Category: Parential Alienation-Child Abuse

Self Image is Everything to a Narcissist

The narcissist’s self-image is everything, and he or she will wager everything on it – doing things that are unlawful, dangerous and criminal to uphold it. This naturally put his or her business at risk – and the narcissist has no issue in twisting facts and setting someone else up to take the fall when the trouble happens.
The justifications that the narcissist is capable of making to pathologise his or her behaviour are incredible.
Narcissists are disordered; their brain wiring is maladapted to circuits that are not healthy, or humane. The narcissist can justify immoral, inhumane and criminal behaviour easily because their soul was sold to serve the one true master – The False Self – long ago.
It’s important to understand narcissists will believe, firmly, that the person they are setting up to take the blame is at fault. Their minds are highly adept at creating a self-delusional story that exonerates their “above reproach at all costs” ego. Once this story has been replayed through the narcissist disordered mind a few times – it is TRUE to the narcissist. That is the extent of the disorder – superiority and impunity are necessary for the narcissist’s emotional survival.
This can seem incredibly personal – until we understand that narcissists are operating out of horrendous childish survival fears. The narcissist’s unconscious drivers are entrenched in this defence: “If I am exposed as wrong I’ll be annihilated,” which triggers the narcissist’s biggest fear – the bottom line terror of the ego – the fear of NOT existing.
The narcissist believes he or she must be seen as “perfect.” However, the intense fear and defences conversely create the narcissist’s character as not just “imperfect” but also highly disordered and damaged.
This becomes blatantly obvious if the spotlight is on the narcissist for any accountability for his or her actions or non-actions. This is when the narcissist becomes the most unhinged, or the most dishonest and manipulative.
He or she will do anything to avoid personal fault and scrutiny, and if someone can be scapegoated, the narcissist will employ this tactic.
Read more on Narcissists in the Workplace and what to do in this article – https://bit.ly/38013uD.
Much love xo ❤️

Woman’s Rights

“Rather than fighting for every woman’s right to feel beautiful, I would like to see the return of a kind of feminism that tells women and girls everywhere that maybe it’s all right not to be pretty and perfectly well behaved. That maybe women who are plain, or large, or old, or differently abled, or who simply don’t give a damn what they look like because they’re too busy saving the world or rearranging their sock drawer, have as much right to take up space as anyone else.
I think if we want to take care of the next generation of girls we should reassure them that power, strength and character are more important than beauty and always will be, and that even if they aren’t thin and pretty, they are still worthy of respect. That feeling is the birthright of men everywhere. It’s about time we claimed it for ourselves.” -Laurie Penny
Painting by Leticia Banegas

11:11 portal, 11/13 Friday, Super New Moon

So many of us have held the light for so long we have almost forgotten why we do it. We no longer see as much magic in physical form nor miracles that filled the skies or the lands in the days of old. We no longer hear our names called on the breeze or sung by a bird.  
We that hold the everlasting light are the last knights barricade, we guard the grail. When 11:11 raises her beautiful head once again we will be transferring power back to the Earth that we have held from time immortal. This does not mean that we are leaving the physical body but it means the ‘weight/wait’ that we have carried needs be distributed and dispersed amongst the lands.
What comes forth is a lightness of being a lightness of heart,the ugly we have held on to, within and without  is finally set free.  
What comes forth is the Child of Light that has grown up too serious now begins to play on the cosmic swing set. The child within is free to do and no longer has to hold the old paradigm as it was released to Terra Gaia restructured in content to fit all of her healing needs. The entry to new experiences opens for those who have the courage to enter. 
However, it will take those pure of heart and pure of intent  to walk thru the next threshold.
The magic of other dimensions replaces itself with holographic images of future events and future outcomes, live in the cloud forever. As we all gather on the 11:11 at any sacred place that holds a ‘peace of our heart’, We lift the wings of our heart high spreading them wide for all of the universe to see. Letting ‘the Big G god’ know we are serious of purpose and are no longer the pawns in a heavenly game.
This 11:11 will guide us one by one towards a place of wonder and singularity. Like stories of old when timelines stacked allowing access into concealed places, 11:11 becomes a straight shot forward and backward embracing all timelines on the way. 
Allowing us to see down a long hallway of possible futures.We that have held the light, as a never-ending lighthouse, stand-in great awareness of the shifting sands to come.We stand in wakefulness of all possibilities that will stream through the human bloodline into a place of permanency.We look to the skies for what has always been true but now the skies look to us for a sign. As the planet enters the sanctuary of 11:11, we also will enter the quiet and solitude of that space with reverence. This 11:11 time threshold is a bump in recognizable time. Time becomes a swinger for a short while, like a hanging bridge that moves on the winds of change in all directions simultaneously. Corrections that are officially time-based, offer you a chance to glimpse of what is behind the cosmic curtains.
Join others energetically and physically on 11:11. Gather in your humble homes, fields, beaches and mountain tops. Gather at the sacred place of your choice, join hands, join hearts, and join lights. Let the universe aka ‘big G god’ know that we as a planet seek the highest truth on every level of our being and DNA, and we are not settling for less.
by Gillian MacBeth-Louthan  ❤

Narcissist Self Image is Everything

The narcissist’s self-image is everything, and he or she will wager everything on it – doing things that are unlawful, dangerous and criminal to uphold it. This naturally put his or her business at risk – and the narcissist has no issue in twisting facts and setting someone else up to take the fall when the trouble happens.
The justifications that the narcissist is capable of making to pathologise his or her behaviour are incredible.
Narcissists are disordered; their brain wiring is maladapted to circuits that are not healthy, or humane. The narcissist can justify immoral, inhumane and criminal behaviour easily because their soul was sold to serve the one true master – The False Self – long ago.
It’s important to understand narcissists will believe, firmly, that the person they are setting up to take the blame is at fault. Their minds are highly adept at creating a self-delusional story that exonerates their “above reproach at all costs” ego. Once this story has been replayed through the narcissist disordered mind a few times – it is TRUE to the narcissist. That is the extent of the disorder – superiority and impunity are necessary for the narcissist’s emotional survival.
This can seem incredibly personal – until we understand that narcissists are operating out of horrendous childish survival fears. The narcissist’s unconscious drivers are entrenched in this defence: “If I am exposed as wrong I’ll be annihilated,” which triggers the narcissist’s biggest fear – the bottom line terror of the ego – the fear of NOT existing.
The narcissist believes he or she must be seen as “perfect.” However, the intense fear and defences conversely create the narcissist’s character as not just “imperfect” but also highly disordered and damaged.
This becomes blatantly obvious if the spotlight is on the narcissist for any accountability for his or her actions or non-actions. This is when the narcissist becomes the most unhinged, or the most dishonest and manipulative.
He or she will do anything to avoid personal fault and scrutiny, and if someone can be scapegoated, the narcissist will employ this tactic.
Read more on Narcissists in the Workplace and what to do in this article – https://bit.ly/38013uD.
Much love xo ❤️