Category: Parential Alienation-Child Abuse
Trauma Informed Coping Skills
Child Psychological Abuse by Craig Childress
Child Psychological Abuse
There are four child abuse diagnoses in the DSM-5; Child Physical Abuse (V995.54), Child Sexual Abuse (V995.53), Child Neglect (V995.52), Child Psychological Abuse.
I have personally worked with all four categories of child abuse as the Clinical Director for a three-university assessment and treatment center for children age zero-to-five in the foster care system.
All of these child abuse diagnoses in the DSM-5 are equal in the amount of damage done to the child, they differ only in the type of damage done, not in the severity of the damage done to the child.
Psychological child abuse is devastating, it destroys the child from the inside out.
In the 1960s to 80s physical child abuse began to be recognized and addressed in our professional and cultural surround, but sexual abuse remained a hidden pathology.
In the 1980s to 2000s, child sexual abuse began to be recognized and addressed in our professional and cultural surround, but psychological child abuse remained a hidden pathology.
With the publication of the DSM-5 by the American Psychiatric Association in 2013, Child Psychological Abuse is recognized and is starting to be addressed in our professional and cultural surround.
As a clinical psychologist with trauma and attachment background, in addition to background in delusional and factitious disorders, including background in family systems therapy, personality disorder pathology, and court-involved family conflict pathology… it is my professional opinion that among the top-top current experts in child psychological abuse is Ms. Dorcy Pruter.
She can speak for herself regarding her experience and background, which is substantial, and she will likely deflect the focus from her to where it should rightly be, on the child.
In the professional opinion of Dr. Childress as a clinical psychologist, Ms. Pruter is among the top professionals with expertise in identifying psychological child abuse, and in recovering the child from the effects of complex trauma and psychological child abuse by a parent.
Such is my professional esteem and respect for Ms. Pruter, I have twice co-presented with her at national conventions of high-level professional organizations. First to the AFCC in 2017, where I presented on AB-PA and Ms. Pruter and I jointly presented on the High Road protocol.
I explained the effectiveness of the High Road protocol from a psychological orientation, Ms. Pruter explained the effectiveness of the High Road workshop from a practical perspective. The High Road workshop for recovery of children from complex trauma and child psychological abuse is effective. That is a fact.
In 2019, Ms. Pruter and I co-presented a paper to the American Psychological Association, Division 24 Society for Theoretical and Philosophical Psychology. Our paper was peer-reviewed by the head of Division 24 and she had entirely positive things to say.
In our joint paper to Division 24 of the APA, we presented the High Road single-case ABA clinical research data. The High Road single case ABA data proves with directly applied clinical research methodology of the highest caliber, that the High Road workshop successfully recovers children from complex trauma and psychological child abuse in a matter of a days.
In my opinion as a clinical psychologist, having taught graduate-level courses in research methodology, and having worked on multiple large-scale research projects at UCLA, UCI, and Children’s Hospital of Los Angeles… the High Road workshop is evidenced-based practice in the recovery of children from complex trauma and child abuse. There’s the evidence.
The High Road workshop is the B phase, the second A with all the numbers is the follow-up maintenance care period, the three scales are Affection, Cooperation, Social Involvement – from 1s and 2s at the start of the High Road workshop, to 5s and 6s at the end – a rocket rise to recovery.
The only methodology issue for a single case ABA design is replication. Do it again please, Dorcy. She does. Over and over again. Each time she collects data, and each time she recovers the child – consistently. The High Road workshop protocol is gentle, the kids love it, and it is effective. That is a fact.
Ms. Pruter is the CEO of the Conscious-Copareting Institute. She is available to discuss research collaboration regarding the High Road protocol with any appropriate university affiliated researcher.
Ms. Pruter is a professional family and parenting coach and a businesswoman, she is not a psychologist. She has done her part in creating solutions more than substantially. She has developed an incredibly – remarkably effective – workshop protocol, and she collects outcome data on its effectiveness every single time – she proves it over and over each time with data.
And she’s not a researcher – you are. Ms. Pruter is a professional family and parenting coach of exceptional quality and skill, she is a trained professional family mediator, she is a businesswoman of success and accomplishment, and she is among the top-tier of professional expertise in the recovery of children from complex trauma and child psychological abuse.
Ms. Pruter and the Conscious Co-Parenting Institute are my first referral as a clinical psychologist for the prevention and recovery from child psychological abuse and complex trauma.
