Tag: Mom

Babies – Wait to cut the cord

Kirill Rebjew ….

As a former doctor I’d like to tell you something..

In the “obstetrics – hospital” there is a silent and unofficial rule of immediate cutting of the umbilical cord. But you don’t have that obligation!

It happens like this because the newborn at the time of birth is in a double respiratory state. First, it gets oxygen and nutrients through the umbilical cord. His lungs are not fully activated yet, he gradually starts breathing air through his nose and then slowly activates his lungs. What do the “doctors” do? The umbilical cord is cut off immediately after birth, cutting off the flow of oxygen and nutrients. The child is crumbling, starts taking a deep breath and tries to activate the lungs: it hurts! Also the crib blood must get to the baby!

If the umbilical cord is cut off immediately, the baby will not have enough blood immediately after birth. However, the blood in the placenta contains the child’s natural immune spectrum. In other words, if the umbilical cord is immediately cut off, part of the child’s natural immunity is deliberately being denied.

Why ? A child that does not initially reach full immunity will likely have many health problems throughout his life. This in turn means that “meds” can now tell parents that their child needs shots, pills, mixtures, and surgery. The more children and unhealthy people, the more patient-patient “medicine”. Nothing personal, just business.

The umbilical cord should NOT be cut 1 HOUR AFTER BIRTH. The “doctors” don’t think about this. For all the fictional reasons they want this to end as soon as possible. Medical practice wants the umbilical cord and tendon to remain as cool as possible.

Now the question: why do drugs need a fresh bed and umbilical cord? Expensive medical and cosmetic preparations are made from their fabrics. This is one of the main reasons why medical practice does not want people to give birth at home in a comfortable and familiar atmosphere. If more and more people were doing it anyway, drugs would lose an important source of income. ”

“This article is aimed not only to educate pregnant women and fathers, but also cosmetic enthusiasts who, in their ignorance, in addition to any chemicals, apply their faces with these cosmetics.”

[Source: Kirill Repjew]

Comment ….

Helene Thibault

My daughter gave birth at Blainville birth center and the baby stayed with her for over an hour, still connected to the umbilical cord. When we cut it, the string was white and bloodless. Baby got everything he needed. I buried a bedding under a tree on my land to create a connection between child and Mother Earth.

Via Justyna Jeska

Pregnancy Criminalization in the US Is an “Avoidable Human Rights Crisis” | Truthout

The United States is in the midst of a completely avoidable human rights crisis,” a new report states.
— Read on truthout.org/articles/pregnancy-criminalization-in-the-u-s-is-an-avoidable-human-rights-crisis/

Watch out for the Narcissist Mother In Law

A very covert narcissist, it was years before she was openly hostile and witnessing the exchange , he did absolutely nothing .

It was so acute, so vulgar that I walked away, preferring to take a walk on the beach.. he followed. I recall saying , that I’d give him a divorce so he could be with his Mother.

He said ” I’ll divorce her , before I divorce you”. He had a lifetime of trauma bonding and confidential conversations with her , and in the end he targeted me for all the feminine energies that had not been kind to him, as I reflected his distortions back to him, the opportunity to have me disposed of arose and he ran with it.

No care for our sons, nor me, it was always about him and that hasn’t changed, it has gotten much worse.

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I Don’t Want Kids Because I Had A Dysfunctional Childhood, And There’s Nothing Wrong With That

I have known that I didn’t want to have kids for a long time. Like, a long time. My determination to eternally keep my womb as empty and barren as the surface of the moon predates the birth of both of Britney’s babies, the premiere of Gilmore Girls,…
— Read on www.bustle.com/articles/60944-i-dont-want-kids-because-i-had-a-dysfunctional-childhood-and-theres-nothing-wrong-with-that

Mother who lives like ‘1950s housewife’ believes her role is to look after the kids : Secret Life Of Mom

I too had a Mom who worked, 11 to 7 and I made it clear that I wanted to stay in home and raise what became 3 sons.

He had a Mom that had a career in the family business , type A achiever , doing all… I wasn’t geared that way , and the lack of response in raising our sons was acute .

I still feel women whose Mothering instincts are to be in home with children , perhaps until they are in school.

Like France , I’d like for American Moms to be supported by our government.. food, and much more … children deserve a Mom who has support from her partner from inception on..

Our sons had a skewed perspective from Dad , that he was the all knowing, all powerful as they were taught by him that money and his family were the power , and I was of little importance , just taking his money and not doing my job .

I was drained by his energy , his distorted character and his inability to change , to grow, to see what was needed without being told .

I was drugged into submission when out youngest was 6 .

A judge had ruled children did not need their Mom after age 6…

The control and keeping his social appearance, meant he had to demonize me , he had to win.

And then there was the therapist who stated in our 1st meeting . ” you are not a Mother anymore, fund something else to do “. Unfortunately, i was in a deep state of trauma , this

” professional ” ignored . He went on to hold a state head of psychological health !

Sadly there a lot of men who are in positions of power that do not accept the needs of a child and their Mom .

He totally missed the malignant , high conflict , intimate partner violence .

Nothing is more violent than targeting a Mom, and ignoring her adverse reactions to toxic RX , false diagnosis.

Very unfortunate that he took no interest in our children’s mental , physical , or emotional health , only winning , from his targeted wife.

