Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

Ancient Warriors

Many of you are ancient Warriors , Templars with a mission of bringing unification on a planetary level , in the earth’s fabrics , grids , and organic vortexes that have been distorted for centuries.

I see the wounds many of you still carry within, and your courage to continue coming to Earth to complete the mission you once started.

A mission that consists of seeding the Wisdom that was attempted to be taken away from you , without knowing the Holy Grail was hidden within your unique Divine blueprint , for all is always within. The Wisdom of the Cathars, rather than being eradicated , continues among us , for it comes back with each and every one of you.

Due to the incessant wars to impede your mission , as Essenes and Cathars descendants , many of you carry profound traumatic memories embedded within your first , second , third chakras , sixth and seventh dimensional light body portals , for your unique unified template has been inserted with many fragmented holograms to separate what was pure in nature.

Your female was repressed for you not to feel , give , create , and heal. As your masculine was distorted and disconnected from the female to impose itself on the female , abusing its power and control over it.

Many of you have suffered from dreams remembering who you once were , reviving all the persecutions you have had while you carried the Sword of Truth , as Guides recently shared in a co-creation. Many of you are incessant warriors who have been constantly incarnating to help retrieve Earth’s original template.

Let the Emerald Ray of Creation restore your Cathar/Essene unique coding in your Heart , a unique light code similar to the original cross that was once manipulated by religions and by what is behind them.

Let the White Flame of Creation bathe your unified template , allowing its original coding to be restored , purified , and its wisdom retrieved.

Allow Love in to heal and reclaim who you are. Now it is safe to be who you are.

Today, you are free to be who you are, for many of you, as I often see, still carry repression, female distortions, false memories implanted within your mental body to remember someone you never were. Programs of guilt that do not allow you to move forward, and above all, programs of oblivion, which is the hardest one to clear, for you do not even remember who you are.

Now, planet earth is being assisted by many benevolent beings and Forces, as the Auroras, Venusians, Arcturians and so many others, that are helping you to remember, to live freely and to retrieve your Essene template, for you were born unified, as our beloved Jesus, Maria and Magdalene, for they all were a tribe of 12 unified beings supporting the planetary mission, to seed the lost female and masculine wisdom, as both are key in this plane to retrieve unity.

They carried a mission that today continues, in the Ethiopian lands, near Lake Tana, where lost knowledge still resides, hidden, for those who hold the codes to unlock its wisdom. In Egypt, for those who know where to look, among the many false programs in there reside. In the UK, France, and Canada, Calgary, for even though many believed the Essenes and Cathars to be extinguished, they emigrated and left their knowledge to their descendants.

Today, many of you continue with the mission of recoding many Earth’s templars, locations, and fabrics. There are new openings in France, Ethiopia, and other important areas. You will uniquely receive where to go or be next, for not all shall be exposed. You hold the genetic coding that allows you to be recognized by the location assigned to work with it and help in its restoration.

To those of you, whether Essenes or from any other lineage, thank you for your unique contribution! As I am blessed to see through many of you, there are many of you brave souls assisting this shift, and all of you working incessantly during many lifetimes in what we are now witnessing as a major planetary opening. Thank you for your devotion to serve Creation.

Your effort and willingness to seed more love, healing, and unity are immensely recognized, appreciated, and needed for our planet to continue its transition.

May you receive as many blessings as you are here to give.

May God’s Wisdom and Protection continue walking with you.

Within Infinite Love,

Natalia Alba

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Not being like the Alienating parent- Charlie McCready

Moving on from the anguish of parental alienation is a process that doesn’t happen overnight. It requires a conscious effort and resilience, as grief, injustice and anger can have a powerful hold on us, keeping us tethered to both the past and the present pain. Parental alienation is often described as a living bereavement. It’s ongoing. It’s unfinished business. But however difficult it may be, choosing to move forward is often the best course of action.