You know how critical I am of forensic psychologists for their failure in their ethical obligations to apply the established knowledge of professional psychology, as required by Standard 2.04 of the APA ethics code.
Ms. Pruter is a professional coach and she is not bound by the requirements imposed on a psychologist.
In my professional opinion as a clinical psychologist, Ms. Pruter meets the highest standards of practice relative to Standard 2.04 of the APA ethics code for professional competence. She is not a psychologist – she is a family and parenting coach – and she absolutely knows this pathology with depth and accuracy of applied professional knowledge.
Talk to me, talk to her, you will hear exactly the same thing – we need to protect the child from the psychological abuse of the parent. To do that we need a written treatment plan from the involved mental health people.
To obtain a written treatment plan, we need a diagnosis. To obtain a diagnosis we need an assessment from the involved mental health professionals – a risk assessment for child psychological abuse by the allied parent toward a possible differential diagnosis of a shared persecutory delusion (ICD-10 F24).
Through the Conscious Co-Parenting Institute, Ms. Pruter can also provide attorneys, parents, and the court with professional consultation and expertise on child psychological abuse and solutions to complex trauma within the family.
Ms. Pruter and CCPI are my first referral as a clinical psychologist for prevention of, and recovery from complex trauma and child psychological abuse.
Craig Childress, Psy.D.Clinical Psychologist, PSY 18857
Zodiac History
The history of the zodiac is based on the Chinese calendar, which is associated with Chinese astrology and ancient religion. One of the religions that influenced the zodiac was Taoism. In the Taoist beliefs, they use constellations and space to determine a person’s “future.” This applies to the zodiac because in Chinese astrology, they believe that the positions of the things in space can affect a person’s destiny. They used the sun to decide how all zodiac signs were going to function according to the dates and times.
Often in many zodiacs, a yin-yang symbol is embedded in the center, which represents any two opposing principles in the universe and how everything works. The origin of the yin-yang is from the religion Taoism. It is one of the well known symbols in Taoism, which is a belief “that a man is a microcosm for universe.” The yin-yang ties in with the zodiac because it is combined with the Zodiac’s five elements in order to read the ten stems; in which the zodiac uses to count days, months, and years. When it is combined, the yin-yang also affects the characteristics of the 12 zodiac animals.
Another example of how religion ties in with the zodiac is with Buddhism, and how one of the legends tells how Buddha invites all the animals that were chosen for the zodiac. This is important to Chinese culture because the majority of people practice this religion, which has had the greatest religious impact on China. The religious influence has had a great effect on how the zodiac is structured and what is has become.
Healing Wounds

Many of us interested in spirituality, creativity, and healing have been wounded in our lives, whether physically, emotionally, or at a soul level: within the context of our relational histories, as the byproduct of intergenerational trauma, and through personal and archetypal betrayals as open and sensitive human beings.
In the face of this wounding, we experience discontent and dis-ease in relation to a world that has lost connection with the sacredness of the body, the sanctity of the emotions, the mysteries of nature, and our place in the stars. A soul loss that at times can manifest in certain forms of depression and dark night. This response is not pathology, but an emanation of wisdom.
While the grief can be overwhelming, some are starting to sense the immense power and high-voltage intelligence within the wound, sensing the alchemical silver and gold buried inside.
It is an act of mercy to tend to the wounded one, providing sanctuary and safe passage for them to come into this world, where they are so needed. To offer a home where this one can seed this place with their unique light.
It is not an easy life, that of the wounded healer – one that we do not choose consciously – but is the honorable inheritance of many who are called to the path. It requires that we walk in this world against the grain and remain open to further wounding and revelation of shadow.
For some, initiation occurs only by way of transition, illness, and loss… through an embodied confrontation with uncertainty, groundlessness, and psychic dismemberment. These are not signs of error or mistake, but a call to depth. For some of us, deeper healing will take form as more subtle unfolding of the wound in psyche and the body.
In the end, the goal is not to eliminate our woundedness,for this would sever our connection with life and annex the gifts of soul from this world. Not even to “heal” in any sort of conventional sense, but to uncover new myths, images, and metaphors through which we are able to touch, integrate, dance, and play within the love that has been given.
Not only for ourselves, but for others, for this planet,this star… for all sentient life.
