

Tell the truth but keep the secrets.

Big up everyone you meet.

Kind words travel endlessly.

If you can’t say anything nice, look more closely.

Spread the sparkle of a smile and a compliment whenever you can.

There is room for us all to be happy and successful.

Lend a hand if you’re there already.

Pull your girls up.

Push them if you need to.

Straighten each other’s crowns, spot the lipstick on the teeth and the loo paper on the shoes.

Avoid the drama, smile at the haters, they’re actually admiring you from afar.

Donna Ashworth

From ‘to the women’ 📕 https://amzn.eu/d/25iVmi8

Art by Tarn Ellis #tarnellisart

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Never Again

She’s been the girl who was lied to.

She’s been the girl who was manipulated, cheated on, and accused of doing things the other person was doing the entire time.

She was gaslight so hard she questioned what colour the ocean was.

She’s been the girl who gave chances on top of chances because she knows change doesn’t happen overnight.

She’s begged for counselling, pleaded for effort, and shown more patience than you couldn’t even begin to imagine.

She even changed the way she communicated to adapt to what someone else needed.

She buried her complaints and kept her feelings to herself so she could keep the peace.

She’s twisted her boundaries so much to try and make things work with other people she shouldn’t have given the time of day in the first place.

She used to do all those things so she could have peace of mind, but when she finally walked away, she knew she had done everything in her power to try to make things work.

And what she knows now is that every single time she did that …. all she was doing was showing people how they could treat her and still stick around.

And looking back, she can say with total confidence that not once was it worth it.

So she will never do it again.

~ Cody Bret

Tell me where it hurts

I know you don’t feel safe right now.

I know it feels like the world is shifting beneath you, faster than the time it takes to find your feet.

I know how uncertain everything feels to you and how much pain you are carrying.

I could tell you that it will get better soon, that you can close your eyes and magically return to that place where everything felt okay, that from here on out it’s going to be an easy ride.

But I won’t tell you any of that because it would be a lie, and I would never lie to you.

The truth is I don’t know if it gets better soon and returning isn’t much of an option now you’ve seen what you’ve seen, now you’ve lived what you’ve lived, now you’ve lost what you’ve lost.

What I can tell you is that you are not alone. That I am right here with you and I will hold your hand for as long as it takes for you to steady yourself and as you learn how to move those feet forwards again.

It’s not easy, this life.

Some days come along and knock you down harder than you’ve ever been knocked down before. And then another comes by and does the same, and you wonder how you ever managed to get up the first time.

And it hurts. It really, really hurts.

Tell me where it hurts.

Tell me, everything. I’m listening.

Give me your language for each of your pains, your unending griefs, your tired aches. Show me your wounds and let them breathe. Allow your heart to crack wide open as you sift through its broken walls to see what still fits and if new pieces have been made.

Does any of it still fit? Has your heart changed shape and size? Does it sound the same as it beats and bleeds and bleeds?

Do you know your heart?

I don’t have easy answers for you, answers never did come easy for me, but I’ll sit with you in the questions for as long as you need; those deep unanswerable questions that live in my bones and carry me home.

So take all the time you need, love. I’m here. I’m right here with you.

( ✍️ Sarah Mariann Martland )

Art : Divmon – ‘The Power of Friendship’