Daily stories that make you smile, think, laugh, and cry a little.
— Read on secretlifeofmom.com/mother-lives-like-1950s-housewife/

Narcissist behavior in pregnancy

This video hardly touches the heartbreaking 💔 results of his detached behavior when I became pregnant .

I used to laugh at my weight gain, 60 lbs with our 1st , but I realized that it was sadness at being alone , on my own though married during the most exciting phase of adulthood, and knowing gods love and faith in me to be a mother.

At age 2/3 he finally became more interested .. as baby #2 arrived , he welcomed him as his ” brother ” .

All 3 sons deserved a Dad, not a friend , an uncle type , or “brother” .

youtube.com/shorts/O5ytqYECWqM

” We” are pregnant .

https://youtube.com/shorts/pNWwUCnDye8?si=83Zl1f8sITj2rGL-

Love yourself – Justin Bieber

So true !

I have dodged those in early awakening/ healing , because I did not want to take on their conflicts, nor have them involved in my clearing of past atrocities.

Mothers have seen me as a threat , a loss of control of their “ boy” who like Pete Pan , just did not want to grow up .

My Mom was neglectful, often in distorted energy , and I certainly felt her lack of caring for me through out my formative youth . She was non responsive for whatever reason, and that especially hurt when I was sick , began to menstruate, and educating me about boys and sex.. I did not have guidance in my home , did not feel love , nurture , protection , ie I did not feel I mattered . Without these vital knowledges , I was expected to leave home at 18, and I did, marring my 1st sexual partner , ashamed to not marry him, for lack of virginity for a marriage to someone else . He was all about his pleasure , and 9 months after I do s he was activated, never actually seeing was, and I felt it was time to break it off, and I did..

I am Thankful for the girlfriends and their Moms who helped guide me and my natural inclination not to be sexual . It was not with permission that I lost my virginity , it was a horrible experience and time did not create a more loving relationship, as he remained in his “ primal” energy .

I was more in my masculine energy for several years , and just withdrew after that ..

A very dear older female friend who was very wise , with whom I worked , told me years later that I had “ it “ , in my early 20 s and I didn’t really understand or grasp her intended meaning. I do now .

I have accepted my strengths , my energetic power , and am protective of it .

The masked man of distorted energy , who was my 3rd marriage held the energy of my Mom ; a sad fact I did not comprehend until after he abandoned me , after years of need , when I was toxicity drugged , and it was devastating to be aware each and every day that I did not mater, in normal ways . However , this had been showing up through out our marriage , especially in pregnancy and birth of our 3 sons .. He was busy , disassociated , neglectfully abusive , but allowed I wasn’t worthy of his time or care. I did begin to believe him as our family splintered , seeing this same disinterest evolve in our sons which was horrifying and has intensified during my recovery .

No support , no interest, in aiding me, I was their monster in the closet , their shame , and the targeted scapegoat for everything negative .

There have been many who have supported their views and mothered them , denigrating me , as the controller took overly vulnerable unhealed souls , in denial of the mother child bond that deserved healing . Comments of sympathy have been rare, one alluded to the financial abuse only, not the child psychological abuse I have been aware of since 1993 , as I noted the competition had amped up .

All this pleased ex MIL , who was not happy with her son’s choices , as his confidant and true partner , she then supported his getting out of a marriage or later a relationship that he place sole responsibility for failure on the other…

It is wonderful to acknowledge all this in a 3rd person perspective and observe the trauma bond that existed between past and his Mom, and how he influenced that trauma bond on our sins , with the help of a “ brother” psychiatrist.

I have been past , their past for over 2 decades , , yet accused of living in the past as I grieved the loss of our sons , my home, my health , my Mom, grandparents etc .

I won’t ever embrace another relationship that has these mother child unhealthy bonds …never ever .

He allowed his Mom to neglect me, abuse me , and spoke ill of me behind my back.. it was clearly the energy , almost always in her presence . That was deferred to our sons , noticeably , until he abandoned me and our sons , and then they were embraced as her daughters children were … never to degree of love and support .

It is vital to have a normally healthy self love ❤️, but too much ego or trauma is corruptive .

Lesson learned

Justin Bieber .. Love yourself …

https://youtu.be/pb4hWWMlFYg?si=jWiylrxZaJl5cgzn

Mom wins the clean room test of her kids . Yea Mom

In our Spotted Horsham Community Group, a post was shared from a mum who was tired of arguing with her teenage son about cleaning his room. She decided to sprinkle black rice in his room to make it look like mice droppings.⁣

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Another mum in the group responded with this:⁣

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“I just want to thank whoever posted about the mouse and black rice. I owe you big time. I’m having my house painted this week and I was sick of being mortified of my 18 yo sons room!⁣

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I am awful but I texted him and told him the painter just swore he saw a mouse and there’s droppings. He comes home and he was so upset and grossed out that he cleaned his room for four hours.⁣

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Leaves and texts me he is so sorry he will be mopping the floor in there and he will find it. If I wasn’t so happy and just got all my cups and spoons back I might feel a little guilty.⁣

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Oh and his sister is still cleaning her room because she doesn’t want it to come in her room next.😂🤣⁣

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Here’s a pic of my work- left it by the sand from his work boots and in the corner of the room and his cupboard.⁣

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I know I’m going to hell.⁣

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