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Mass Awakening
The Shofar has sounded a few months ago.Now the Trumpets have sounded.This is the Mass Awakening.The CALL!We are now have the opportunity to be lifted beyond all that was and has been and is the 3rd dimensional state, and truly break free of all shackles and bonds, the false programming, the false personas, the false belief systems, all which has held us broken and at heel.It is time to shed the old garments, the old you.It is time to cut all attachments.Is it time to let go of all and everything, which is there still holding you in the 3D.It is time to go deep WITHIN.Into the heart and soul, and ask to be returned and lifted into the highest truth of who and what you in truth are – as the Divine Creator created you to be. To be lifted into the truth of your Son and Daughtership, AS ONE with the Divine and All who are before you!To let go of all separation thinking and feeling.All judgements.All which is there separating you from others, in one form or another. Or separating you from the Divine within you.All which you so cling to and hold onto.Let go!Let go!Allow yourself to be freed!The shackles and bonds have loosened, the perceived prison doors of the 3D are wide open: It is up to you to claim your freedom and walk through the 7 Gates of Light and into your freedom, as you then are lifted beyond the known world, into the unknown.Yet, within the unknown, there is the ALL-KNOWN AS ONE with the Divine. You are no longer who you thought you were or think you are.You are in truth no more, as you were in the 3D.You are now brought through the death of the old, to be reborn into the totally new and as yet unexplored, the unchartered!Yet, you are then walking in the company of Heavens, as are guided every step of the way.You are lifted beyond all you ever thought possible or impossible, into the infinite state of Being.The trumpets have sounded!This is the time which has been prophesied for thousands of years.We are in the midst of this now.What you now do in this moment – will determine the rest.It is entirely up to you which path you choose.The Highest Pathways are open, whether you choose to walk them or not.Judith Kusel http://www.judithkusel.com

Kindness

Kindness
Before you know what kindness really isyou must lose things,feel the future dissolve in a momentlike salt in a weakened broth.What you held in your hand,what you counted and carefully saved,all this must go so you knowhow desolate the landscape can bebetween the regions of kindness.How you ride and ridethinking the bus will never stop,the passengers eating maize and chickenwill stare out the window forever.
Before you learn the tender gravity of kindness,you must travel where the Indian in a white poncho lies dead by the side of the road.You must see how this could be you,how he too was someonewho journeyed through the night with plans and the simple breath that kept him alive.
Before you know kindness as the deepest thing inside, you must know sorrow as the other deepest thing. You must wake up with sorrow.You must speak to it till your voicecatches the thread of all sorrowsand you see the size of the cloth.
Then it is only kindness that makes sense anymore,only kindness that ties your shoesand sends you out into the day to mail letters and purchase bread,only kindness that raises its headfrom the crowd of the world to sayit is I you have been looking for,and then goes with you every wherelike a shadow or a friend. –
Naomi Shihab Nyefrom The Words Under the Words: Selected Poems
Witches -WiseWoman

It was not witches who burned.It was women.Women who were seen as-Too beautifulToo outspokenHad too much water in the well (yes, seriously)Who had a birthmarkWomen who were too skilled with herbal medicineToo loudToo quietToo much red in her hairWomen who had a strong nature connectionWomen who dancedWomen who sungor anything else, really.
ANY WOMAN WAS AT RISK OF BURNING IN THE SIXTEEN HUNDREDSSisters testified and turned on each other when their babies were held under ice.Children were tortured to confess their experiences with “witches” by being fake executed in ovens.Women were held under water and if they floated, they were guilty and executed.If they sunk and drowned, they were innocent.Women were thrown off cliffs.Women were put in deep holes in the ground.
The start of this madness was years of famine, war between religions, and lots of fear. The churches said that witches, demons, and the devil did exist, and women were nothing but trouble. As we see even today, there is often a scapegoat created, and the chaos escalated in Sweden when the Bible became law and everything that did not line up with what the church said became lethal. The Bible fanaticism killed thousands of women. Everything connected to a woman became feared, especially her sexuality. It became labeled as dark and dangerous and was the core of the witch trials throughout the world.
Why do I write this?Because I think the usage of words are important, especially when we are doing the work to pull these murky, repressed and forgotten about stories to the surface. Because knowing our history is important when we are building the new world. When we are doing the healing work of our lineages and as women. To give the women who were slaughtered a voice, to give them redress and a chance of peace.
It was not witches who burned.It was women.
Author: Fia ForsströmThank you Andrea for this post 🙏
