Tag: relationships
5 types of women in relationships
Relationships that are good for your mental health
Being female, being single for a long time
#3 Has been true , perhaps all 3 situations in the over 20 years of a very unhealthy relationship, preferring a hand on my back , instead of the knife of a causal controller/projector .
Venus Conjunct Uranus 5/18
During Venus conjunct Uranus on May 18, and the days following, you could notice a sudden change in how you view love, romance, and your personal values.
Venus, the Love Goddess, is all about connections, affection, and self-worth. She encourages you to spend time with loved ones or enjoy life’s simple pleasures, like good food, art, and music. Venus, as the ruler of relationships, reminds you of the importance of meaningful connections, and encourages you to open up your emotions and welcome deeper experiences.
On the other hand, Uranus, the wild card in astrology, represents innovation, progress, and change. It’s the planet that brings unexpected movement, which can feel like a rollercoaster ride. Uranus encourages you to think outside the box and embrace new ways of doing things, even if it feels uncomfortable at first.
The mixture of these energies brings a unique blend of charm and unpredictability, encouraging us to break free from old patterns and embrace the excitement of the unknown.
If you’re sensitive to cosmic energy, you might have already felt the effects of this alignment and will continue to feel them for at least the next week or two. You might notice sudden changes in your emotions, unexpected events in your love life, or new insights about your relationships.
For those with Sun, Moon, or Rising signs in Taurus, Libra, or Aquarius (the signs ruled by Venus and Uranus), these changes will be more noticeable. If you often feel inadequate, insecure, or unable to be your true self around certain people or in certain situations, now is the time to recognize this and set boundaries or distance yourself from those influences. This period encourages you to prioritize your well-being and seek connections that are reciprocated and make you feel valued, loved, respected, and free to be fully yourself.
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http://www.empathplanet.com/venus-conjunct-uranus-expect-the-unexpected-in-love-and-relationships/
Thank you
Alex Myles ❤️

Grandparents
Being a grandparent allows you to be the parent you should have been the first time around but couldn’t be because of the “too many” expectations placed on parents.
You were too busy finding your footing and figuring it out—swept up in pressure and hurry.
But a grandparent has the time and perspective to be calm, attentive, forgiving, and fun.
They accept the mess.
They know the same bedrooms with unmade beds also had their grandchildren sleeping safe and sound with their minds at ease the night before.
They don’t yell because they know a child calling “grandma” or “grandpa” 20 times is a blessing.
And they don’t care if their grandchildren are the best at anything, as long as they’re happy and healthy. To them, they’re everything exactly as they are.
A GRANDPARENT’S LOVE IS ONE OF A KIND.
✍️: @livingfullaftered

Nothing true can be lost
“I do not say goodbye,
for in truth, there is no such thing.
Instead, I say,
‘May love find you
and may joy return to you,
until we meet again.’
For nothing that is truly real can ever be lost,
and for those I am still to return to,
I choose to remember them
through smiles rather than tears,
and honour them
by becoming everything I love most about them.”
~ Tahlia Hunter
Art | by Oscar Zwincher “Grief”, 1898

Break free of silent shadow
Insecure men use women
Toxic Partners Endangers your health
Picture this: a partner who is 𝘁𝗼𝘅𝗶𝗰 𝘁𝗼 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗵𝗲𝗮𝗹𝘁𝗵. They can’t bear the thought of losing you, but they can’t bring themself to truly love you either.
They are the type who takes you for granted. The more you pour your heart and soul into them, the less they seems to appreciate it. And just when you’ve had enough and are ready to walk away, they suddenly transforms into the person you’ve always wanted. They promises to change, to love you the way you deserve.
So you give them another chance. You want to believe that they finally turned a corner. But deep down, you know it’s all an act. They haven’t changed at all. And once again, you find the strength to walk away.
But they won’t let you go that easily. They proclaims their undying love, they beg for forgiveness. And against your better judgement, you take them back. 𝑨𝑮𝑨I𝑵.
But let’s be clear: a persons anger and persistence don’t prove their love. It’s just a childish reaction to losing control. And a few half-hearted kisses or empty promises to be nicer aren’t proof that they’re really trying to change. It’s just thwm manipulating you, using every trick in the book to keep you hooked.
Think about it: a child cries when you take away their toys. An adult cries when you threaten their convenience. But just because they throw a tantrum doesn’t mean you should give in.
It’s time to stop listening to your partners empty promises and start paying attention to their actions. It’s time to stop chasing some romantic ideal and face the reality of your relationship.
If you’re honest with yourself, you might realize that you’ve never really known what it’s like to be loved by a someone genuine and real. You know lust, you know fleeting joy, you know passion, and you know the gnawing fear of being abandoned.
But real love… that’s something different. Real love isn’t about making empty promises to patch things up after he’s messed up (again). Real love is about a person who acts with integrity from the start, because they can’t bear the thought of losing you.
Real love isn’t about a man or woman changing just to keep you around. Real love is about a person who grows and changes on their own, because they knows that he or she is better with you by their side.
So don’t settle for anything less. Don’t waste another moment on a person who doesn’t know how to truly love you. You deserve so much more.
𝑪𝒐𝒏𝒔𝒖𝒆𝒍𝒐 𝑫𝒊𝒂𝒛
𝓖𝓸𝓭𝓭𝓮𝓼𝓼 𝓥𝓲𝓫𝓮𝔃 𝓦𝓲𝓽𝓱 𝓒𝓸𝓷𝓼𝓾𝓮𝓵𝓸 𝓓𝓲𝓪𝔃