Parental alienation is profoundly isolating and traumatic, made worse by the fact that it is widely misunderstood and poorly supported. In some circles, it’s outright denied. The lack of recognition and action raises an obvious question—why is nothing being done? The reality is that the legal system, as it stands, often serves its own interests rather than prioritising the well-being of families. It operates on delay, deflection, and bureaucracy, allowing alienation to take hold while the targeted parent fights a ever steepening uphill battle. Even when alienation is recognised, enforcement is weak or non-existent.

While parental alienation may become a legal battle, at its core, it is an attachment disorder caused by pathogenic parenting—deeply unhealthy, psychologically damaging, and rooted in coercion, manipulation, and control. It is not a normal parent-child dynamic; it is an induced psychological condition that thrives on fear, guilt, and distorted loyalty.

Now, let’s talk about the alienating parent and their pursuit of revenge. This is what drives many of them. Their actions are not grounded in love or concern for the child but in a pathological need to control and punish. They draw others into their conflicts, creating division and chaos. Their wounded ego demands retribution—especially against the “target” parent, who may have exposed the truth about them or triggered their own abandonment issues. But there’s no excuse. They should be working through their issues, not destroying their child in the process. Instead, they refuse accountability. They project, manipulate, and engage in coercive control, turning their own children into unwitting pawns in their vendetta.

This is narcissistic parenting at its most destructive—erasing the child’s ability to form secure, healthy attachments and forcing them into an unnatural psychological alignment with the alienating parent. And yet, what’s striking is how these people remain stuck in a cycle. They don’t change. They don’t grow. They repeat the same toxic patterns.

Who would want to be like the alienating parent with their lives full of manipulation, deceit, and emotional abuse? Their existence is a façade, a charade built on falsehoods, and their actions perpetuate suffering for all around them. We got out of their lives, and we await our children realising why we did this and that maybe they should do the same.

Reach out if I can help you, as I’m helping many others, with the coaching I offer.

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Closure – Back to yourself

Venus, Saturn, and the Moon have come together three times this year — January 18, April 7, and now, April 24 into 25.

This kind of alignment usually happens once a year. The fact that it has repeated shows the Universe has been offering you multiple chances to understand something deeper, something karmic, something personal.

Each meeting brought up lessons around healing, closure, emotional maturity, and your capacity to see truth through the patterns you’ve accepted. This third time, the message lands clearly. You are no longer avoiding it. You are ready to hear what your heart has been trying to say, and this time, you’re doing something different with that truth.

Maybe lately you’ve felt a heaviness in your chest, a growing distance from people you once felt close to, or memories rising with more weight than usual. The atmosphere has shifted, and even if you couldn’t name it right away, your body knew something was changing.

Venus and Saturn have been meeting again and again, but this time, the Moon and Uranus are involved too. The Moon brings emotion, memory, and the need to feel safe. Uranus moves things suddenly — with clarity, with urgency, with freedom. Together, this combination pushes you to reflect, reset, and choose yourself in ways you may have avoided before.

Venus governs love, beauty, care, and self-worth and Saturn brings structure, long-term lessons, and boundaries. Saturn does not offer shortcuts. He offers truth and brings what is needed for growth. And when these two meet, you’re asked to look at how you love, who you love, and what you’ve accepted as love. You’re asked to tell the difference between temporary attention and true connection. Between the illusion of care and the experience of being deeply considered.

You might be seeing someone more clearly now. Not the version you hoped for, but the one they’ve shown you again and again through their actions. This could be a partner, a friend, a family member, ofr even a former version of yourself. You may find yourself reading old messages, noticing how many times you stayed quiet, tried to fix things you didn’t break, or kept holding space for people who were never fully present with you.

This is clarity. Slow. Real. Inevitable.

You begin to recognize how often you called it love when it felt more like survival, how often you checked in first, or how much effort you gave to people who barely noticed when you disappeared. The full picture is here now, even the pieces that feel sharp.

