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Why Narcissist give the worst gifts

Absolutely true . One year he gave me a very nice watch ; my best friend had been gifted one … he followed that pattern.

Blue suitcase set , portable dishwasher , I really don’t recall unique of thoughtful gifts . I anticipated grandchildren and asked for a rocking chair ; received a glider/rocker. .

Sadly he was too occupied in his own world to green anything personally going on in mine .

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Parental Duty -Charlie McCready

It is a parental duty to foster, encourage, and support the child’s relationship with the other loving parent and their extended family. Maintaining a healthy and positive connection with both parents is important for a child’s emotional, psychological, and social well-being. Denying or undermining this relationship can be harmful to the child, as it deprives them of the opportunity to form and maintain important emotional bonds and support systems that are necessary for their overall development and happiness. It is in the best interests of the child to have access to the love, care, and guidance of both parents, as long as it is safe and beneficial for their well-being.

An alienated child may still experience moments of happiness in areas of their life, but the absence of a loving relationship with one parent can create emotional and psychological challenges that may impact their overall and long-term well-being. The absence of a meaningful and nurturing relationship with both parents can have a profound impact on a child’s sense of identity, and overall happiness. It can, unfortunately, lead to depression, and self-destructive behaviours. It is important to address and heal the wounds caused by parental alienation to give the child the best opportunity for happiness and healthy emotional development.

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Ever present effort to control via a toxic narcissist

Toxic is when they can’t seem to let you go, but at the same time, they don’t treat you with the care or respect you deserve.

It’s when they want you around, yet make you feel unimportant or invisible, leaving you stuck in a cycle where you’re constantly giving, but never receiving the love or effort you need. It’s exhausting to hold on to someone who doesn’t show up the way you need them to, but somehow still keeps you hanging on.

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The Bottomless Pit of learned ingratitude- Charlie McCready

Alienated parents often experience a painful dynamic where their children feel they have to “payback” for perceived shortcomings. This belief is instilled by the alienating parent, who paints (projects) a picture of the targeted parent as neglectful or selfish. The child, who has been led to believe these narratives, may come to expect constant compensation for the perceived wrongs.⁠

In reality, the alienated parent has been prevented from giving their love and support. Their attempts to provide for and connect with their child have been limited or entirely blocked. Despite their genuine efforts and desire to be involved, the child has been conditioned to see these efforts as inadequate.⁠

The alienated child often becomes complicit in this dynamic, unknowingly perpetuating the cycle of blame. They carry the belief that they have been short-changed by the targeted parent, even though the reality is that the alienated parent had so much more time and love to give. This disconnect creates a lasting sense of injustice and unresolved tension.⁠

Understanding this dynamic can help alienated parents find some solace in knowing that the problem is not rooted in their actions but in the manipulative influence of the alienating parent. It isn’t easy to be blamed so mistakenly when we know our children truly have been shortchanged – against our wishes and at the instigation of the alienating parent – and we have to, despite all adversity, triggers, injustice, grief …, maintain our patience, empathy, and continued efforts to rebuild trust and connection with their children.⁠

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