Tag: Children

Contact Refusal / PA – Charlie McCready

It may start with what seems like innocent enough excuses: Uncle Bulgaria is over for the weekend and we’ve not seen him in years, so we’ll have to skip this weekend. And yet there’s no effort to make up your lost time. Maybe there’s a school rehearsal: they can’t miss it. And yet there’s not a reason given as to why they can’t do that from your house or a discussion about possible solutions. All the excuses mount up and it becomes obvious that everyone and everything else takes priority over your child spending time with you. If and when you get ‘given’ the time, it may well be, with all the excuses under the sun, sabotaged, shortened, or overshadowed.

Another issue that when ‘allowed’ time with your child, alienating tactics may include constant text messages or phone calls which make the child feel guilty, angry, upset. They might be told how much more fun they’d be having if they didn’t ‘have to’ be with you. The child will get the impression, loud and clear, that it’s a nuisance for them, and annoying for their ‘good’ parent whenever they spend time with the ‘bad’ parent, the one who is ruining everyone’s fun. Contact, even when indirect such as a phone call or a text message, can be even labelled ‘harassment’ in some cases.

Subliminal programming of a sort has been inflicted on the child, a form of emotional manipulation and psychological abuse. Subtly but most certainly, the child will realise that the alienating parent is delighted when the child ‘chooses’ not to spend time with the other parent. The child may even be rewarded for contact refusal. These patterns of contact refusal are the first signs that the child is being alienated.

Do any of these signs sound familiar to you?

If you face these challenges, know you’re not alone. I’ve been through all this myself, with over 20 years of experience, and I am now reunited with my children. I am here to offer support with daily posts on social media and also with the coaching I offer. Feel free to reach out to me anytime—I’m here to help.

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Old Soul Child

There’s something almost mystical about the presence of a child who seems to carry a wisdom that stretches beyond their years. Though young in age, their energy, frequency, and depth of understanding resonate on a level that feels ancient, timeless. We call these individuals “old souls,” and they often embody qualities of empathy, insight, and calmness that make them seem, in some ways, older than their own parents. It’s as if they’ve arrived in this life with a knowing, an awareness that stretches back far beyond their current experience.

An old soul child isn’t just intelligent or curious—they seem to possess an innate understanding of life’s subtleties. They might offer profound insights, show an unusual sense of empathy, or display an unshakable calm in challenging situations. Their connection to the world feels less about “learning” and more about “remembering.” They understand emotions and human nature, sometimes even more deeply than those who’ve lived much longer, which can create a unique dynamic within the family. This child may end up teaching their parents just as much, if not more, than they learn from them.

Raising or knowing such a child can be a gift, but it can also be challenging. They often seek deeper meaning and authenticity, needing conversations that go beyond the surface and environments that nurture their sensitivity. While other children may be content with play and routine, an old soul child might question the world, crave connection, or reflect on concepts that seem far beyond their years. Supporting them means fostering an environment where their unique spirit is not only accepted but encouraged.

As they grow, old soul children often navigate life with a sense of purpose, even if that path doesn’t align with conventional expectations. They are gentle yet strong, wise yet curious. And as they bring their ancient, resonant frequency into the world, they remind us of the vast, mysterious, and interconnected nature of all life.

Keep them from harm – Joel Lord

When the inner workings of the nerve center are violated via the asymmetrical routing of vaccination, degrees of encephalitis or brain inflammation and anaphylaxis, a severe form of allergic reaction, inevitably follow.

With each subsequent stage in the regime the odds of incurring neurological dysfunction increases. Most vaccine injury manifests initially in scattered microvascular strokes or ischemia resulting from demyelination.

This internal revulsion to vaccine neurotoxins is articulated by acute clogging, pinching or collapsing of vital arteries, arterials and capillaries in the bloodstream which occurs instantaneously once the vaccine is injected, the lynch pin that separates healthy unvaccinated children from the remainder of infants in the vaccinated community.

On the surface a child may not exhibit the definitive signs of trauma, but underlying changes have definitely occurred. The accumulative effect of these silent strokes can eventually lead to Autism.

Excerpt from my first book ‘Keep Them From Harm’

http://keepthemfromharm.com/

Charlie McCready -Coaching offer

My daily posts aim to spread awareness and empower you with a greater understanding of alienating behaviours. Alienation from our child creates traumatic grief in our lives. It is one of the hardest but most misdiagnosed, under-supported, and covert forms of abuse of us and our children.

I’m glad to say the amazing parents I have the honour and pleasure of working with talk of gaining emotional and mental resilience and peace of mind in just a few weeks (the 9-step program is 10 weeks). It has been described as ‘the best investment you can make’. It helps you understand and deal with your alienated child/ren, the alienating parent, plus how to overcome and survive the many challenges. Please send me a message if you are interested to know more, and I can send you testimonials and further details on what the program/coaching covers and the benefits you could gain.

I also do 1-2-1 coaching. Sometimes, people prefer to do these private sessions with their partner who is keen to support and get a better understanding. I have also helped many alienated children, and I am always happy to accommodate this when possible, and when it is most beneficial.

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