The Moon deepens the emotional current and brings what you’ve buried to the surface — old wounds, forgotten versions of yourself, stories you tried to close without ever really processing them. You may feel the need to cry for no clear reason, cancel plans and stay home, or suddenly crave silence, journaling, or simply being alone. These responses are your inner world asking to be acknowledged.

At the same time, the Moon and Uranus form a sextile, which brings quick emotional breakthroughs. You might feel something shift overnight. You may wake up and know it’s time to let go, delete the thread, block the number, cancel the plan, or rearrange your space without hesitation.

This is a karmic cycle closing. If you reflect honestly, you’ll see the pattern. Staying too long in something that felt one-sided, giving energy that never felt returned, or silencing your discomfort to keep things stable. These habits no longer match who you are becoming.

You are being invited to choose yourself in ways that used to feel difficult. You no longer need to explain your feelings to people who continue to overlook them, stay where your presence goes unacknowledged, or keep forgiving what keeps hurting.

This moment also asks you to reconnect with your body. When energy like this moves through, the body responds. You may want more movement, or more stillness. You might feel drawn to make a meal that feels grounding, play calming music while you clean, or light a candle and sit in the quiet. These are signals to your nervous system that it is safe now. That it can rest.

You may also begin to see money and resources through a new lens. Venus rules value — not only in love, but in finances — while Saturn brings structure and discipline. You might feel pulled to save, to budget, or to shift your spending toward what truly reflects your values. There’s a desire to build something lasting. Not just comfort, but actual security that supports the version of you rising now.

Boundaries feel more natural. Your body reacts faster to what drains you and you no longer need to justify your distance. You pull back without guilt, stop engaging with people who only show up when it benefits them, and you no longer feel the need to explain why you need space, why peace matters more than pleasing everyone, or why your energy is worth protecting.

Your voice is changing too. You stop softening your truth to keep others comfortable, you speak with clarity. and you say what’s real, even when it disrupts the dynamic.

The version of you who stayed too long, gave too much, or went quiet to keep others happy — that version did what they had to do to feel safe. That version deserves compassion, and fom here, you get to evolve and move forward with the lesson.

Venus, Saturn, the Moon, and Uranus are bringing you back to yourself — offering closure, and showing you that peace begins the moment you choose it. Healing doesn’t always require upheaval. Sometimes it comes through quiet reflection, gentleness, and the steady choice to stop revisiting what already revealed its truth.

You have full permission to let go of anyone who refuses to meet you with care. You are allowed to shift, you are allowed to grow, and you are allowed to begin again — with softness, with strength, and with love that finally feels safe to receive.

You no longer need to prove anything to anyone. ~ Alex Myles ❤️

Live no Bereavement – Charlie McCready

For many target parents, the loss of a child feels like a kidnapping or a death that has no closure – a living bereavement. It is agonising. For the alienated child, they are unwitting victims of terrorism. While they can be quite afraid of their captors (the aligned/alienating parent), it is like ‘Stockholm Syndrome’ because they’re also afraid of abandonment by them or not being loved by them, having been induced to believe they are their only hope, their lifeline. They’re led to believe that any relationship or affection towards the ‘enemy’, the target, alienated parent, will only bring them trouble and more suffering. Undoubtedly, this is a psychologically abusive experience for both target parents and alienated children. But we need to find some kind of acceptance. Some way towards peace of mind. Looking back, focusing on the past and the pain is not the way forward. It keeps us stuck. We have to be okay with the present moment. The now. This is the starting point. Right now.

If you face these challenges, know you’re not alone. I have been through the trauma of alienation, and with over 20 years of experience, I am totally invested in helping others. As well as my daily posts, I offer 1:1 coaching, and a 9-step program. I’m glad to say clients who do my program talk of gaining emotional and mental resilience and peace of mind, often within just a few weeks of starting. I help my clients understand and deal with their alienated child/ren, the alienating parent, plus how to overcome and survive the many challenges. Please send me a message if you are interested to know more, or you can visit my website.

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