Tag: abuse

Empower your children against Narcissistic Parent

With a temper that exploded without warning , I witnessed him take a broom, and threaten to kill our son for something .. He backed him against the kitchen counter , broom in hand , screaming his threat .

I was heavily medicated at the time .

It wasn’t long after that son retaliated , pushing his Dad off the front porch ( only a step down) .

Later I learned he had torn up the check for son to return 2nd year of college . Son was off his 1st year , and flunked out .. His Dad did the same thing !,,

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This was storage for months at my last rental. I had plastic hung

It took the ” landlord ” months to clear out his junk from the storage building , which is all too common or not at all. My helper , aided him in clearing it out , and hauling it off, on my pay ! Again normal landlord behavior .

I moved in August 1, 2021, having no idea of the flimflam this young man was perpetrating , breaking laws that were ignored by the only office that could issue code( law) for the magistrate to issue arrest warrants ..

Moving as handled by one young man, whom I am eternally grateful to.. his family required his attention …I’ll always miss him . Happy Birthday kiddo 👶

Thankfully there’ll be no repeats of this type ever again.. it was rather common..

Toxic Family Abuse – Sherrie Campbell Ph D

It’s always interesting when a person with no experience with toxic family abuse feels compelled to judge your decisions and experiences. There are many who come at you with “there is a no one size fits all” approach when it comes to no contact.

Abuse is abuse. It’s not about size or amount. Abuse is what abuse is.

This type of ignorance tends to come when definitive boundaries have been set. When you have finally taken enough abuse and you decide to take care of your unique situation with your family, these types of people start with their unsolicited, often arrogant advice and opinions.

These are not opinions/advice you have to take. If they have not suffered what you have, they have no basis, experience or platform to advise you from.

Choose people who support you, whether they have lived it or not. People who support you will trust that you have absolutely made a self-respecting and self-loving decision to better your life.

Sharing an abduction attempt story, please share

****ATTENTION PLEASE READ****

Last night I was downtown stopped at a stoplight. Suddenly the vehicle in front of me began backing up. I blared my horn but before I could do anything else the vehicle tapped the front end of my car. I stayed where I was. The man quickly jumped out of his car and approached my window. I cracked it just enough to talk to him. I asked for his insurance which he quickly flashed to me and said, “no damage come look.” I firmly said, “No I need a copy of your insurance.” The man just kept saying, “come out and look there’s no damage.” I stayed put. I asked once more for his insurance assuring him that I would call the cops and then took a picture of his license plate. Next thing I knew the man darted off, got into his car and drove away.

All I could think was that I had just gotten into a hit and run and hoped there really wasn’t any damage— it didn’t occur to me that this was an attempt to do so much more.

I called my dad to tell him what happened and ask for advice. I explained the situation and that I hadn’t got out yet to look when he said, “Don’t get out and go somewhere well lit.” I didn’t understand but I listened. I got out and looked sure enough there was no damage. My dad explained that this was likely a scheme to try to get me out of the car to possibly take me. I was instantly horrified at the idea. He asked me if the guy was in a van—he was. I’m sharing this to help make others aware of this scheme. Had I gotten out of the car I might not be here writing this post. PLEASE, PLEASE be cautious as this could happen to anyone. In other scenarios there could be another car behind you for a more aggressive attempt to take you or even multiple men getting out at once to approach your car. If you are at all unsure of a situation CALL THE POLICE.

I STILL DO NOT KNOW WHY I DIDNT GET OUT OF THE CAR BUT I’M REALIZING NOW THAT NOT DOING SO MAY HAVE SAVED MY LIFE.

I have reported the license plate/description of the vehicle to the police.

This post was written to be shared/to help warn others about a real life situation that happened/could happen to anyone.